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Posted on 10/30/18 at 11:50 am to LandPhil
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I expect her to respect my privacy just like I respect her privacy ( purse).
Do y I carry tampons and shite in your wallet? You probably should how much your pussy is bleeding and over something so inconsequential.
If you are that damn worried about it you could at least be rational and tell her "hey it's not a big deal because you were just grabbing cash but in the dfuture could you just hand me my wallet and I'll get whatever out of it." instead you treated her like a child because youre a crazy person.
Posted on 10/30/18 at 11:53 am to LandPhil
What is private about it? Private from a gf anyways. She lets you in her body and you have issues about her opening your wallet?
This post was edited on 10/30/18 at 5:20 pm
Posted on 10/30/18 at 11:54 am to LandPhil
My wife rarely goes in mine. No need to really. And I certainly stay out of her purse, strange stuff in there. But if we do then we let the other know out of courtesy. But have never made a big deal out of it.
Posted on 10/30/18 at 11:57 am to LandPhil
I guess I have some things in my wallet that I wouldn't want just any stranger going through, e.g. credit cards, etc, but I don't see the big deal with a friend/family/SO or whatever.
Posted on 10/30/18 at 12:00 pm to LandPhil
You sound like a controlling-territorial DB. Doesn't mean you are, but that's just how you come across.
Posted on 10/30/18 at 12:06 pm to LandPhil
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Not that have anything to hide, but my wallet is my private business and anything in it. I expect her to respect my privacy just like I respect her privacy ( purse).
You're worried about a wallet and its privacy you feel it holds??
Man are you gonna have some intense growing pains when you have a wife and kids who charge in the bathroom when you're taking a shite.
You better get over that quick.
This post was edited on 10/30/18 at 12:07 pm
Posted on 10/30/18 at 12:08 pm to LandPhil
You way overreacted, IMO. Yes, it was weird for her to just grab the cash out without you specifically saying, “hey, go grab cash from my wallet.” But you made it sound extra harsh by saying “never go through my wallet again.” Especially because you didn’t catch her sneakily going through your shite. I’d be reconsidering a relationship with someone who had that reaction.
To answer your question, we frequently ask each other to get something out of the other’s wallet. I feel zero weirdness about this. I’ve never felt compelled to just look through his wallet for no reason, but that isn’t what your gf was doing, either.
To answer your question, we frequently ask each other to get something out of the other’s wallet. I feel zero weirdness about this. I’ve never felt compelled to just look through his wallet for no reason, but that isn’t what your gf was doing, either.
Posted on 10/30/18 at 12:11 pm to LandPhil
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Not that have anything to hide, but my wallet is my private business and anything in it. I expect her to respect my privacy just like I respect her privacy ( purse).
Keep to it man. Dont apologize unless you feel you could have told her in a different way. if she's upset about that, but dont apologize for the msg itself.
I've been in your shoes, and now I just tell girls a head of time that I have some old school different ways that I was brought up with that'll come out randomly. Please understand/respect them when they come up. This wallet thing is actually one of the examples I use. Set expectations early, and letting little things like "she just grabbed some cash no biggie" just sets precedent that contradicts something you obviously feel strongly about. You nipped it in the bud early, and now she knows.
Posted on 10/30/18 at 12:14 pm to LandPhil
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LandPhil
Yeah you were. No reason to get mad unless you have something to hide
Posted on 10/30/18 at 12:29 pm to LandPhil
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Does your SO ever go into your wallet?
Sure, if he needs something out of it.
He carries my ID for me when I don't feel like carrying a purse, so I'll get that out of his wallet sometimes when I remember he has it. We are married and share bank accounts/credit cards so it doesn't really matter.
I do ask before I take any cash though, in case he was saving it for something.
Posted on 10/30/18 at 12:44 pm to TOSOV
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You nipped it in the bud early, and now she knows.
way to be that guy barney fife.
If you want to be weird about your wallet then be weird about your wallet, but if you're a dick about being weird about your wallet then don't be surprised when you come up single for treating a grown woman like a child.
Posted on 10/30/18 at 12:45 pm to LandPhil
That moment she sees a condom in there then realizes you never use one with her
Posted on 10/30/18 at 12:45 pm to TOSOV
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You nipped it in the bud early, and now she knows.
Yeah, she knows to run like hell.
Posted on 10/30/18 at 1:16 pm to lsunurse
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How long have yall been dating?
about 3 months. She wants to get serious, but I’m not having none of that.
Posted on 10/30/18 at 1:18 pm to LandPhil
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Was I being a dick about it?
Good Lord yes. Geez. You have to ask?
Posted on 10/30/18 at 1:22 pm to LandPhil
My wife used to go into my wallet on occasion. I truly believe she was thinking I had something to hide (that would be a dumb place to hide anything, right). There was nothing, but she would occasionally take cash I had in there. This pissed me off. I mean it is technically her money also, but when you think you have cash only to find out it has been removed when you are ready to pay for something, it sucks.
On a related note, she is very protective about her purse. I don't give a frick anymore.
On a related note, she is very protective about her purse. I don't give a frick anymore.
Posted on 10/30/18 at 1:24 pm to georgia
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barney fife
Omg. Exactly who I was imagining when reading his reaction.
Posted on 10/30/18 at 1:28 pm to LandPhil
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about 3 months. She wants to get serious, but I’m not having none of that.
Y’all probably need to break up then.
This kind of fight is just going to keep happening. She has different expectations from the relationship than you do, so y’all are always going to have different ideas of where the boundaries should be.
My advice, stop wasting her time and let her go find someone who she can develop a relationship with.
This post was edited on 10/30/18 at 1:30 pm
Posted on 10/30/18 at 1:35 pm to LandPhil
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My gf
Should never go into your wallet. That was her way of checking up on you.
Wife is ok, but no GF should ever have access to your $$ in any way.
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