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Do you have Impostor Syndrome?
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:36 pm
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:36 pm
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Impostor syndrome is a psychological pattern in which an individual doubts their accomplishments and has a persistent internalized fear of being exposed as a "fraud".
The term impostor syndrome, coined in 1978, is described as a feeling of “phoniness in people who believe that they are not intelligent, capable or creative despite evidence of high achievement.” Basically, when you feel inadequate despite evident success. (Like who am I to write this article?) Ouch. Sound familiar?
Kids may have developed it based on questionable parenting skills. High achievers may have it, never thinking they’ve done enough. Perfectionists who never think their work is good enough. The list of “impostors” goes on and one. There’s a host of reasons why someone could be living with impostor syndrome. While it’s very real and debilitating, someone might not even realize that they are, in fact, living with it.
If you’re thinking about starting a new endeavor and stepping outside of your comfort zone, you may be even more susceptible to it. I see this with my career coaching clients all the time. Though impostor syndrome isn’t an official diagnosis, psychologists acknowledge that it is a very real and specific form of intellectual self-doubt.
Supposedly more men actually have this than women. Perfectionists often think that nothing they do is good enough, and being recognized for their achievement actually makes them uncomfortable. They actually try to rationalize that being considered competent is actually just a weird coincidence.
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This post was edited on 8/31/18 at 4:37 pm
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:37 pm to goofball
I used to be an imposter, but now I’m very open and honest about my mediocrity.
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:38 pm to goofball
I have this because I'm a stupid shithead.
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:38 pm to goofball
Most talented people have a little bit of this going on. Dunning Kruger effect for the win.
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:38 pm to goofball
I’ve been accused of trying to be a Pecker-OweO hybrid. Does that count?
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:40 pm to goofball
Not to that extreme but yeah I see my faults and probably think that they are magnified to people I work with when they probably either don’t notice or don’t care. Possible I spend to much time correcting my own perceived weaknesses instead of focusing on my strengths.
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:41 pm to goofball
SO is an Ivy League graduate but always downplays her accomplishments. I bought her an alumni decal and she refuses to put it on her car.
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:43 pm to Jim Rockford
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SO is an Ivy League graduate but always downplays her accomplishments. I bought her an alumni decal and she refuses to put it on her car.
Send it to me, Jim. I’ll replace my Upper Iowa decal with it.
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:48 pm to goofball
When I got my first big promotion, I had it for about a year.
When my wife graduated med school and became a real doctor, she had it for about a year.
It think it is common to have for a year or two, but not permanently.
I once read a self-help book that best healed it by saying "You are where you are for a reason, trust the instincts and abilities that got you to where you are, and you'll be fine" or something to that effect.
It's a good problem to have.
When my wife graduated med school and became a real doctor, she had it for about a year.
It think it is common to have for a year or two, but not permanently.
I once read a self-help book that best healed it by saying "You are where you are for a reason, trust the instincts and abilities that got you to where you are, and you'll be fine" or something to that effect.
It's a good problem to have.
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:58 pm to goofball
I’ve read that low achievers consistently overrate their own capabilities, and high achievers consistently underrate theirs. And I think there’s a psych term for that as well.
Posted on 8/31/18 at 5:22 pm to TheHarahanian
Dunning-Kruger effect.
Posted on 8/31/18 at 5:24 pm to goofball
A guy in my office had this.
He had been promoted for an upcoming project and killed himself, leaving a note behind about how he felt like a fraud and would be exposed at any moment.
He had been promoted for an upcoming project and killed himself, leaving a note behind about how he felt like a fraud and would be exposed at any moment.
Posted on 8/31/18 at 5:25 pm to goofball
Intelligence and perceived intelligence are a lot of times inversely related.
This post was edited on 8/31/18 at 5:27 pm
Posted on 8/31/18 at 5:37 pm to goofball
I’m just now coming out of it after getting my Ph.D. It felt like every time I made a mistake doing something, a letter was going to come in the mail telling me my degree was being revoked.
Posted on 8/31/18 at 5:47 pm to goofball
I had it when I did 6 months at an Italian culinary school. I was kicked out pretty quick once they found out I was an impasta.


Posted on 8/31/18 at 6:01 pm to goofball
Sounds like something that would be pretty rare amongst OTers.
Posted on 8/31/18 at 6:14 pm to goofball
Honestly took me about 3 or 4 years to decide they (whoever they might be) weren't gonna call and tell me they made a mistake and I had not actually earned my degree. 
Posted on 8/31/18 at 6:49 pm to goofball
I think just about every young officer in the military feels this for his first 3 to 6 months in a real unit.
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