re: Have women bitten off more than they can chew w/(family courts/marriage/divorce)

Love my freedom too much to be tied down

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So she whored herself out to a guy that whelped her, he never gave a dime, she scored the lottery with you, then whored herself out again after she stole your house? Sounds about right.

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He said he lives in a barn. Let’s not get ahead of ourselves…

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I don’t really care if they’ve “f$&ked around”, but I do care about the consequences that tend to arise from that:

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Yeah. I don't see any reason why a 30 year old women who has had a dozen sexual partners should be any more psychologically affected by that than a man of the same age with the same number of partners.

It's all about the individual and their ability or inability to let go of past experiences and not compare their spouse to those.

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Yeah, there is something that can be done alright…I wouldn’t be paying the next 5 grand in child support owed until we are all squared up again, at which point I would resume my regularly scheduled monthly payments

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They'll put your arse in jail. I overpaid for 2 years and they told me to get fricked when I asked for an adjustment. Add it to the reasons Louisiana is a shithole.

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Ah, so it’s all about networking with the dads and grandpas and charming the grandmas so they can play matchmaker for you? That makes a lot of sense. No one has ever explained it that way.

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You may laugh but it is true. Their generation hates seeing singles in their late 20’s/30’s and will jump through some hoops for you if they think you are a legit prospect.

The more bad relationships someone has, the more emotional scars they tend to develop. Those scars tend to result in coping mechanisms that can be extremely toxic or benign. However, every role of the dice is another opportunity to develop those. Women tend to have a much greater emotional attachment to sex than do men. As such, the odds of a woman developing an emotional scar from a casual fling are significantly higher than a man in the same situation. A woman with a high body count, thus, has more opportunities to develop emotional scars and toxic coping mechanisms than does a similarly high count man, but also exponentially more than a low body count woman.

Also, the risks of a pregnancy and STD are significantly higher the more sex with more partners occurs.

I don’t want to raise someone else’s child.

I don’t want an STD.

I want someone with healthier coping mechanisms because I took a lot of time and money in therapy to actually work out my issues and develop healthy habits.

A high body count doesn’t necessarily mean these things, but it gives a higher likelihood. Like I said, I don’t judge based on the body count, but I do judge based on consequences which often arise from a high body count.

Threads like this make me feel so much better about my 35 year old still-single-arse self

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3/4 of these broads under 35 can't clean or cook and half of them have tattoos and vape.

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have a 142nd upvote sir..

why buy the cow?

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But it still sad to me that our government and court systems seem to almost be encouraging young people from having families. And scaring men away from marriage due to the "rigged" nature of how divorce turns out.

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I dont see this as a govt issue. This is a human nature issue, there are plenty of folks with no interest in marriage or parenthood. I cant imagine being 40 and solo, but that is me.