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Fall/Football Season Wedding Attendance Loophole?

Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:57 pm
Posted by forever lsu30
Member since Nov 2005
3950 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:57 pm
We all know that people who schedule their wedding on football weekends in the South are a special kind of a-hole. But, it happens & we deal.

That said, I need to know how far the following loophole extends:

When YOU have a son that plays football or a daughter that's a cheerleader/dancer/band in the HS or college (even pro) level: certainly it's understandable that immediate family misses any wedding scheduled in favor of the game, can we agree so far?

How far do you count immediate family to be in the excuse window of missing, before someone is reasonable to be pissed for missing said wedding?

Grand parents?
Aunt/Uncle/1st Cousin?
Godchild?
Any further?
This post was edited on 9/15/19 at 4:11 pm
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20063 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:58 pm to
quote:

When you have a son that plays football or a daughter that's a cheerleader/dancer/band in the HS or college (even pro) level: certainly it's understandable that immediate family misses any wedding scheduled in favor of the game, can we agree so far?

You have likely been to a hundred games, can’t miss one?
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:59 pm to
Don't give a frick if someone is pissed you missed their wedding and you don't need this lame excuse.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
123927 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:00 pm to
Just bring a tv and antenna to the wedding and set it up near the bar at the reception
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
16966 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:00 pm to
Not missing my kids games for a wedding. My kids will only be young once
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:01 pm to
quote:

When you have a son that plays football or a daughter that's a cheerleader/dancer/band in the HS or college (even pro) level: certainly it's understandable that immediate family misses any wedding scheduled in favor of the game, can we agree so far?


So you would miss your son or daughter's own wedding because your other son/daughter is part of a sporting event?


Sounds like you are the special kind of a-hole.
Posted by secondandshort
Member since Jan 2014
1028 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:03 pm to
No, he's saying he and/or immediate family would miss someone else's wedding for his kids game.
Posted by ScubaTiger
Baton Rouge, Louisiana
Member since Dec 2003
4102 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:04 pm to
You need to decide what your priorities are and stick to them.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
36703 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:07 pm to
I'm not sure of what he's asking -- I'm so confused but I'm so tired so maybe it's that.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67006 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:07 pm to
OOC rent-a-win? I'll absolutely ditch that for a wedding (so long as it's a fun one, and not a lame dry wedding).

Conference game against a bottom-tier opponent (Tennessee, Arkansas, Ole Miss, Vanderbilt)? It would have to be a close relative whom I like and whom promises a very fun wedding. I will also skip one of these if I am in the wedding.

Big time home game? (Alabama, Auburn, Florida, Georgia, A&M) F&%k you. That wedding venue was available for a reason. You knew what you were doing when you picked that date you selfish prick. We get maybe two good home games per year and you want to take one away for your "big day"? F&%k you, you self-centered cocksucker, enjoy enjoy the gift I mail you off your registry. I hope you open it before she divorces you inside of two years.
This post was edited on 9/15/19 at 4:13 pm
Posted by eScott
Member since Oct 2008
11376 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:07 pm to
If I'm not your parent please don't invite me to your wedding.
This post was edited on 9/15/19 at 4:08 pm
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
26659 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:08 pm to
This conversation usually revolves around LSU games, but high school games are a big issue as well. So many people have children that play, cheer, dance, band, etc.

Just because football is not a big deal to the bride/groom, they should consider how it affects their families and guests.

If someone has a fall wedding, I just assume they don’t want me there.

Their choice ...... and mine.
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:09 pm to
football might be an idol if you get pissed about people's weddings during the Fall. Not really a might though.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:11 pm to
quote:

but high school games are a big issue as well


Aren't high school games on Friday nights?

And weddings usually on a Saturday?
Posted by forever lsu30
Member since Nov 2005
3950 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:12 pm to
Let me cliff notes to thise confused:

YOU are a parent of a son/daughter involved in HS/College/Pro football/cheer/band/etc.

YOU are invited to wedding that conflicts with game.

Obviously direct mother, father, & siblings are understandably missing wedding for the game.

What I need to know is how far does the "understanding" extend?
Aunt/Uncle/cousin?
Grandparents?
Godparents?
Etc?
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67006 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:13 pm to
quote:

And weddings usually on a Saturday?


Some are on Fridays, but Saturdays are more common. Fridays are typically for the Rehearsal Dinner.

If you're dealing with out-of-town relatives, Friday night football for their teenagers are a big deal.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
36703 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:14 pm to
In my case, these "Aunt/Uncle/cousin?Grandparents?Godparents?" aren't going to my kids game more than likely on a day WITHOUT a wedding.
This post was edited on 9/15/19 at 4:15 pm
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
26659 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:15 pm to
Yes, but many weddings are out of town/state.

For a local/nearby wedding, that wouldn’t be an issue.

However, more and more high school games are being played on saturdays these days.
Posted by forever lsu30
Member since Nov 2005
3950 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:41 pm to
Meaning they use the game as an excuse to miss the wedding?
Posted by bayourougebengal
Member since Mar 2008
7193 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:44 pm to
quote:

You have likely been to a hundred games, can’t miss one?

I'd never miss my kids' games for anything that isn't an absolute emergency.
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