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re: How many dates should

Posted on 12/22/19 at 8:40 am to
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56772 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 8:40 am to
quote:

Always be closing



1st place is a fruitful marriage
2nd place is pussy with a bit of heartbreak
3rd place is a lifetime of frustrating celibacy and anime pillows
Posted by RosyFinchBOYZ
Member since Oct 2017
427 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 8:44 am to
First, or I send her an invoice for her half of the bill the next morning.
Posted by Gusoline
Jacksonville, NC
Member since Dec 2013
11162 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 9:49 am to
ive been with quite a few. current girl and i waited until 1 month anniversary. It has gone much better than the typical 2nd-4th date smoosh.
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
116460 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 9:49 am to
Op sounds like a 15 year old boy
Posted by TulaneLSU
Member since Aug 2003
Member since Dec 2007
13680 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 9:50 am to
Sex is saved exclusively for marriage. No exceptions.
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 9:52 am to
If she is attracted to you, it won't take long.

If she holds out, move on and maybe see a cosmetologist.
Posted by NeonSunburst
Member since Oct 2010
2877 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:10 am to
And why is that?

Because here's the deal.

One date out, with his young son. One "date" at his house with my daughter and his kids. One date at my house alone. He hasn't attempted to hold my hand or kiss me, yet he texts me pretty steamy stuff.

I'm not a virgin, but I'm not a whore either.

I've been burned by jumping in to bed too soon and if protecting myself against being used again makes me sound immature, then so be it.

I just was curious what the norm is. Looks like there is none, so I'll just wait it out and see.
He says HE has too much going on to be in a relationship but it could be a potential relationship later and that he would sleep with me despite all that.
For me, I'm not a fukbud





Posted by chalmetteowl
Chalmette
Member since Jan 2008
55396 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:16 am to
the longer you make a guy wait, the less it's worth it
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61581 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:19 am to
quote:

One date out, with his young son. One "date" at his house with my daughter and his kids. One date at my house alone.
trashy
Posted by NeonSunburst
Member since Oct 2010
2877 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:23 am to
Yeah. I don't know about trashy but it's weird

Posted by Tri City Tigers
Member since Oct 2018
2343 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:34 am to
After 3 no's I go.
Posted by mrgreenpants
paisaland
Member since Mar 2018
1421 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:40 am to
quote:

After 3 no's I go.



same.

and i spend increasing less $$ with each date.


1st date.. we go out/dinner/whatever
2nd date.. my place...but i'll cook or order something
3rd date.. i'll go to her place...any more game/"no's" i'm out
Posted by jb4
Member since Apr 2013
14043 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:41 am to
Before the first date
Posted by BoxmanTiger
Ohio
Member since Dec 2013
666 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:43 am to
Based on what you just wrote you should end it and not sleep with him. My opinion.
Posted by davyjones
NELA
Member since Feb 2019
37468 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:44 am to
Before the first date to test for compatibility. If by chance not compatible, guess what? You save the money from being wasted on dead end date. It's fiscally responsible.
Posted by jamiegla1
Member since Aug 2016
7984 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:50 am to
Its been anywhere from 1 date to 4 months for me. Looking back, if there isn't anything physical after a couple dates, they're not that into you. Id say 6 dates is respectable.
Posted by NeonSunburst
Member since Oct 2010
2877 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:53 am to
Solid advice. Thanks!
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:54 am to
Depends on a lot of things. There's no magic number.
Posted by Chicken
Jackassistan
Member since Aug 2003
27703 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:55 am to
fix your thread title
Posted by jamiegla1
Member since Aug 2016
7984 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 10:56 am to
quote:

One date out, with his young son. One "date" at his house with my daughter and his kids.


this is the more concerning thing. why are the kids around so soon? They shouldn't be meeting any partners until all the holes have been violated
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