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Do you have Impostor Syndrome?

Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:36 pm
Posted by goofball
Member since Mar 2015
17356 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:36 pm
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Impostor syndrome is a psychological pattern in which an individual doubts their accomplishments and has a persistent internalized fear of being exposed as a "fraud".

The term impostor syndrome, coined in 1978, is described as a feeling of “phoniness in people who believe that they are not intelligent, capable or creative despite evidence of high achievement.” Basically, when you feel inadequate despite evident success. (Like who am I to write this article?) Ouch. Sound familiar?

Kids may have developed it based on questionable parenting skills. High achievers may have it, never thinking they’ve done enough. Perfectionists who never think their work is good enough. The list of “impostors” goes on and one. There’s a host of reasons why someone could be living with impostor syndrome. While it’s very real and debilitating, someone might not even realize that they are, in fact, living with it.

If you’re thinking about starting a new endeavor and stepping outside of your comfort zone, you may be even more susceptible to it. I see this with my career coaching clients all the time. Though impostor syndrome isn’t an official diagnosis, psychologists acknowledge that it is a very real and specific form of intellectual self-doubt.


Supposedly more men actually have this than women. Perfectionists often think that nothing they do is good enough, and being recognized for their achievement actually makes them uncomfortable. They actually try to rationalize that being considered competent is actually just a weird coincidence.

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This post was edited on 8/31/18 at 4:37 pm
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
71182 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:37 pm to
I used to be an imposter, but now I’m very open and honest about my mediocrity.
Posted by LSUFrosty
Member since Jan 2012
1861 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:38 pm to
I have this because I'm a stupid shithead.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:38 pm to
Most talented people have a little bit of this going on. Dunning Kruger effect for the win.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
42897 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:38 pm to
I’ve been accused of trying to be a Pecker-OweO hybrid. Does that count?
Posted by drexyl
Mingovia
Member since Sep 2005
23421 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:40 pm to
Not to that extreme but yeah I see my faults and probably think that they are magnified to people I work with when they probably either don’t notice or don’t care. Possible I spend to much time correcting my own perceived weaknesses instead of focusing on my strengths.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
106050 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:41 pm to
SO is an Ivy League graduate but always downplays her accomplishments. I bought her an alumni decal and she refuses to put it on her car.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
42897 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:43 pm to
quote:

SO is an Ivy League graduate but always downplays her accomplishments. I bought her an alumni decal and she refuses to put it on her car.



Send it to me, Jim. I’ll replace my Upper Iowa decal with it.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
41887 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:47 pm to
No, I know I'm the best.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
76102 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:48 pm to
When I got my first big promotion, I had it for about a year.

When my wife graduated med school and became a real doctor, she had it for about a year.

It think it is common to have for a year or two, but not permanently.

I once read a self-help book that best healed it by saying "You are where you are for a reason, trust the instincts and abilities that got you to where you are, and you'll be fine" or something to that effect.

It's a good problem to have.
Posted by TheHarahanian
Actually not Harahan as of 6/2023
Member since May 2017
24345 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 4:58 pm to
I’ve read that low achievers consistently overrate their own capabilities, and high achievers consistently underrate theirs. And I think there’s a psych term for that as well.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
106050 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 5:22 pm to
Dunning-Kruger effect.
Posted by teke184
Zachary, LA
Member since Jan 2007
105162 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 5:24 pm to
A guy in my office had this.

He had been promoted for an upcoming project and killed himself, leaving a note behind about how he felt like a fraud and would be exposed at any moment.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 5:25 pm to
Intelligence and perceived intelligence are a lot of times inversely related.
This post was edited on 8/31/18 at 5:27 pm
Posted by BamaChemE
Midland, TX
Member since Feb 2012
7695 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 5:37 pm to
I’m just now coming out of it after getting my Ph.D. It felt like every time I made a mistake doing something, a letter was going to come in the mail telling me my degree was being revoked.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
71829 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 5:47 pm to
I had it when I did 6 months at an Italian culinary school. I was kicked out pretty quick once they found out I was an impasta.



























Posted by FightinTigersDammit
Louisiana North
Member since Mar 2006
46425 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 6:01 pm to
Sounds like something that would be pretty rare amongst OTers.
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
48587 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 6:14 pm to
Honestly took me about 3 or 4 years to decide they (whoever they might be) weren't gonna call and tell me they made a mistake and I had not actually earned my degree.
Posted by AbuTheMonkey
Chicago, IL
Member since May 2014
8719 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 6:49 pm to
I think just about every young officer in the military feels this for his first 3 to 6 months in a real unit.
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