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re: Has anyone made it work with a liberal partner?

Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:45 am to
Posted by Cregg
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:45 am to
I did then COVID happened. She became a full blown loon and I got the frick out.
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:46 am to
Conservative chicks are generally freakier in the bedroom and at least attempt to cook
Posted by LouisianaLady
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:47 am to
I was fairly left leaning, but not a psycho, for many years of our relationship. My husband was not, but he was fairly apolitical so it wasn't a thing.

Then he became political. We argued a good bit from 2016-2019, but again.. I wasn't a crazy pants. And while the left was annoying back then, they weren't the animal they are now.

Then 2020 happened. Between Covid and the summer of love, I fell so hard right it was like whiplash. Now I'm further right than I ever was left. I originally found the conservative subreddit because I was Googling around trying to find people that weren't complete lunatics on Covid. I ended up sticking around for all of the other discussions, and then the rioting happened. I never left.

So I guess I can thank Reddit.
This post was edited on 10/13/23 at 10:49 am
Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:48 am to
If she’s dumb enough to think socialism is a good idea, you should be smart enough to realize that bitch is retarded.
Posted by supatigah
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:48 am to
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Her liberalism is a shallow fashion trend that will wear off after she lives with you and has kids.



right
more a product of her environment and social circle than an actual belief system

when she gets away from her activist friends her opinions will likely go back to center

I would be more concerned with being in a relationship with such a conformist
Posted by SpidermanTUba
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:49 am to
My girlfriend is a liberal. She's a model. It works great. Unfortunately we don't see each other much, she lives in Oklahoma.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:50 am to
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"Party for Socialism and Liberation" events


Shes bat shite crazy
Posted by chinhoyang
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:51 am to
I would be more concerned about how easily influenced she is.

Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:52 am to
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How good is the sex?

This is a Catch-22 situation. As she gets more liberal, the crazy will take hold and then the sex will be better than ever. How much crazy pussy can one handle before pulling the ejection seat? Don't fly too close to the sun.
Posted by tide06
Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:53 am to
A casual liberal/conservative can coexist with an opposite minded person because it’s not really a deeply seated part of their sense of self.

Someone who is a socialist and attending rallies is very likely heavily personally invested in the mindset and culture that accompanies the left wing in 2023 and anything that challenges that will be viewed as a threat to their inner values.

Beyond that those belief structures transcend politics. It will define how she frames the actions in her personal life and cause you two to fight when she comes back because she will see almost everything in a different way than you do.

These situations usually only go one of two ways: either someone gets onboard with the others politics or the two find themselves in constant conflict and acrimony.

Your best case if you stick around and don’t change is a guarded detente in which neither side is happy but refuses to address the issues out of loyalty and sentimentality for how they once viewed the other. Think of many of the people you know in unhappy marriages and realize that is basically your best case scenario unless someone changes their core identity here.

TLDR: it’s a really bad idea because she’s not a good fit for you.
This post was edited on 10/13/23 at 10:54 am
Posted by blueridgeTiger
Granbury, TX
Member since Jun 2004
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:53 am to
I had a six month relationship with a far left liberal woman. We never lived together so we could get away from each other when we needed. We never discussed politics and never watched newscasts together, but eventually we both saw this relationship was going nowhere and split amicably. (She gave the best BJs I ever had!)
Posted by Funky Tide 8
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:53 am to
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right
more a product of her environment and social circle than an actual belief system

when she gets away from her activist friends her opinions will likely go back to center


Maybe, but my observations have been that once they take that pill, they don't ever wake up.
Posted by tide06
Member since Oct 2011
16769 posts
Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:56 am to
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when she gets away from her activist friends her opinions will likely go back to center I would be more concerned with being in a relationship with such a conformist

Only if the OP is a true alpha personality and can impose his structure on her in a way that doesn’t cause her to rebel.

There aren’t many strong alphas running around even on the OT board.
Posted by Cregg
Orange Beach
Member since Jul 2017
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 10:56 am to
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As she gets more liberal, the crazy will take hold and then the sex will be better than ever.


Yeah you weren't with a loon when COVID was going on
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 11:00 am to
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Conservative chicks are generally freakier in the bedroom


No they aren't.


I dated a girl that's probably a moderate liberal and it wouldn't have worked out long term. We're still really good friends, but she's just too into politics and current events for me. Aside from the character I play on here, I couldn't give a shite less about these kind of things when it comes to IRL.
Posted by Cregg
Orange Beach
Member since Jul 2017
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 11:01 am to
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I dated a girl that's probably a moderate liberal and it wouldn't have worked out long term. We're still really good friends, but she's just too into politics and current events for me. Aside from the character I play on here, I couldn't give a shite less about these kind of things when it comes to IRL.


You are so full of shite
Posted by texn
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 11:01 am to
Do you want this woman raising/indoctrinating your children?
Posted by Lsupimp
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Posted on 10/13/23 at 11:02 am to
Being a Progressive is proof that a person doesn't understand human nature, is a social conformist, is ignorant of history, believes that mankind does not share a universal struggle (group victimology) and is highly unlikely to confuse the sacred with the profane and vice versa. That's just a starter. And while I do find the non-rigidity and acceptance of grey areas VERY attractive, I can find that with a more Libertarian woman who doesn't think Man (government) is God.

It's taken me a while to just say no to attractive Lefty chicks, but for me it's now a non-starter. You start by definition, on unfirm ground. It's a GIGANTIC red flag that the same messiness she brings to her politics she is likely to bring to her personal life. The sad truth is that the rage and discontent and entitlement and grievance that is innate in those who are plugged into the Progressive Hive Mind bleeds over into every other aspect of their lives.

A moderate woman that disagrees on the size and scope of government? No problem. I yield to that. I've recently had that and am fine with it. I don't need someone to adopt my views, just not to be a Progressive nut. And a libertarian-DNGASF-type hippy, barefooted artistic chick who loves weird music and dances like Elaine from Seinfeld? I'll get in line for that. I DIG art world literate chicks with an old-school personal freedom oriented POV, provided they aren't all in on The Woke insanity.

Dump her. Socialism is about coercion and control of others, and a window into her soul. She's too messy and will bring you both down.
Posted by Geauxld Finger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2005
32268 posts
Posted on 10/13/23 at 11:03 am to
Plenty of good women down there in Florida. Get out while you can baw. That’s the reddest red flag you can get these days
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
27290 posts
Posted on 10/13/23 at 11:03 am to
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You are so full of shite


There's a whole big old world outside of this place. No doubt many of the people I rile up on here would get along with me just fine in reality.
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