re: Guys who got divorced with kids; how do you deal with being away from your kids?

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We control very few things in life but one is how much we invest in being a good parent.

Time spent might not be what we want, but use and effort during that time is something we can control.

There is peace in doing what you can with what you have.

Some people shouldn't get married, but they do and bring children into the crap. Marriage isn't a high school relationship. That's why you say vows before God. I understand that adultery is the only reason that a divorce should be granted and it's usually the main cause. If you marry a whore who has fricked all kinds of dudes she usually remains a whore. Our society is trash, and the divorce rate shows it. Immature adults who can't grow up and act like it's high school and college, but now kids are involved. I hate it for children. Has to mess them up. Thank God I grew up in a structured home with parents who loved each other, and I've done the same.

It hurts like hell in the beginning but you eventually come around. New pussy lightens the hurt and speeds up the grieving process.