re: How many dates should

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And most of yall are virgins or whores, hoping some middle of the road people answer.

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I don't know if OP is a guy or girl but stop calling women whores!!! Men: you're girl is always going to be tempted to frick someone else just like you will always be tempted by other women. Women: stop making other women feel like whores for wanting everyone's, including yours, favorite thing - SEX!

The truth a woman's desire for sex is not that much different than an man. There are differences between men and women but all the BS around sex is BS that you learned. Sex is a primal need that we all have do yourself a favor and enjoy sex and work your towards unlearning the BS.

There is nothing wrong with sex on a first date and there's nothing wrong with waiting until you're married. Have sex when you both consent freely with no coercion. Be honest about your intentions and level of commitment. Understand, sex is best when your partner is a decent human being, and waiting or number of other partners doesn't make a human being decent or indecent. Be honest, don't judge, and allow your partner personal privacy by understanding that some things are none of your business.

It varies. My wife and I waited until marriage. About 19 months from time of first date. Then about 3 more months after the marriage to make sure she was comfortable.

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Do men agree that it's okay to wait? I mean ... what if it's 3 months. 4. Would a man wait that long?

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It’s okay to wait but, if I’ve been waiting more than a couple of months, we’re going to be nothing more than friends and it’s time to move on.