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re: expectations on anniversary night?
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:43 am to Lincoln Dawson
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:43 am to Lincoln Dawson
She’s no longer attracted to him. I don’t mean just physically, though that likely plays a component. She is no longer drawn to him as a lover.
Being nicer is not going to help, unfortunately. Neither is talking about sex.
Being nicer is not going to help, unfortunately. Neither is talking about sex.
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Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:44 am to Lincoln Dawson
Maybe she is giving off a rapey vibe he isn't picking up on.
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:45 am to Lincoln Dawson
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"let's just see how the night goes."
Meaning if she can't find any BBC, she'll give him a quick knobjob?
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:45 am to DmitriKaramazov
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Couples should have as much sex as possible while they are alive
What if just one of them dies?Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:45 am to DmitriKaramazov
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Sexless marriages are miserable and ultimately doomed. I do not understand how men can endure relationships where they have sex once every couple of weeks, or even less frequently. Sex is what distinguishes a platonic from a romantic relationship. Sex is the highest form of pleasure a human can experience, one of life's true joys. All of the science supports common sense anecdotal information: sex is psychologically beneficial and central to a healthy, intimate relationship. Couples should have as much sex as possible while they are alive and healthy enough to have it.
that sounds wonderful. would you mind if i conference you in on a three way call with my ex and let her know this? won't help with us, but will help with the poor fella she is now seeing.
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:47 am to Geauxld Finger
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she's not cheating. she is just like 80% of the women that do this after they get married. they don't have to perform anymore. either that or kids and schedules get in the way. both parties have to make time for it or its going to ruin a marriage.
i've met her a few times since moving here and she doesn't strike me as the stepping outside the lines type. maybe she does and she hides it well but my buddy doesn't see it either.
he said everything else is more of a priority than the relationship and she prefers to avoid confrontation that address it.
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:48 am to SouthEndzoneTiger
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What if just one of them dies?
Everyone has their fetish
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:48 am to DmitriKaramazov
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Sexless marriages are miserable and ultimately doomed. I do not understand how men can endure relationships where they have sex once every couple of weeks, or even less frequently. Sex is what distinguishes a platonic from a romantic relationship. Sex is the highest form of pleasure a human can experience, one of life's true joys. All of the science supports common sense anecdotal information: sex is psychologically beneficial and central to a healthy, intimate relationship. Couples should have as much sex as possible while they are alive and healthy enough to have it.
All well and good, but most women are not drawn to sex because it “is one of life’s true joys” or because its “psychologically beneficial”.
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:48 am to Lincoln Dawson
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he said everything else is more of a priority than the relationship and she prefers to avoid confrontation that address it.
he has to approach it the right way. they need to discuss the importance of it in their marriage. sadly it may not be that important to her.
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:49 am to Lincoln Dawson
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So he cheated on her?
no and i really do believe him. said he was just a prick for the most part especially early on and was very selfish. she hasn't forgiven him. he admitted he probably wasn't ready for marriage when they got married.
Doesn't matter if he has, she has at one point or another. She is either regretting it or wanting to do it again. Neither scenario is good for yo., I mean him.
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:49 am to Geauxld Finger
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she is just like 80% of the women that do this after they get married. they don't have to perform anymore. either that or kids and schedules get in the way.
1. I think you are largely overestimating that 80% number.
2. You are projecting like a mofo
3. In the cases where that does happen, I'd wager a ton of money that the lethargy is shared on both sides. Meaning the man complaining that he has no sex has stopped helping around the house, expects her to take care of the kids while he golfs/hunts every weekend, sits in front of the TV all night till it's sex time, etc...
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:50 am to MiloDanglers
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She’s no longer attracted to him. I don’t mean just physically, though that likely plays a component. She is no longer drawn to him as a lover.
Being nicer is not going to help, unfortunately. Neither is talking about sex.
very well could be. he said they exchange pleasantries when coming to and from work, etc and they do tell each other they love one another. but that's about it. he said the highlight of my day is getting a good morning or good bye kiss. nothing else will happen past that.
he doesn't even try anymore. said he did for a while but is tired of picking himself up again after constantly being told no in so many ways.
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:50 am to Lincoln Dawson
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my buddy is going through a rough patch. he says there is no sex in the bedroom (been months) and anytime he brings it up or tries to initiate in a non-rapey kind of way, he gets the same thing i used to get before getting divorced "i'm tired." "not right now." "maybe later." "let's just see how the night goes."
Oh, frick that.
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:51 am to MiloDanglers
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All well and good, but most women are not drawn to sex because it “is one of life’s true joys” or because its “psychologically beneficial”.
What is your point?
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:51 am to Lincoln Dawson
You seem to know an awful lot about your friends lack of sex life and their relationship...
Not sus at all.
Not sus at all.
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:53 am to Lincoln Dawson
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"i'm tired." "not right now." "maybe later." "let's just see how the night goes.
i has sum bad nuwz
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:53 am to Displaced
we've talked about some deep shite as he knows my story and why i moved here in the first place. i feel really badly for him. never would wish the shite i went through on anyone. not even the guy she left me for.
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:55 am to Displaced
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In the cases where that does happen, I'd wager a ton of money that the lethargy is shared on both sides. Meaning the man complaining that he has no sex has stopped helping around the house, expects her to take care of the kids while he golfs/hunts every weekend, sits in front of the TV all night till it's sex time, etc...
I agree with this. Cheating can be a one person problem, but sex droughts are a two person problem.
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:57 am to Lincoln Dawson
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Lincoln Dawson
Yellowfin always has the best advice on this topic
Turn to the wife and say "I'm having sex today whether you're there or not."
Posted on 8/13/20 at 10:58 am to DmitriKaramazov
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Sex is what distinguishes a platonic from a romantic relationship. Sex is the highest form of pleasure a human can experience, one of life's true joys.
I couldn't agree with you more and I'm a female by the way.
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