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re: For all the depressing divorce threads we get

Posted on 10/19/23 at 11:55 pm to
Posted by Nonetheless
MAGA
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Posted on 10/19/23 at 11:55 pm to
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
70910 posts
Posted on 10/20/23 at 4:30 am to
I went through it a few months back.
I just told my wife I would rather be alone.
She hated that I wasn't involved with the school band stuff. So when we split this older band dad helped her fix up her mom's house. They got close and have now been dating for 6 months out of the seven we are separated.
We didn't contest anything. I had house before meeting her.
Hated her at first but civil now.
The last six months have been the greatest of my life. I'm free to do whatever. I have all my income to myself. I go on a vacation almost every month.
I date. I bought a boat and a weekend car.
I hate to say but I wish I had just stayed single the last ten years and not gotten married.

I'm enjoying the single life and the freedom can't be beat. Only negative is doing my own laundry and cooking.

It's true most women turn off the bedroom fun after marriage.


I'm sure there are great women out there and I'm sure I'll remarry one day. But for now it's the best life since the early 20s years.

Enjoy the prison break. Don't harp on the failed relationship.
Posted by jamiegla1
Member since Aug 2016
7553 posts
Posted on 10/20/23 at 5:47 am to
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Women are desperate once they get past the age of ~38 and it’s been quite delightful

they go back to their old ways once you settle down with them
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19074 posts
Posted on 10/20/23 at 6:12 am to
quote:

t’s out there.


This post is spot on. Have been divorced since 2016 and everything he said is correct.
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 10/20/23 at 8:22 am to
Yeah but often people choose to blame others for their own inequities.


Look at yourself first.

Dont play the victim role. Take ownership for your words and actions.

It’s often the little things that keeps love alive.


With that said, women for the most part are fricking strange untamable beings.
Most are emotional thinkers not logical.


I’ve learned to just let shite go instead of engaging in meaningless arguments over trivial BS
This post was edited on 10/20/23 at 8:24 am
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
130115 posts
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:03 pm to
My first wife cheated on me, and just celebrated 25 years with wife #2. Don't be afraid be thorough.
Posted by El Segundo Guy
SE OK
Member since Aug 2014
10847 posts
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:10 pm to
My 2nd divorce was awesome. I left the courthouse, went to the nearest bar and bought everyone a round. Not all divorces are bad.
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
22408 posts
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:11 pm to
Way to celebrate with the bump. #cheers
Posted by MyRockstarComplex
The airport
Member since Nov 2009
4339 posts
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:21 pm to
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I left the courthouse, went to the nearest bar and bought everyone a round


Meanwhile your ex went to the second nearest bar and let everyone have a round in her.

I kid. I don’t know you. I just couldn’t help but make that turn.

Congrats on your success.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
70072 posts
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:24 pm to
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My transition was pretty easy, but I saw the writing on the wall, and had prepped.


Posted by Quatrepot
Member since Jun 2023
4154 posts
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:28 pm to
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Women are desperate once they get past the age of ~38 and it’s been quite delightful.
Even the married ones
Posted by El Segundo Guy
SE OK
Member since Aug 2014
10847 posts
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:30 pm to
It was great. She was cheating on me and vice versa.

We didn't have a single piece of shared property, so it was simple and painless. I had it made.
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
6459 posts
Posted on 1/13/24 at 1:46 pm to
Every one of these feel good I'm doing great post divorce threads is missing one very important thing for me.

Missing 50% of your children's life. Having some other guy teaching them the things you should be teaching them half of the time. Even if her new dick is a stand up guy, that's your job as a father and someone else is doing it. That doesn't sit with me at all.

For that reason, I work like hell at my marriage.
Posted by Kato
Sec 102
Member since Nov 2006
2926 posts
Posted on 1/13/24 at 3:18 pm to
Posted by thefodgather
Member since Jan 2024
108 posts
Posted on 1/13/24 at 5:02 pm to
quote:

She hated that I wasn't involved with the school band stuff. So when we split this older band dad helped her fix up her mom's house. They got close and have now been dating for 6 months out of the seven we are separated.


How naive are you? He was plowing that well before you split.
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
1793 posts
Posted on 1/13/24 at 5:50 pm to
Depressing?

Dude. Divorce was the best thing to happen to me and my kids.

Going over the wall is glorious. Why stay in a crappy situation when everyone is miserable.
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