re: Gf’s texts

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When is the last time you deleted a number from someone that hadn’t done anything wrong to you?

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Right? I’ve got so many numbers from back in my single phase and I just…don’t text them anymore. I don’t have time to go through my contacts trying to figure out who was a business connect and who was a booty call.

I like to err on the side of comic hyperbole in cases such as these.

OP it looks like you can get a GPS tracker that works with your phone for 30 bucks or so LINK

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Chad thundercock

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Would have been hilarious had the dude been named this in the contacts. Try lying your way out of that one when Ten Inch Travis dings your iPhone at 1 in the morning.

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Good cover up or could she actually be honest?

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Good cover but now she knows that you’re insecure. Your relationship with her is forever changed.

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It’s an old boyfriend or lover testing the waters. If you don’t address it it will get worse

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Don’t listen to these idiots. Either you are satisfying her or you’re not. If you are, then there is no problem; if not, no amount of tracking will fix it.

Women are not different then men in this respect, you can trust them to do what is in their best interests. If you are pleasing her (and this has more to do with self-confidence then it has to do with sex) she will be faithful because that is in her best interests.

So after the blocking and deleting the number, if she TOOK you to BED and performed some impressionistic mind manipulation on you…then
1) she banging
2) imagined being with someone else
3) wants a tracking device in her car

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I’m calling that number if I’m you or better yet get her to call it on speaker. Where there is smoke…

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See, this is what I mean. Do this and she will lose respect for you in a hurry. It screams weakness.

was there a name attached to the number? How did she know it was her sister's friend's husband if there was no name?

I would just like to add, if you start off a text to a girl by saying “Hey stranger”, you’re a fricking weirdo

This. Any guy texting a girl at 1 am in the morning “hey stranger” is not currently fricking that girl.

This was a “hey remember me” or a “notice me” text while drunk.

This guy was probably even friendzoned. I think you are good for now. She did the right thing. Ask yourself if a girl you may have went on a few dates with texted you the same thing, what would be your reaction when questioned by your GF. She did the right thing.

If it is still bothering you though, you don’t trust her and need to get out.

I would put my money on this guy has a thing for your girl and never had the confidence to do anything about it. Now she has a boyfriend, he is drunk, and has an excuse as to why she rejected him.