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re: How long did you date your SO before tying the knot?

Posted on 11/9/18 at 11:52 am to
Posted by LanierSpots
Gulf of America / Sarasota FL
Member since Sep 2010
71796 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 11:52 am to
Dated 11th and 12th grade of high school. Married 3 months after graduation


Posted by Mr Perfect
Member since Mar 2010
17836 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 11:53 am to
No wonder the divorce rate is over 40% with all these early engagements.

Damn
Posted by al_cajun
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2017
2442 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 11:53 am to
7 years and still haven’t taken the plunge
Posted by stelly1025
Lafayette
Member since May 2012
10381 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 11:54 am to
5 years...
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
21072 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 11:55 am to
3 years. Mostly due to a 1 year stint of long distance while I finished undergrad.
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
20958 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 12:11 pm to
Dated my ex for 4 years before getting engaged, because I wanted to make sure. Moral to the story: it doesn't matter how long you date someone. Women are excellent liars.
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
32778 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 12:26 pm to
In gonna be forever single, who else is with me?
Posted by Rougaroux
Madisonville
Member since Feb 2017
723 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 12:26 pm to
7 years
Posted by DeepBlueSea
Member since Jan 2018
824 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 12:26 pm to
quote:

2 months. Because we didn’t date for long, not many believed that our marriage would make it past a year, but here we are 27 years and two grown kids later and still gettin’ it.


Congrats! That's no easy feat, but I like to think it's worth it.

As for us, we dated for 2-ish years (minus a brief intermission ) before we got engaged. Got married 10 months later, so all told it was just over 3 years from first date to wedding.

In hindsight I feel like we were too young to get married even when we did, and if our kids want to get married someday I hope they wait until they have a little more life experience. But I can't say it didn't work out for us, considering we're still happy and in it for the long haul 18 years later.
Posted by nicholastiger
Member since Jan 2004
57197 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 12:30 pm to
dated two years, pretty much lived together for 6 months before married to save money, made no sense to continue to pay for her apartment at the time

got engaged and married six months later

had first kid a year after that
Posted by Cotten
Tennessee
Member since Jan 2018
1875 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 12:52 pm to
10 months dating, 13 months engaged.

Edit: We bought a home, lived together and had combined bank accounts most of our engagement. We’ve worked together since we met so despite the short dating and engagement timeline we knew each other very well.
This post was edited on 11/9/18 at 12:55 pm
Posted by 19
Flux Capacitor, Fluxing
Member since Nov 2007
35690 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 1:10 pm to
I met Mrs 19 at work in 2000...met up again, both with different companies in Oct 2002, first date was that weekend, married Jan 3, 2003.
Still going 15 years and two little 9.5s later...
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 1:12 pm to
4 months.

Heard quite a bit of "You haven't known each other long enough" and "the age difference is too much"

14 years later, we're happily ever after.
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
62122 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 1:15 pm to
quote:

but here we are 27 years and two grown kids later and still gettin’ it.


Pics?
Posted by MissyTiger
Member since Nov 2018
538 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 1:16 pm to
My husband asked me after 5 months. We actually married a year later.
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 1:24 pm to
My brother dated his girl for 10 years before marrying her. Jesus Christ he really wanted to make sure it was going to work out before he took the plunge. Their damn house they bought was half paid off before their wedding vows were exchanged LOL
Posted by GeorgePaton
God's Country
Member since May 2017
5963 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 1:36 pm to
8 months. Going on 51 years. Looking at her laying next to my new granddaughter last night. They were both napping. She's still absolutely gorgeous.

Makes a killer chicken and sausage gumbo. Will have her gumbo this weekend while watching LSU-Arky game.
This post was edited on 11/9/18 at 1:39 pm
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
60208 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 1:46 pm to
Met in the middle of May, proposed on Jan 1, married at the beginning of July. We've been married just under 4.5 years but are solid as a rock.

Normally such a quick turn-around doesn't work out but we are both a bit older than the average newlyweds and thus were more settled (first marriage for both of us). We both knew what we were wanting in a mate and were fine with remaining single until/unless we found what we were each looking for in another person.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 1:48 pm to
5 years.

Had a dog for 3.

Lived together for 2.

14 month engagement.

I recommend all of those things to anyone who asks about when they should get married (and lots of premarital sex).


ETA:

Just had 4th anniversary and welcomed our first child 2 months ago.
This post was edited on 11/9/18 at 1:50 pm
Posted by TexasTiger89
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2005
26983 posts
Posted on 11/9/18 at 1:50 pm to
1 year dating and 1 year engaged. Married 27 years.
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