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re: Graph: How most couples meet through the decades

Posted on 10/10/24 at 9:55 am to
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
107243 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 9:55 am to
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Well about 50% who got married pre-“online” got divorced, and most of those wish they had never met their former spouse.

So maybe this is a good thing.


Is there any evidence showing these online hookup marriages are more sustainable, or is there even enough of a sample to determine at this point?

Not casting aspersions either way, I'm just generally curious.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
51451 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 9:55 am to
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How many second marriages last longer than the first for both parties?

Marriage rates are also way down in the past 50 years.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48554 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 9:58 am to
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They had ways. My parents got divorced in the late 80's and my mom was meeting people through Prodigy singles ads.


Spring Break of 1990 I was 14. One day I rode my bike across town to visit this girl I liked.

I can still remember her introducing me to her mom. She looked up from the computer monitor for about 5 seconds to say hello.
She was glued to the computer screen chatting with people on Prodigy.

Posted by Thracken13
Aft Cargo Hold of Serenity
Member since Feb 2010
18120 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 9:59 am to
I met my wife online gaming playing World of Warcraft - been together 14 year, married for 11 as of last week.

people will laugh at it, but it worked for us
Posted by The Eric
Member since Sep 2008
22677 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 10:00 am to
The world is a big place. I don’t see an issue with people meeting online.
Posted by RanchoLaPuerto
Jena
Member since Aug 2023
619 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 10:00 am to
quote:

Is there any evidence showing these online hookup marriages are more sustainable, or is there even enough of a sample to determine at this point?


Good question. I don’t know.

All I am saying is that the old way had a pretty high failure rate.
Posted by RandySavage
Member since May 2012
33465 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 10:03 am to
What if you were in college and met through friends at a bar?
Posted by BayouBlitz
Member since Aug 2007
18126 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 10:07 am to
No church?
Posted by sta4ever
Member since Aug 2014
16927 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 10:10 am to
I think it should be more frowned upon to try meeting someone in a bar than online lol. I don’t want a women who’s getting shitfaced and grinding on a bunch of dudes dicks. I’ve always thought it’s kinda trashy.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
62905 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 10:12 am to
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Crazy that people aren't meeting people through mutual friends anymore - that's hard to comprehend - How can you rather meet a stranger off the internet based off some pictures and a couple of text messages versus being set-up through trusted friends. Glad I'm not in the dating scene - last thing I'd want to do is deal with dating via an app.


Broken families and communities that would have typically filtered dating choices have led to this. Church girls don't date church guys, they date secular guys for money/looks reason. Church isn't a guide for life, it's a therapy to make one feel better.

Men trying to adapt to an increasingly female oriented world de-fanged them and made them unattractive.
Posted by TheWalrus
Land of the Hogs
Member since Dec 2012
44324 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 10:13 am to
I haven’t had a single date in my life that wasn’t from online.
Posted by SpotCheckBilly
Member since May 2020
7493 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 10:16 am to
Most all of the students that I see today have their head in their phones or are listening to ear pods. Actually talking to someone looks pretty rare.
Posted by GruntbyAssociation
Member since Jul 2013
6558 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 10:23 am to
Jerry Lee is that you?
This post was edited on 10/10/24 at 10:24 am
Posted by sqerty
AP
Member since May 2022
7221 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 10:55 am to
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neighbors


This is that high up there? Seems like more of an infidelity thing
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
8398 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 10:58 am to
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Same for women, the girl next door is now unattainable. She went from the cute girl in your town to now having options across the globe. The regular guy isn’t enough for her anymore and always looking for something better.


As Michael Sartain put it, “The prettiest girl in your town used to marry the local dentist or car dealer. Now she’s being flown out to Dubai for yacht parties with oil shieks”.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
58928 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 10:59 am to
Met my wife at Mamou Mardi Gras.

Not on your graph
Posted by hob
Member since Dec 2017
2281 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 11:10 am to
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What if you were in college and met through friends at a bar?


Met my wife while in college at Parlay's.

A friend was going to meet his new girlfriend at Parlay's and asked us to come along. We get there and the girl brought her friends. After a while the cute one comes up to me and says in her best Gentilly accent "Your friend is an a-hole". I agreed. The comeback was "Why do you hang out with assholes?". My reply was that her friend was dating him. If she really had a problem then she should go talk to her friend.

I then said we should go to the World's Fair next week and you can tell me how your friend takes the news.

I little while later she accepted the date. My first question while we were hanging out at the fair. "Am i still hanging out with assholes?"

Married 35 years.
Posted by Boss13
Mobile
Member since Oct 2016
1605 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 11:28 am to
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Well now I'm curious about the people who met online in 1983


Have you ever seen "Forensic Files?"
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
56722 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 11:31 am to
Love and the concept of “the one” isn’t real

Everyone used to marry someone that lived a mile away from them and they were happily ever after. The reason for this was because nobody got fat back then and it was legal to shoot jody
Posted by htowntyger
Houston
Member since Aug 2014
32 posts
Posted on 10/10/24 at 12:05 pm to
lot of people in college - many more are not - I chalk that one up to more of a sample size thing than anything else
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