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re: How did you catch your SO/Spouse cheating on you?

Posted on 9/30/15 at 8:45 am to
Posted by Konkey Dong
Member since Aug 2013
2280 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 8:45 am to
I caught mine when she got pregnant while we was "taking a break". Apparently taking a break doesn't mean taking a break from the dick. Who knew
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
14390 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 8:48 am to
After 4 years of marriage, got hit with a 'I want a divorce' out of nowhere. She started acting irrationally after that and moved out 2 weeks later. She was re-married within three months so I put two and two together.
Posted by htownjeep
Republic of Texas
Member since Jun 2005
7669 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 9:10 am to
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After 4 years of marriage, got hit with a 'I want a divorce' out of nowhere. She started acting irrationally after that and moved out 2 weeks later. She was re-married within three months so I put two and two together.
You didn't catch shite. You just connected the dots after the fact.
Posted by link
Member since Feb 2009
19936 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 9:13 am to
i gave her an STD that i got from some girl at work, but she never confronted me about it. figured it probably meant that she thought she caught it from whoring around on me, so i dumped her arse.
This post was edited on 9/30/15 at 11:13 am
Posted by SSpaniel
Germantown
Member since Feb 2013
29658 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 9:14 am to
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Apparently taking a break doesn't mean taking a break from the dick.


Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17427 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 9:15 am to
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This post was edited on 9/30/15 at 1:27 pm
Posted by SmackoverHawg
Member since Oct 2011
28961 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 9:17 am to
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74% of men and 68% of women would have an affair if it was assured they could not get caught.

And that's at the time they were questioned. EVERYBODY goes through phases. If you ever think your wife hasn't or won't, you're wrong. Doesn't mean she will. The opportunity has to be there, and women are generally more risk averse than men. But more educated women with their own money are much more likely to do it since they are not as dependent on hubbie. Like I said, I hear shite from people that never makes it public. MOST affairs are handled in private and even close friends and family never hear. Many if not most couples work through them.

I've said it before and I'll say it again...I my wife getting dicked by someone else is the WORST thing that ever happens in my life, I will take it. There are far bigger things to worry about. And I'm not so insecure that it's even bother me that much. Main thing I'd be pissed about is all the pussy I've passed up over the years. shite if I could get a binding deal with the universe that her banging some dude would be the absolute worst thing ever in my life and my kids and grandkids would grow to an old age healthy and happen...I'd hold her damn legs apart and towel his damn forehead if he got sweaty. Not that I've thought about it or that even semi turned me on. Just sayin'. Put it all into perspective people.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
61351 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 9:22 am to
I don't understand people marrying young anymore. 18-25 are your most formative years mentally, what you want in a spouse goes 180 degrees in that 7 years. Speaking from experience. i broke up with a long time girlfriend because of this reason. When we started dating (19) we were in love and I couldn't imagine ever loving anyone else. Fast forward three years and we couldn't imagine marrying each other and the thought of it literally sickened me.

Young marriages are just asking for trouble.
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17427 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 9:31 am to
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Young marriages are just asking for trouble.


agreed! I was in the military. Young military people tend to think they are a little more "grown up" than they actually are. Plus the military incentivized marriage through pay raises and housing benefits. At the time you do not recognize the potential pitfalls because you are young, dumb, and invincible.
This post was edited on 9/30/15 at 9:33 am
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59822 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 10:50 am to
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Tigeralum2008


Wow. Sorry to hear about this. That sucks.
Posted by thejudge
Westlake, LA
Member since Sep 2009
14741 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 11:22 am to
When she farted it smelled like Vaseline....



Posted by cheesesteak501
The South
Member since Mar 2014
3152 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 11:39 am to
I've never read so many posts in a thread before. I have a headache now. Oh, and women suck!
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
130235 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 11:39 am to
I found out when I came home from work on a Wednesday and there was a note attached to the front door of the house, "I'm tired of living for everyone else, I want to live for me". Puzzled by the text, I opened the door to my home that I left 11 hours earlier to go to work, and found an almost completely unfurnished home, and would later find an empty bank account.

When I went searching for her at her parents house, they told me she had been seeing an old boyfriend from high school for a while. :devastated:
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 11:42 am to
What a selfish count.
Posted by Rhino5
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2014
30186 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 11:42 am to
God what a depressing thread.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
69063 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 11:43 am to
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I don't understand people marrying young anymore. 18-25 are your most formative years mentally, what you want in a spouse goes 180 degrees in that 7 years. Speaking from experience. i broke up with a long time girlfriend because of this reason. When we started dating (19) we were in love and I couldn't imagine ever loving anyone else. Fast forward three years and we couldn't imagine marrying each other and the thought of it literally sickened me.

Young marriages are just asking for trouble.


I agree that many people who marry young do end up splitting up. But why is that so? Historically speaking, people have always married young. Look back through the centuries and you'll see that in the past before divorce rates started going up, more people married young in the past than they do now. So that leaves one question... What's changed?
Posted by Konkey Dong
Member since Aug 2013
2280 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 11:44 am to
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What's changed?


social media and BBC
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
57861 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 11:44 am to
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What's changed?
unlike the 1950s, you're not a social pariah/whore for getting a divorce .

eta: and this

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The reasons people marry, longer life spans, women don't need men for security as much anymore, courts will give the woman everything including the children no matter the circumstances of the divorce. I could go on and on.

This post was edited on 9/30/15 at 11:48 am
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 11:46 am to
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So that leaves one question... What's changed?


The reasons people marry, longer life spans, women don't need men for security as much anymore, courts will give the woman everything including the children no matter the circumstances of the divorce. I could go on and on.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
71485 posts
Posted on 9/30/15 at 11:46 am to
Cheating is trashy
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