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re: Have women bitten off more than they can chew w/(family courts/marriage/divorce)
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:16 am to oogabooga68
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:16 am to oogabooga68
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That exists only in your mind.
We love women who aren't garbage human beings....
Yep, some dudes worship women, they're a huge part of the problem.
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Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:17 am to Saskwatch
If a man can’t afford or doesn’t want kids, why would he want a marriage? A marriage is a bilateral agreement that can be ended unilaterally with disastrous consequences for the man. Why would he do that unless he is 100% sure that he wants to raise children immediately with that woman? It helps men be more picky.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:17 am to oogabooga68
quote:the same baseless assertion as he is making
Based on what?
But mine is paired with the idea that men are horrible at realizing their own faults and simply cast blame to the women. You know, the same premise that is being said about women ITT.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:18 am to kingbob
Please watch this.
Not kidding, it's a great understanding of the difference between men and women.
The first time my wife saw the video she almost peed herself:
Its not about the nail....
Not kidding, it's a great understanding of the difference between men and women.
The first time my wife saw the video she almost peed herself:
Its not about the nail....
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:21 am to kingbob
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Why would he do that unless he is 100% sure that he wants to raise children immediately with that woman? It helps men be more picky.
I agree. What my comment was mostly about is that if you pick up on things that may be a reason you consider divorce down the road then you need to split. You can't enter into marriage being uncertain of what you can and can't accept about your companion.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:22 am to LouisianaLady
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But my thing is -- Assuming your parents gave you the wedding, why would you want to waste it on the person that's not your forever person? Like, they're probably not giving you another wedding.
Scarcity mindset and short-term thinking.
People do really stupid shite for short-term goals.
They probably figure they may not get the opportunity again (or at least within their required vanity/beauty level).
I don't know if I've ever met or experienced this through a friend, but holy shite that would be crazy. I agree with you 100% though it's fricking over your family and for what? The experience? Don't get me started on "muh experiences" and all that toxicity
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:22 am to Displaced
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But mine is paired with the idea that men are horrible at realizing their own faults and simply cast blame to the women
Well see, that's where you're wrong.
Men do plenty of introspection, we just aren't overt pussies about it.
At night, when it's quiet and our thoughts are our own, we most definitely ponder our own shortcomings.
The difference is men don't have a population of Incels and white-knights running interference for us, nor do we have a Media machine that constantly paints us as infallible, beautiful Superheros.
The BAWS "bitching" on this thread are just seeking an outlet.
I feel bad for them, but thru their pain it makes me appreciate the good thing I have even more.
Somehow it twists your panties that these fellows are engaging in a form of healing therapy by venting....maybe you should just give them their "safe space" as you all call it....
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:23 am to Displaced
I would argue that men are more aware of their flaws than women, because they are actually being made aware of their flaws and having to face consequences for them. Women right now, are not facing the same consequences for their actions and mindsets as men are. As such, it is much more difficult for women to receive any kind of negative feedback to understand that there is any problem in the first place that they are contributing to. Thus, it is simply easier to blame men.
Women have a tremendous capacity to justify their actions to each other and themselves. Men sometimes make excuses, but the culture of men is to accept responsibility and own up to it. Men will tell each other that they f$&ked up and to fix shite. Women tend to gas each other up and be supportive of each other’s mistakes.
That difference in feedback causes men to be introspective and self-aware and women to be unaware of their flaws.
Women have a tremendous capacity to justify their actions to each other and themselves. Men sometimes make excuses, but the culture of men is to accept responsibility and own up to it. Men will tell each other that they f$&ked up and to fix shite. Women tend to gas each other up and be supportive of each other’s mistakes.
That difference in feedback causes men to be introspective and self-aware and women to be unaware of their flaws.
This post was edited on 1/27/23 at 11:33 am
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:23 am to SlowFlowPro
quote:it’s so bad
Don't get me started on "muh experiences" and all that toxicity
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:23 am to kingbob
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If a man can’t afford or doesn’t want kids, why would he want a marriage
Agree. Without kids, marriage is backwards.
Its my guess most do it for economic reasons, which explains the over abundance of divorces.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:25 am to SlowFlowPro
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for what? The experience?
Many women are brainwashed from an early age in regards to "the wedding", but the same people doing that brainwashing don't give a damn about the actual marriage.
In the mind of many of these Princesses, "her special day" is the end destination, not the beginning of the journey.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:28 am to oogabooga68
quote:ponder all you want. That laundry pile ain't getting any smaller.
At night, when it's quiet and our thoughts are our own, we most definitely ponder our own shortcomings.
quote:do they want to know the fix or are they just describing how they feel about "the nail?"
The BAWS "bitching" on this thread are just seeking an outlet.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:30 am to burger bearcat
One thing I have observed is that the post-divorce lifestyle kind of fails to live up to expectations for women, at least when kids are involved. Yeah, you get a big check every month, but it doesn't really exceed or even cover what the kids cost, no matter how nominally large it looks. Oh, and good luck getting an inflation adjustment on that.
Divorced moms also have two big, red scarlet letters on them that scare off decent guys. All in all, I think men usually win in divorce nowadays, especially if the mom is the kind of person they feel OK giving up custody to.
Divorced moms also have two big, red scarlet letters on them that scare off decent guys. All in all, I think men usually win in divorce nowadays, especially if the mom is the kind of person they feel OK giving up custody to.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:33 am to Displaced
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occasionally buy their partner gifts, take the kid to and from their after-school activities, volunteer at church, do a significant share of household chores, etc. However, apparently, that isn’t enough because women are, in high volumes, divorcing men who do all of these things.
this is the part I do not believe.
I'm not even the only father in my immediate friend group that did all those things and subsequently were awarded primary custody of the kids following divorce.
Doing all of that on your own makes you realize that the risks of marriage often aren't worth it for anything other than raising children, and women simply pass from the payroll of their fathers/the state to that of their husbands, and back again once they are faced with adversity or "unhappiness".
Of course, there are plenty of those who remain happily married in a loving relationship with their spouse. But the likelihood of that happening going forward is becoming riskier/less likely, and even family history and socioeconomic status are no longer as green a flag as they used to be.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:33 am to oogabooga68
quote:and the problem with this mindset is the dumb broad thinks everything is about her, and the husband should do everything to make her happy - and when there are difficulties, she just gives up
In the mind of many of these Princesses, "her special day" is the end destination, not the beginning of the journey.
There are a few men like that, too, but I think it’s an extreme and opposite reaction to how marriages used to be
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:33 am to olgoi khorkhoi
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What is "breadwinner money"?
I'm not talking about some 400 thousand dollar a year, working Wall Street, flying first class, and being comfortable. I'm talking liquid. Rich enough to have your own jet. Rich enough not to waste time. 50-100 million dollars. A player. Or nothing.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:33 am to USMEagles
I don’t find that divorce is a scarlet letter for women. However, having kids is a big scarlet letter for women, whether they were married or not.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:35 am to Displaced
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do they want to know the fix or are they just describing how they feel about "the nail?"
You're a rando on Social Media, you can't provide a "fix".
Venting to a sympathetic audience in an otherwise hostile world is sometimes part of "the fix".
99.99999% of the world agrees with Incels like you, yet you're obsessing over one little ole' thread where these BAWS get to vent.
You should probably do a little soul-searching, check out and let these fellas heal.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:36 am to Saskwatch
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If you're deciding factor on getting married is how costly a divorce is then you shouldn't consider marrying that person. Destined for failure if you are already considering that consequence.
In 2023, this needs to be at the top of every man's mind, no matter how much you think you and your fiance love each other.
Posted on 1/27/23 at 11:37 am to oogabooga68
quote:tell me more about the nail.
Venting to a sympathetic audience in an otherwise hostile world is sometimes part of "the fix".
quote:
99.99999% of the world agrees with Incels like you, yet you're obsessing over one little ole' thread where these BAWS get to vent.
quote:heal away through your next 2 marriages, baws
You should probably do a little soul-searching, check out and let these fellas heal.
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