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re: Do you consider your wife/girlfriend or husband/boyfriend your best friend?

Posted on 12/29/24 at 2:20 pm to
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
216143 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 2:20 pm to
Mrs PJ was 1000% my best friend. We naver argued(after I quit drinking) we were always able to communicate about anything. I trusted her with my life and she trusted me the same. I miss her a ton… this is hard.
Posted by FieldEngineer
Member since Jan 2015
2598 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 2:21 pm to
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I love my wife but she's not my best friend.


Same. It’s very different and it blows my mind how many here claim their spouse is their best friend.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
119977 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 2:26 pm to
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This is a thread of self identified cucks, of course it isn’t healthy.


So long as we remain loyal to one another, I don’t give a frick what my wife does and she the same with me (within reason obviously). It’s the controlling relationships that are full of cucks and are detrimental.
Posted by N2cars
Close by
Member since Feb 2008
38002 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 2:29 pm to
All were/are.
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
109735 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 2:32 pm to
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None of my other friends let me frick them


Maybe you didn’t ask nice enough.
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
26062 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 2:33 pm to
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blows my mind how many here claim their spouse is their best friend.


You don't explain why you feel this way.

My SO is someone I've been with a very long time. I do have guys I've been friends with longer, but my SO is who I share everything with, the good and the bad. When you get married, you make a commitment to that person, I think there's even a verse somewhere in the wedding where the clergy makes mention of you basically leaving all others to become one.

Is this just some outdated notion now?

I have some very close guy friends, but none are at the level of my SO. I'd choose her over anyone else.

And yeah, being able to have sex with that person is pretty awesome as well, like Yellowfin said.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
119977 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 2:41 pm to
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It’s very different and it blows my mind how many here claim their spouse is their best friend.


I mean, my wife is the funniest woman I’ve ever met, has the sharpest wit of anyone I’ve ever met, and I think she could be stand up material since she’s much funnier than Heather McMahan is and I knew her in college. We have similar interests and the ones we don’t we have a bit of interest in the other hobbies of our SO.

I just have a lot of fun with my wife and I know that I can depend on her for anything. It’s not that hard even though there are probably three other people I’d also call best friends, but for different reasons.
This post was edited on 12/29/24 at 2:42 pm
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
109735 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 2:44 pm to
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but my SO is who I share everything with, the good and the bad.


Plus, there’s no legal privilege to what you share with your “best friend” you aren’t married to.
Posted by bird35
Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
13430 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 2:54 pm to
Yes, I know this sounds cheesy but we’ve been married almost 30 years. I don’t know where I stop and she starts anymore. I surely wouldn’t want to do this life without her.

Posted by Relham10
Ridge
Member since Jan 2013
20027 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 2:55 pm to
Best friend with benefits............every once in awhile
Posted by BigBinBR
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2023
9331 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 2:58 pm to
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None of this sounds healthy.


You missed that thread from earlier in the week: OT
Posted by llfshoals
Member since Nov 2010
20576 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 3:03 pm to
Yes. Wasn’t when we got married, but grew into it.
Posted by Random LSU Hero
2014 NFL Survivor Champion (17-0)
Member since Aug 2011
9546 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 3:16 pm to
Heck yeah, we tight af
Posted by XenScott
Pensacola
Member since Oct 2016
4024 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 3:42 pm to
Yes.
Posted by MBclass83
Member since Oct 2010
10126 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 3:43 pm to
No
Posted by ElderTiger
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2010
7674 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 3:43 pm to
Yes !
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
83187 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 3:51 pm to
No, my wife is not a friend. She’s more than that. She’s in a category of her own.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
50044 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 3:51 pm to
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It’s very different and it blows my mind how many here claim their spouse is their best friend.

It’s the OT. We’re all perfect husbands, friends, and fathers. Just ignore 95% of what’s posted here
Posted by Solo Cam
Member since Sep 2015
34734 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 3:52 pm to
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Same. It’s very different and it blows my mind how many here claim their spouse is their best friend.
I agree. It's strange how mad some of these guys are getting about it.

I find it hard to believe if these guys got a guilt free trip that no one knew about they'd take their wife. Good for them if so but in some hypothetical world where someone said- I'm going to freeze time and you get a week and you can go on a hunting trip, fishing trip, Vegas or any beach in the world and you can bring one person to hang out with who would it be?

I might bring my wife so I could get my dick wet but ain't nothing like a buddy trip fishing for a few days getting tore up and laughing until your sides hurt. It's so fun when you have that one friend who does crazy shite like hires a stripper to come to the camp or brings a little bag of blow or some shrooms. Just dumb fun shite that you can partake in and not be judged and looked at like an animal.

So much better than a spouse who ask you how much your gonna drink, or has plans and doesn't really care if you object or frankly you have to playcate when they have dumbass plans but you can't say anything or you'll hurt their feelings.

If my buddy is being a jackass or doing something I don't like I can just tell him and not worry about his feelings and if he bitches and moans I can just call him a pussy.

I love getting laid but with post-nut clarity ain't no way I wanna just hang out and do girl shite. I'm a degenerate piece of shite though.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
136251 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 3:52 pm to
Yes
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