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re: For all the depressing divorce threads we get
Posted on 10/19/23 at 11:55 pm to Christopher Columbo
Posted on 10/19/23 at 11:55 pm to Christopher Columbo

Posted on 10/20/23 at 4:30 am to TrapperJohn
I went through it a few months back.
I just told my wife I would rather be alone.
She hated that I wasn't involved with the school band stuff. So when we split this older band dad helped her fix up her mom's house. They got close and have now been dating for 6 months out of the seven we are separated.
We didn't contest anything. I had house before meeting her.
Hated her at first but civil now.
The last six months have been the greatest of my life. I'm free to do whatever. I have all my income to myself. I go on a vacation almost every month.
I date. I bought a boat and a weekend car.
I hate to say but I wish I had just stayed single the last ten years and not gotten married.
I'm enjoying the single life and the freedom can't be beat. Only negative is doing my own laundry and cooking.
It's true most women turn off the bedroom fun after marriage.
I'm sure there are great women out there and I'm sure I'll remarry one day. But for now it's the best life since the early 20s years.
Enjoy the prison break. Don't harp on the failed relationship.
I just told my wife I would rather be alone.
She hated that I wasn't involved with the school band stuff. So when we split this older band dad helped her fix up her mom's house. They got close and have now been dating for 6 months out of the seven we are separated.
We didn't contest anything. I had house before meeting her.
Hated her at first but civil now.
The last six months have been the greatest of my life. I'm free to do whatever. I have all my income to myself. I go on a vacation almost every month.
I date. I bought a boat and a weekend car.
I hate to say but I wish I had just stayed single the last ten years and not gotten married.
I'm enjoying the single life and the freedom can't be beat. Only negative is doing my own laundry and cooking.
It's true most women turn off the bedroom fun after marriage.
I'm sure there are great women out there and I'm sure I'll remarry one day. But for now it's the best life since the early 20s years.
Enjoy the prison break. Don't harp on the failed relationship.
Posted on 10/20/23 at 5:47 am to TrapperJohn
quote:
Women are desperate once they get past the age of ~38 and it’s been quite delightful
they go back to their old ways once you settle down with them
Posted on 10/20/23 at 6:12 am to TrapperJohn
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t’s out there.
This post is spot on. Have been divorced since 2016 and everything he said is correct.
Posted on 10/20/23 at 8:22 am to BluegrassBelle
Yeah but often people choose to blame others for their own inequities.
Look at yourself first.
Dont play the victim role. Take ownership for your words and actions.
It’s often the little things that keeps love alive.
With that said, women for the most part are fricking strange untamable beings.
Most are emotional thinkers not logical.
I’ve learned to just let shite go instead of engaging in meaningless arguments over trivial BS
Look at yourself first.
Dont play the victim role. Take ownership for your words and actions.
It’s often the little things that keeps love alive.
With that said, women for the most part are fricking strange untamable beings.
Most are emotional thinkers not logical.
I’ve learned to just let shite go instead of engaging in meaningless arguments over trivial BS
This post was edited on 10/20/23 at 8:24 am
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:03 pm to TrapperJohn
My first wife cheated on me, and just celebrated 25 years with wife #2. Don't be afraid be thorough.
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:10 pm to TrapperJohn
My 2nd divorce was awesome. I left the courthouse, went to the nearest bar and bought everyone a round. Not all divorces are bad.
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:11 pm to kywildcatfanone
Way to celebrate with the bump. #cheers
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:21 pm to El Segundo Guy
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I left the courthouse, went to the nearest bar and bought everyone a round
Meanwhile your ex went to the second nearest bar and let everyone have a round in her.
I kid. I don’t know you. I just couldn’t help but make that turn.
Congrats on your success.
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:24 pm to MrFreakinMiyagi
quote:
My transition was pretty easy, but I saw the writing on the wall, and had prepped.

Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:28 pm to TrapperJohn
quote:Even the married ones
Women are desperate once they get past the age of ~38 and it’s been quite delightful.
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:30 pm to MyRockstarComplex
It was great. She was cheating on me and vice versa.
We didn't have a single piece of shared property, so it was simple and painless. I had it made.
We didn't have a single piece of shared property, so it was simple and painless. I had it made.
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:46 pm to TrapperJohn
Every one of these feel good I'm doing great post divorce threads is missing one very important thing for me.
Missing 50% of your children's life. Having some other guy teaching them the things you should be teaching them half of the time. Even if her new dick is a stand up guy, that's your job as a father and someone else is doing it. That doesn't sit with me at all.
For that reason, I work like hell at my marriage.
Missing 50% of your children's life. Having some other guy teaching them the things you should be teaching them half of the time. Even if her new dick is a stand up guy, that's your job as a father and someone else is doing it. That doesn't sit with me at all.
For that reason, I work like hell at my marriage.
Posted on 1/13/24 at 5:02 pm to Napoleon
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She hated that I wasn't involved with the school band stuff. So when we split this older band dad helped her fix up her mom's house. They got close and have now been dating for 6 months out of the seven we are separated.
How naive are you? He was plowing that well before you split.
Posted on 1/13/24 at 5:50 pm to TrapperJohn
Depressing?
Dude. Divorce was the best thing to happen to me and my kids.
Going over the wall is glorious. Why stay in a crappy situation when everyone is miserable.
Dude. Divorce was the best thing to happen to me and my kids.
Going over the wall is glorious. Why stay in a crappy situation when everyone is miserable.
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