re: How long did you date before getting engaged?

Little over 2 years, then engaged a year and a half.

4 years. 11 months.

Dated 6 years. Engaged a year and a half. Lived together for 5 years before getting married.

Dated - 2 years 3 months
Engaged - 2 years 11 months
Married - 6 days & counting

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This shite right here is why people hate women.... You weren't going anywhere. Did his attitude toward you change? Was he mean to you? Why would you leave someone you are willing and wanting to marry because he is in a different timeline. If you want him to propose to you that means you want to spend the rest of your life with him, but you are gonna throw that away because "I'm getting old".

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To be fair...I spent 9 years with a guy "waiting" to find out he never had any intention on marrying me. He gave me a ring and proposed to basically "buy more time" to hopefully convince me to his side of thinking on marriage(he never wanted to get married).


So, after going through that and wasting my 20s on someone that was feeding me lies the entire time, it is only natural that I would not be made a fool a second time around. My husband knew this pretty early on when we started dating. Also, I was mostly joking with my post. My husband and I had seriously discussed marriage a good bit the second/third year we were dating. At that time things were shaky at his work so he wanted to get a little more financially secure so he could afford a ring, etc. I think he had this number set in his head of how much he wanted to spend on my engagement ring and he didn't want to ask until he had saved that amount. I was the one to basically tell him I would rather us just be engaged and move forward together in life...that I didn't need nor expect an expensive ring. He's even admitted if things had been better financially then...he would have proposed much sooner than he did.

For when you wake up....SBP


And sweet baby, Dillon is now a FAB 5'r, joining Les, Tino & Saint.

upcoming o-t weddings

festus and his bug-eyed fiancee
dillon & paige (these 2 are better looking than brad n angie)
dw6pack & teech
muppet & whatever posters wife he wants next
boo & hc86 (will renew their vows)
evil lil thang and that get the net dude
jones & LL (pending LL's continued weight loss)
berg & alexa
not link (poor link )
jmcs and some poor unsuspecting dude (if she can pull it off)

6yrs dating, and then 1 year engaged.

my ex wife was a few years older than me...we lived together for around a year and were married for about 2 1/2 years...yes, i'd kill to get a redo on those few years.

Aubrey is a better fit?

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evil lil thang and that get the net dude

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Would