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Do you know any of your neighbors?

Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:38 pm
Posted by Byrdybyrd05
Member since Nov 2014
26565 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:38 pm
Growing up at my old house we knew the neighbors by name and we always said hi and conversated. I noticed now after living in my house since 2011 I still don't know any of my neighbors. It's weird when I cut the grass or wash the car seeing other neighbors not acknowledging the other neighbors. It's like they are scared, if one neighbor is outside and they come across another neighbor they they take their phone out act like they are talking on it until they go inside their home. When my parents bought their home a few years back their neighborhood is the same way nobody says hi or anything. Most of the people who live in our neighborhood are pretty young. I wonder if it's because of social media now people don't know how to talk face to face?
This post was edited on 4/8/18 at 12:45 pm
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53837 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:40 pm to
I know most of the people on our block. We've been here 4-5 years.
Posted by TheMailman
Member since Jul 2017
1550 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:40 pm to
I don't know any. I mean I know their names and wave to them when I see them outside but beyond that - nothing.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
71200 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:40 pm to
I know a few of them, but not all of them. Most of them I met because my dogs kept getting out until we replaced most of the fencing (the labs were literally ripping the wooden fence boards out to eat them).
This post was edited on 4/9/18 at 9:42 am
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:43 pm to
Why don't you have this conversation with your neighbors
Posted by TypoKnig
Member since Aug 2011
8928 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:43 pm to
Everyplace I’ve ever lived have had pretty social neighbors. Maybe it’s you?
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
76123 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:43 pm to
I’ve lived in new house for a year and one next door neighbor is outgoing extrovert and we talk alot, other neighbor is introvert like me so we acknowledge each other when appropriate and we are both fine with that.

When you have kids someday you’ll make alot more neighborhood friends with similar aged children. Don’t sweat it.
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
23354 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:45 pm to
I know who everyone is on my block and about 60% of the people in my subdivision.
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:46 pm to
We know 3 of the families on our street and 4 others around the neighborhood. Most everyone else is one a “smile and wave” basis.

People here are cordial, but I wouldn’t say people are particularly friendly.

EDIT: relatively new community. We’ve been here 4 years
This post was edited on 4/8/18 at 12:48 pm
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56773 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:47 pm to
I do, and I'm reminded of why I loved not having neighbors for so long.

ETA: It's a weird combination of undergrad students, young families, and some old folks. I only like the old folks. There's a 75 year old man that lives next door, his wife passed last year. I'll usually shoot the shite over a a few beers and some grilled meats once or twice a week.
This post was edited on 4/8/18 at 12:51 pm
Posted by alajones
Huntsvegas
Member since Oct 2005
35973 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:48 pm to
It’s transitional.

9 years ago, we knew everyone on our half of the block. It wasn’t unusual for 10 kids to be playing in the yards and the same number of adults out front chillin and hanging out.

Now only my next door neighbor has small kids and all the rest including mine are grown and in college or close. So the block is much quieter than it used to be.

It is what it is.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
61797 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:49 pm to
I know quite a few. Even within several blocks I know quite a few people.
I'm out walking quite a bit and always say hello. The folks who are friendly will be open to stop and have a conversation. It's easy to get to know people that way.
Posted by potent357
Prairieville
Member since Jan 2010
4272 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:50 pm to
Intimately
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:55 pm to
quote:

Byrdybyrd05


Does your neighborhood have an HOA? If so, talk to the association president and ask them about setting up a community page on an app like NextDoor. Since your community skews young, that’s a good way to “connect” people in a way they’d be familiar with.

Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
76123 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:55 pm to
Have you tried trolling the shite out of the neighborhood Facebook page?

You can make friends that way too.

I’ve got a small following going.
Posted by chrome_daddy
LA (Lower Ashvegas)
Member since May 2004
2632 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:55 pm to
Been in the current for 8 years, but we are a bit out in the country. Even still, we know most of the neighbors (some better than others). We've made them cookies, etc., try to be nice so when 100 people show up for a wing ding, they don't complain.

Our next door neighbors are good friends...they just watched our dog and fed our cat while we were out of town on vacation for a week. We drink w/ them 2-3 times a month and the wives are always sharing food.

You should reach out.
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
38170 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 12:58 pm to
Yes. I’m on the HOA board and know too much about some of them.

We had five families in the hood together last night for supper and gathering. Good times.
Posted by LZ83
La
Member since Sep 2016
17446 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 1:00 pm to
quote:

tried trolling the shite


Thought this said trillhog. Don’t trillhog your neighbors.
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
50850 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 1:00 pm to
how is possible to live somewhere for years and not know your neighbors? walk over there, knock on the door, and say hey

Posted by Bigfishchoupique
Member since Jul 2017
9676 posts
Posted on 4/8/18 at 1:01 pm to
I have met most of my neighbors. In fact I introduced myself to my immediate neighbors before I closed on the place. My backyard neighbors are Puerto Rican. They play Dominos on their porch. One evening they were playing and I was frying fish. I brought over a platter of fish and fried potato’s. Since then those folks have fed me pork cooked five different ways, soups,chicken and rice the way they cook it. Good food and great neighbors.
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