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Posted on 9/3/24 at 7:26 pm to WeeWee
They always keep pushin my love.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 7:59 pm to Clames
trauma-abandonment-ADHD is a lot to roll into one setting. Knowing someone who specializes in this stuff brings it more to life for my understanding. However all 3 together is like lining up stars. It's kinda tough.
EDIT: I guess when you add ADHD to it, it makes it a stretch to me. The first 2 belong together easily. ADHA is something in a diff class of mess.
EDIT: I guess when you add ADHD to it, it makes it a stretch to me. The first 2 belong together easily. ADHA is something in a diff class of mess.
This post was edited on 9/3/24 at 8:01 pm
Posted on 9/3/24 at 8:09 pm to WeeWee
Was married to one for 17 years. Her favorite saying, no matter who we were talking about was, “they think I hung the moon.”
Truth is, nobody could stand that crazy bitch.
Truth is, nobody could stand that crazy bitch.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 8:30 pm to WeeWee
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Has anyone here ever noticed that girls with borderline personality disorder are always talking about the nice things that they do for others, but the reason they are doing it is to feel good about themselves. They also can’t manage their time to save their lives?
The vast majority of people who do nice things do it to make themselves feel better, you don't need a mental illness for that.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 8:44 pm to WeeWee
When it comes to these traumatic inducing behavioral disorders, we try to categorize these things so we can "treat" and feel better about "knowing what to do" and having a game plan for it.
Doesn't work like that. I have severe (not the self diagnosed) adhd. Doctor said I was the worse case he'd ever seen. I grew up in Monroe. If you don't get it, that means I was the hyperactive, awkward dork in a majority black school. That means violence. Jumping, stabbed, sucker punched, in middle school. I grew up in da culcha, where white hatred was the standard, and being adhd made you a target.
That said, my childhood blew, but I've made the best of it. I'm not medicated w anti anxiety, I kicked their arse at football, i quit my Ritalin after puberty, and I chose to work hard to form good habits. Now I have 5 kids, a wife, a home, and I use those lessons of adaptation to pass onto my children who are doing exceptionally well. Your disorder nor trauma are an excuse. Just an experience. It's up to you to have the intelligence to recognize the results of your trauma, and meditate on how to move forward from it.
We got to get these people away from their medicated echo chambers of weak liberals. It takes strength, and nowadays we have too many losers willing to walk them over to an echo chamber of failures for a back rub and placation.
Doesn't work like that. I have severe (not the self diagnosed) adhd. Doctor said I was the worse case he'd ever seen. I grew up in Monroe. If you don't get it, that means I was the hyperactive, awkward dork in a majority black school. That means violence. Jumping, stabbed, sucker punched, in middle school. I grew up in da culcha, where white hatred was the standard, and being adhd made you a target.
That said, my childhood blew, but I've made the best of it. I'm not medicated w anti anxiety, I kicked their arse at football, i quit my Ritalin after puberty, and I chose to work hard to form good habits. Now I have 5 kids, a wife, a home, and I use those lessons of adaptation to pass onto my children who are doing exceptionally well. Your disorder nor trauma are an excuse. Just an experience. It's up to you to have the intelligence to recognize the results of your trauma, and meditate on how to move forward from it.
We got to get these people away from their medicated echo chambers of weak liberals. It takes strength, and nowadays we have too many losers willing to walk them over to an echo chamber of failures for a back rub and placation.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 8:50 pm to WeeWee
You are describing all women. Some just have it worse the others…..
Posted on 9/3/24 at 8:56 pm to WeeWee
I read this thread a few weeks back
Stay away from women with BPD
Stay away from women with BPD
Posted on 9/3/24 at 8:57 pm to WeeWee
everything any one does is for themselves
Posted on 9/3/24 at 9:17 pm to joseywales1
They say every woman is bi.... Now whether -sexual or -polar is another story.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 9:23 pm to WeeWee
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Girls with borderline personality disorder
So....all of them, right?
Posted on 9/3/24 at 9:25 pm to WeeWee
Most broads have personality disorders.
And there's no borderline about it.
If they're lucky, their TTs are big enough to overcome it.
And there's no borderline about it.
If they're lucky, their TTs are big enough to overcome it.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 9:36 pm to Lsupimp
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Lsupimp
Good grief, I feel like you were talking to me
It took me years to get over "the one", at least that's what I thought she was, because the first 6 months were the greatest time I ever had with someone. And yes, the sex was unreal. 2 years later, I was discarded, and she completely ghosted me for months. We did meet back up one time years later, but that was another mistake. Everything else you said was spot on. To this day I have never been able to open up with someone like that again, even my poor wife gets a guarded me.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 9:47 pm to SlowFlowPro
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Like this guy on the poli board "Saving Western Civilization"
I couldn't help but laugh at the delusion
Posted on 9/3/24 at 9:54 pm to WeeWee
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Girls with borderline personality disorder
That’s like saying some like “fish with gills” or “tigers with stripes”.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 10:55 pm to WeeWee
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Has anyone here ever noticed that girls with borderline personality disorder are always talking about the nice things that they do for others, but the reason they are doing it is to feel good about themselves. They also can’t manage their time to save their lives?
How do you know my wife???
Posted on 9/3/24 at 11:01 pm to WeeWee
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I strongly suspect that social media and technology are making it worse.
All the bullshite in our food can’t be helping
Posted on 9/4/24 at 12:30 am to Lsupimp
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These women will drive you insane. You sense their fear of abandonment after a week, they make you feel like you are finally understood because they idealize you and stroke your ego so much ,they perceive any concerns you may have as harsh criticism, they give huge importance to normal things like facial expressions or silence They then begin to compile resentments and grievances, they project all their bad behavior onto you, they are COMPLETELY unaccountable, they can quickly be delusional and prone to believe crazy things that conform with their penchant for self delusions etc. They NEVER EVER apologize, , they make you responsible for their emotions, they devalue you and finally they discard you. Any attempt you make to enforce a boundary is met with “ you are controlling “ or “ you are cruel and mean” . The manipulation is incessant. You can’t get over them quickly because the sex was intense and the idealization phase strokes your ego, especially if you’ve been beaten down by life and relationships a bit etc. They pick men that they can exploit in this way. All of this stemming from childhood trauma and lack of relationship stability with parents as a child. Some cases very severe some more quiet. Some near insane others kind of more low key. Some with volcanic anger others with sadness . Either way you either get tired of the drama rollercoaster or they discard you. It’s not likely to last long. The problem for men who endure this ( or women) is the highs were amazing so they chase that and normal women almost seem boring.Which means YOU are now sick.
Sadly, very true.
Posted on 9/4/24 at 3:18 am to WeeWee
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Girls with borderline personality disorder for a thousand Alex
What would be all of them…
Posted on 9/4/24 at 5:12 am to WeeWee
When you find one that isn’t crazy, lock it down. 25 years later I’ve never been happier.
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