- My Forums
- Tiger Rant
- LSU Recruiting
- SEC Rant
- Saints Talk
- Pelicans Talk
- More Sports Board
- Coaching Changes
- Fantasy Sports
- Golf Board
- Soccer Board
- O-T Lounge
- Tech Board
- Home/Garden Board
- Outdoor Board
- Health/Fitness Board
- Movie/TV Board
- Book Board
- Music Board
- Political Talk
- Money Talk
- Fark Board
- Gaming Board
- Travel Board
- Food/Drink Board
- Ticket Exchange
- TD Help Board
Customize My Forums- View All Forums
- Show Left Links
- Topic Sort Options
- Trending Topics
- Recent Topics
- Active Topics
Started By
Message
re: Do you consider your wife/girlfriend or husband/boyfriend your best friend?
Posted on 12/29/24 at 9:32 pm to Oates Mustache
Posted on 12/29/24 at 9:32 pm to Oates Mustache
Yes, and it's not close
Posted on 12/29/24 at 9:37 pm to Oates Mustache
quote:
Do you consider your wife/girlfriend or husband/boyfriend your best friend?

Posted on 12/29/24 at 9:45 pm to Oates Mustache
Not with my first wife but definitely with my second wife she definitely was my best friend
Posted on 12/29/24 at 9:48 pm to Miketheseventh
quote:what about the third
Not with my first wife but definitely with my second wife she definitely was my best friend
Posted on 12/29/24 at 9:50 pm to Oates Mustache
quote:
Do you consider your wife/girlfriend or husband/boyfriend your best friend?
I did at one point in my life for a very long time until she walked out of our marriage.
I am cordial to her, and will always respect her as the mother of our children, but today she is no longer my friend. And I am okay with that.
This post was edited on 12/29/24 at 9:51 pm
Posted on 12/29/24 at 9:54 pm to SuperSaint
quote:
what about the third
That ain’t happening
Posted on 12/29/24 at 9:54 pm to Oates Mustache
Because it's not true
Because I'm honest
Because I don't lie
Because I'm honest
Because I don't lie
Posted on 12/29/24 at 9:55 pm to Oates Mustache
Not so fast Mr. private detective.
Posted on 12/29/24 at 9:56 pm to ChatGPT of LA
Those aren't actual reasons, just your opinion.
Posted on 12/29/24 at 10:00 pm to Oates Mustache
You asked why I said what I said. Those are the EXACT reasons I said it.
Posted on 12/29/24 at 10:00 pm to ChatGPT of LA
quote:
You asked why I said what I said. Those are the EXACT reasons I said it.
So your proof that everyone is lying is "reasons", ok.
Posted on 12/29/24 at 11:35 pm to Oates Mustache
quote:I love my wife and may have used the phrase “I married my best friend” before, because we get along and rarely fight. Been together 15 years.
Do you consider your wife/girlfriend or husband/boyfriend your best friend?
But most men are not psychologically wired to be a woman’s best friend. We have different hormones and our innate biology is to be attracted to a woman for procreation, alone.
I would say if your wife is truly your best friend, you may need to rethink your ability to cultivate other healthy male friendships.
I have my friends and my hobbies, and my wife has hers. When we are together she enhances and compliments my life, and supports my goals, and I do the same for her.
But the idea of “we’re a power couple, we’re gonna do everything together, and be besties and take on the world” is honestly some bs that is messing men up.
My wife likely doesn’t even want me to be her best friend. She wants me to be her protector, provider, dad to her kids, etc. A man that cares for her and supports her goals and dreams. It’s okay that we don’t have a lot of the same interests & hobbies. We’re not supposed to like the same everything. And want to talk about the same everything. You also don’t need to be weak and vulnerable 24/7 to someone who once saw you as mysterious and attractive.
There’s a world where you can be very attracted to, and in love with your wife, and support all her endeavors without being her “best friend”.
Posted on 12/30/24 at 12:43 am to Oates Mustache
Yes, and its not even close. And I say that while still being close with my best friend from high school.
Posted on 12/30/24 at 6:20 am to Oates Mustache
Yes. And if your wife is not your best friend, you married the wrong one. To be with someone most of your life you have to be or you'll be miserable.
Popular
Back to top



0






