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re: How many dads are driven to suicide or other problems by custody fights?
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:39 am to To the Dome
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:39 am to To the Dome
quote:Classic.
If your dumb enough to get married then I have no sympathy
The lead singer for INXS committed suicide for this reason. Ex-wife was keeping him from seeing his children.
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:39 am to SlowFlowPro
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i'm going to give some free advice to people and tell you not to post your own personal stories on here about divorce
Very well said...... And a good idea. For those who are young.....
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:39 am to SlowFlowPro
Yup. It really is a friend of mine. His situation got me thinking and I thought it would be a good question to ask.
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:40 am to SlowFlowPro
I know what happens when you find out you are not the father!


This post was edited on 9/23/15 at 8:41 am
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:41 am to prplhze2000
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Buddy of mine is being put through the ringer by his witch of an exwife. Mommy went on the warpath.
There are two sides to every story. You are only hearing his side, so realize that you are getting his sanitized version. People don't go "evil witch" unprovoked. If they do, he should've seen that before he married her.
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:42 am to prplhze2000
Had a best friend, female, very intentional driven to suicide by a husband. Extremely sweet, soft-hearted, beautiful woman.
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:50 am to The First Cut
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There are two sides to every story. You are only hearing his side, so realize that you are getting his sanitized version. People don't go "evil witch" unprovoked. If they do, he should've seen that before he married her.
I know. Trust me, I know. However, I've seen her go on the warpath in other areas of her life such as business. I didn't want to get into the specifics on this post because what you say may be true in this case. However, it is a question I thought worth asking as I think it is rarely, if ever, discussed.
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:52 am to SlowFlowPro
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i'm going to give some free advice to people and tell you not to post your own personal stories on here about divorce
Seriously?? I give a snippet of what i've been through in the past to let this guy know he ain't alone in the bullshite struggle a lot guys deal with..And you feel the urge to interject??..
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:55 am to TheUnderDog
quote:So what was her m.o.? Did she just want the kid and the house? Did she just not want to be viewed as a skank and get knocked up by some low life loser?
Shes just an evil person. It didnt come out until I said "I Do""
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:56 am to BayouBengal0505
quote:If you aren't married to the chick, you do a dance on Maury. If you are, you look stupid and sad on Maury
I know what happens when you find out you are not the father!
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:58 am to prplhze2000
I knew a man years ago, who was actually on the winning end of his custody fight, but the entire stress and process and craziness of his ex just wore him down.....ate a bullet in front of his teenage daughter and new girlfriend. I really liked the guy, but hated him for doing this.....he was a selfish bastard for checking out this way. I see his daughter from time to time and always hug her a little longer than normal. She really went through some shite. I am sure there was some underlying mental issues present....at least that is what they always say, but honestly I never saw the first sign of it.
This post was edited on 9/23/15 at 9:02 am
Posted on 9/23/15 at 8:59 am to AUCE05
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like finding out the 2-3 year old isn't yours,
Hypothetically quite possibly i'd like to want to maybe probably kill a bitch over this.
Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:35 am to Chad504boy
got to love contract law.
Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:49 am to Chad504boy
The guy that I was talking about found out his wife was cheating, and decided to get his 2 year old checked. Wasn't his. He decided he didn't want to continue raising the child. Got a divorce, but she claimed he knew. Courts made him own it.
She is a black widow type. Fine as hell.
Posted on 9/23/15 at 9:58 am to AUCE05
I got another one. People in my line of work travel 80% of the year, so divorce is common. Guy I work with was married, two kids, normal shite. Well, his wife was cheating and got pregnant. No big deal, so he divorced her. The funny thing, her lover was a loser with no job, so the judge made him retain her on his medical insurance while she was pregnant. 
Posted on 9/23/15 at 10:01 am to prplhze2000
I've been through this exact scenario except my kids were babies. My ex played the system. I also found out much later that her parents were personal friends with the judge. It almost destroyed me. They damn sure tried. I still despise them all.
Posted on 9/23/15 at 10:06 am to bencoleman
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I also found out much later that her parents were personal friends with the judge.
Still don't know how this is possible but a similar thing happened to a friend of mine....and they knew at the time the judge was partial to his ex. I am still blown away that it was possible for the judge to not recuse himself. IDK exact details but my friend estimated he spent close to 200k after it was all over.
Posted on 9/23/15 at 10:09 am to SlowFlowPro
quote:well the judge that did nothing after someone admited to driving drunk with the kids should be called out. that judge is a POS if everything that was said was true.
i'm going to give some free advice to people and tell you not to post your own personal stories on here about divorce
the last thing you want is to have to discuss with a judge why you're saying x, y, or z negative things about a current custody case
your anonymity on here only goes so far
Posted on 9/23/15 at 10:12 am to The First Cut
quote:Nope...
There are two sides to every story.
there are 3 sides to every story. His, Hers, and the truth.
Posted on 9/23/15 at 10:14 am to AUCE05
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her lover was a loser with no job, so the judge made him retain her on his medical insurance while she was pregnant
how the frick is this even possible? the world is mad.
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