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Expecting my first child in April...

Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:48 am
Posted by HawkeyeHankHatfield
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Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:48 am
It’s a girl.

Any TD parenting advice?
Posted by TheOcean
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Don't travel to Wuhan
Posted by magildachunks
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It’s a girl.



Pics?
Posted by LSUnation78
Northshore
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Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:49 am to
Dont eat it, and dont let wolves eat it either.
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38536 posts
Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:50 am to
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Expecting my first child in April.



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Any TD parenting advice?


Posted by whitetiger1234
They/Them
Member since Oct 2016
4881 posts
Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:51 am to
When you talk to people who have kids from now on about how hard having kids is, they’ll immediately tell you “oh, well you just wait until they get old enough to walk.” Then once they start walking it will be “oh well you just wait until they get in their teens.” Then when they’re in their teens it will be “just wait until they’re in college and they’re sucking you dry of money.”

I don’t have kids but I hear people do this shite all the time to others.
Posted by oleyeller
Vols, Bitch
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:51 am to
Just enjoy man. Its life changing
Posted by List Eater
Htown
Member since Apr 2005
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Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:53 am to
Help the wife as much as possible.
Stick to a schedule, it will work.
Punch everyone who says "just wait until.." in the jaw.
Posted by ChandlerB03
Natchez, MS
Member since Nov 2015
1790 posts
Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:54 am to
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Any TD parenting advice


Chastity belt at her 14th bday
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38536 posts
Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:54 am to
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Then when they’re in their teens it will be “just wait until they’re in college and they’re sucking you dry of money.”


This happens much sooner in life than in college, especially if you have traveling ball boys, like Jayden and Jaxon. Girls are no different either, these lady dance owners have figured out how to make dance very competitive ... and costly too.

And if you live in Baton Rouge, don't forget about the cost of private school.
This post was edited on 1/26/20 at 7:55 am
Posted by CajunSoldier225
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:54 am to
Enjoy every moment. Life really does go by too fast.
Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43299 posts
Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:56 am to
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Any TD parenting advice?



First 3 weeks are fricking BRUTAL. Nobody is sleeping and you're both trying to figure out how to handle this massive shift in your lives. You will argue and bitch. Just stay patient. I have memories of throwing binkies across the room because I was getting so frustrated while mine learned how to sleep. After 3-4 weeks you should start getting 4 hour chunks of sleep and it's much more reasonable.

After that it comes pretty naturally. Just trust your instincts. You'll be learning as you go but it's pretty hard to mess up really badly if you love the kid.
This post was edited on 1/26/20 at 7:57 am
Posted by Rocket Surgeon
Member since Jan 2020
696 posts
Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:56 am to
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It’s a girl.

Any TD parenting advice?

Start saving money.

My daughter's first complete sentence. "Daddy, I want..." Followed up by, "Daddy, I have to have..." Which came before, "Dad, I must get....everyone has one but me..."

Then comes driving, "Dad, I want a Mustang..."

...and the list goes
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
20892 posts
Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:56 am to
Congrats on the sekts.

I can't believe I am the first to tell you this.
Posted by FredBear
Georgia
Member since Aug 2017
14989 posts
Posted on 1/26/20 at 7:56 am to
You're in for a long, hard, frustrating at times road but it also will be the best thing you ever did. Different people will have different opinions but I can say for myself hearing my little girls say goodnight daddy will always be the sweetest thing to ever happen to me.

The flip side is enjoy it when they are little, eventually they will grow up and you will find yourself pretty low on their list of people to hang out with.
Posted by pakowitz
Scott, LA
Member since Jul 2005
2356 posts
Posted on 1/26/20 at 8:00 am to
Don't let them sleep in your bed. Ever.

Stick to a weekly schedule. If it's bedtime at 730, it's bedtime at 730.

Always bring extra clothes and diapers.

Help Mom out as much as possible. It'll save you headaches later.

Don't always be the one outside hanging out at others house's while she's inside with the baby. Let her have a turn too.

Take lots of pics and videos.

Give lots of hugs and kisses. Tell them you love them and are proud of them when they show you something they made.

Enjoy it! It goes by very fast and they change just as fast.

Bonus: Don't waste money on shoes when they can't even walk yet. And once they can walk, buy pair that fit and another pair one size larger.
This post was edited on 1/26/20 at 8:07 am
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38536 posts
Posted on 1/26/20 at 8:01 am to
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My daughter's first complete sentence. "Daddy, I want..." Followed up by, "Daddy, I have to have..." Which came before, "Dad, I must get....everyone has one but me..."

Then comes driving, "Dad, I want a Mustang..."


quote:

...and the list goes


as long as it doesn't get to (in my family), "Daddy, I want to introduce you to ..."



keep asking baby girl ...
This post was edited on 1/26/20 at 8:03 am
Posted by TulaneLSU
Member since Aug 2003
Member since Dec 2007
13298 posts
Posted on 1/26/20 at 8:03 am to
Blessed Friend,

Baptism, I prefer in the first six months. I’m not entirely opposed to baptism as a symbol of forgiveness and confirmation as the Baptists do it. However, grace is always free and comes before us, our faith, and our actions. That is my main argument for infant baptism, as well as Tradition.

Lead by example. If you don’t show them a life of prayer, involvement in a faith community, almsgiving, and service to others, don’t put those expectations on the child. Deepen your relationship with God and your faith community now, for both your sakes.

Don’t drink alcohol or smoke. Use clean, loving language. Don’t withhold love. Be a teacher, a leader, slow to anger, and always ready to forgive. Teach her good manners, including appropriate dress, speech, and table etiquette.

Celebrate each day with your child. Pray with her daily. Eat one meal together. Don’t watch too much TV or spend more than 30 minutes in front of a screen daily.

Show her life is more than an accumulation of goods and preparation for retirement. Teach her to invest her talents. Teach her the importance of teamwork, discipline, and sacrifice. Involve her with an athletic team and have her learn an instrument before school begins. Don’t waste time on college and professional sports.

Love her as Christ loves all of us.

Faith, Hope, and Love,
TulaneLSU
This post was edited on 1/26/20 at 8:06 am
Posted by The Nino
Member since Jan 2010
21521 posts
Posted on 1/26/20 at 8:04 am to
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Any TD parenting advice?
Don’t come to TD for parenting advice
Posted by TygerDurden
Member since Sep 2009
1847 posts
Posted on 1/26/20 at 8:05 am to
My daughter will be 20 this April (yep no pics you pervs) and it is hard to believe how fast those years have flown by. As a few have mentioned just enjoy the ride as it will all be over in a flash. I am convinced though that men who have daughters are being punished for things they did as young men. When your daughter becomes teenager and the boys start sniffing around your house you will understand this with great clarity.
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