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re: Does anyone here have a son who recently joined the Marines?

Posted on 6/18/25 at 1:04 pm to
Posted by lowhound
Effie
Member since Aug 2014
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Posted on 6/18/25 at 1:04 pm to
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He also needs to realize that the recruiter is not necessarily his friend.


^^THIS
Posted by TorchtheFlyingTiger
1st coast
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 6/18/25 at 3:12 pm to
Insist he at least look at Navy ROTC Marine Corps Option
navy.mil Matine ROTC Option
Has he applied to any universities and did he apply for ROTC scholarships? If not, he is kinda late to just begin those but could get in somewhere and move in Spring semester. Hard to believe waiting til last minute to explore path forward with a good student.

Posted by TorchtheFlyingTiger
1st coast
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Posted on 6/18/25 at 3:16 pm to
Also have him look at Marine Reserves.
Posted by JellyRoll
Member since Apr 2024
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Posted on 6/18/25 at 3:24 pm to
Why not one of the academies? Is he not wanting to do more schooling?

I know several that enlisted and then went to school later and became officers. One friend retired a colonel going that route.
Posted by Yammie250F
Member since Jul 2010
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Posted on 6/18/25 at 3:26 pm to
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Has he applied to any universities and did he apply for ROTC scholarships? If not, he is kinda late to just begin those but could get in somewhere and move in Spring semester. Hard to believe waiting til last minute to explore path forward with a good student.


Exactly what I was coming to say. Like everyone else is saying with his smarts he'd be wasting 4 years of being enlisted. And for doing boot camp at 18-22, typical teenager thinking, tell him he'd be amazed at the 30+ Gunnies who will be running circles around even right after boot camp. Hell, look at the college 18-22 year old college football players compared to the 22+ NFL players physically. Its not even close.

Try your best to get him to go to college and do the officer route. Its the best for him when he's done by far. Call his recruiter yourself and see what he needs to do to go that route.
Posted by TorchtheFlyingTiger
1st coast
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 6/18/25 at 3:46 pm to
Recruiter likely won't be help w O route. (Unless things have changed since mid 90s)
The Navy ROTC dept at a nearby Univ or one he is already accepted to or interested in is probably best for officer track info.
Way back, as a HS Jr/Sr in 90s I almost got convinced by Matine recruiter that best path to O was enlisted w him. Even had me training unofficially w recruits when still 16 to prep for boot camp. I figured it out on my own that ROTC was my preferred path and recruiter was zero assist from that point just wanted me to fill his enlistment qouta.
Too late for academy route for this Fall but ROTC will likely still accept him as a non contract cadet probablu just have to compete for scholarship for later semesters.
This post was edited on 6/18/25 at 3:53 pm
Posted by geauxturbo
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2007
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Posted on 6/18/25 at 3:48 pm to
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Does anyone here have a son who recently joined the Marines?


Yup, 3rd Battalion November Company. Just recently got back from graduation. My son was in so so shape and was only used to me chewing his arse.

Transformation was impressive and opportunities are pretty dang good. My son is not in infantry though, he chose another MOS. So, I can understand the concern. But even if he had gone infantry, I'd still encourage him. He pushed through and came out a man. Very very proud of him.
This post was edited on 6/18/25 at 3:49 pm
Posted by rexorotten
Missouri
Member since Oct 2013
4916 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:07 pm to
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They’ll probably start the Iran draft soon anyway so we’ll all be going




I'm ready!
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
18907 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:19 pm to
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So many Gen z are passionate about going to war for Israel

What about Ukraine?
Posted by miamitiger1999
Member since Jun 2025
7 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:22 pm to
It can be a great experience for a lot of people but can also be absolute hell for others. A lot of the kids who enlist in the USMC do it because they have no other options and don’t know what they want to do with their life. It’s why the demographics of enlisted USMC skews heavily towards kids who come from working class/low-middle class backgrounds with weak family structures.

Since your son is well-versed academically, I’d try to convince him to look at one of the service academies. They’re extremely difficult to get into and there’s a lot of BS politics in the admissions process, but you’re basically guaranteed a career in the military if you get accepted to one of them.
Posted by NOLA1128
Member since Dec 2011
3802 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:22 pm to
2012-2016, 4.5 years here.

Your son sounds a lot like I did coming out of HS. I'll say this, all of these people talking about how the conditions in the USMC are the worst of all branches - they're right. It's also why we consider ourselves to earn a Title, have the esprit de corps we have, and why Marines worldwide celebrate our Birthday like no other branch does.

I could've had the shiny instead of flat black, but I learned so much about myself through Parris Island that I don't think I ever could have through OCS. There are always options to go mustang if he decides to, such as MECEP (which is awesome from all I know that went through it), but I wouldn't trade my boot camp experience for anything.

If your son is set on being Marine, that's probably about the end of that conversation. There are lots of benefits to joining the other branches, from quality of life to enlistment bonuses; however, for most of us Marines it's about that Title and brotherhood we share.

Semper Fi to my brothers in here, and to your son if he decides to join our gun club and complete recruit training.
Posted by HeadCall
Member since Feb 2025
5715 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:25 pm to
Tell him to ask to be an Embassy Guard(MSG). It’s probably the best kept secret in the military.
Posted by NOLA1128
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:29 pm to
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Tell him to ask to be an Embassy Guard(MSG). It’s probably the best kept secret in the military.


Only possible after the first enlistment.

And even then, that gets iffy based on needs of the Corps with world events.
Posted by TorchtheFlyingTiger
1st coast
Member since Jan 2008
2886 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:31 pm to
This is not a decision to be rushed into hastily. After a semester or more of college or trade school, boot camp will still be there (plus possibly more incentives w some college) He will learn life skills and maturity in school even if he fails that will make him a better Marine candidate.
I knew many very successful officers that commissioned after an enlistment but it is a long hard and extremely competitive path. Still glad I chose ROTC route.
This post was edited on 6/18/25 at 5:09 pm
Posted by HeadCall
Member since Feb 2025
5715 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:35 pm to
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Only possible after the first enlistment. And even then, that gets iffy based on needs of the Corps with world events.


Nah man they changed it. You can go in right after SOI now. They beefed up a lot of the embassies after Benghazi.

I worked as a contractor in Niger for a while. In the old days a post like that would have like 7-8 MSG Marines but they had I think about 14. So they had to expand the pool.

I kept in touch with some of those guys and when they finished their MSG tour and had to go back to the fleet they got a rude awakening
Posted by miamitiger1999
Member since Jun 2025
7 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:36 pm to
It’s also important for OP to make it very clear to his son that the chances of having a long-term military career as an enlisted Marine is basically slim to none. The pay is terrible and most of those who enlist won’t make it beyond E-4/E-5
This post was edited on 6/18/25 at 4:45 pm
Posted by Guess
Down The Road
Member since Jun 2009
3966 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:40 pm to
With his grades and ACT score, have him take a look at Navy Nuke school. He should be able to get a qualifying ASVAB score and it is the best paying job in the military when transferring back to the civilian world. Only thing is that will basically guarantee that he will be on a carrier unless he volunteers for sub duty.
Posted by ticklechain
Forgotten coast
Member since Mar 2018
825 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:41 pm to
Pogs
Posted by DarkDrifter
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2011
4906 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:45 pm to
My oldest just signed his second contract with the Marines. Past 6 years he’s seen a bunch. Lived in Cali, Hawaii, currently in Mobile and after this year becoming a drill instructor and moving to SCar. He’s enjoyed his time in.
Posted by Bro Dad
Used to live in LaPlass
Member since Feb 2015
894 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:53 pm to
My son had the same grades coming out of HS and went to the USAF. As was mentioned earlier, make him hold out for the job he wants. Not the first job they offer.

It’ll pay off for him no matter what. My son landed the first plant job he applied for. Took me years to get on at a plant.
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