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Do you and your spouse talk about everything?

Posted on 12/10/25 at 7:56 am
Posted by LSU6262
Member since Jun 2008
7934 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 7:56 am
We have several married friends who seem to never talk and communicate with each other.

My wife and I discuss everything. If you tell my wife something, I also know and vice versa.

Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
31544 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 7:58 am to
I talk to my wife about anything and everything that would matter to her. I don’t gossip to her.
This post was edited on 12/10/25 at 7:59 am
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
35719 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 7:59 am to
Of course.
Posted by WhiskeyThrottle
Weatherford Tx
Member since Nov 2017
6943 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:00 am to
It took me a good bit to get comfortable communicating with my wife. As I've gotten older and we've been married longer, there isn't anything I intentionally keep away from her. Just stuff I fail to tell her.

I do have friends that seem like they live their separate lives and just share a house. It's odd to me, but it works for them.
Posted by SpotCheckBilly
Member since May 2020
8209 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:00 am to
Not everything, but most everything.

For example, a friend told me a particularly ugly rumor he had heard. Whether true or not, it has absolutely no effect on my wife or our marriage or family. I have not repeated it to anyone, nor will I.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
15652 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:01 am to
My wife is a non-verbal autistic so no.
Posted by AtlantaLSUfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
26674 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:02 am to
Chit chat with them as often as possible, way more than you think you should, but don’t ever share your vulnerabilities.
Posted by Beer did clam
BatonRouge where CATS are RATZ
Member since Oct 2009
1476 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:03 am to
I have 49 years on a life sentence.
We combined bank accounts and our futures making this marriage a commitment.

Bacon & eggs breakfast.
The chicken is very supportive
The pig is committed.

Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
369 Cardboard Box Lane
Member since Nov 2019
13905 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:04 am to
Only when I'm beating up them guts.
Posted by Deuces
The bottom
Member since Nov 2011
16327 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:08 am to
I try not to tell her about my other family
Posted by Nevada_Tiger
Las Veags
Member since Jan 2025
324 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:08 am to
quote:

My wife is a non-verbal autistic so no.


You serious, Clark? If so, how does that work?

Not bashing - genuinely curious.
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
10789 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:08 am to
We do. Everything. To me it's a red flag to myself if I feel like I need to keep something from her.
Posted by ClemsonKitten
Member since Aug 2025
552 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:08 am to
Posted by BlackPot
Member since Oct 2016
2560 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:09 am to
I usually keep a few things from her, gives me a bank in the back to bring up if our normal conversations get stale. Give me some good starter conversations. And she probably over shares lol.
Posted by Shut Up Mulllet
Member since Apr 2021
969 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:09 am to
Nope. I do not. Let’s be honest.
She doesn't want to hear half my crap. I don’t want to hear 99% of hers.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
20466 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:09 am to
quote:

My wife is a non-verbal autistic so no.


Ohhh I have so many questions.

But I think it’s a troll comment.
This post was edited on 12/10/25 at 8:10 am
Posted by DarthRebel
Tier Five is Alive
Member since Feb 2013
24901 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:10 am to
We have busy teenage kids, so we are passing ships in the night many times.

We made a major change a bit back to take 1 to 2 date nights a week, no kids. We talk about everything and anything. Nothing off-limits.

My advice to any parents, when you reach the moment kids can stay at home without supervision, make date night a weekly thing. Do it sooner if you have someone that can watch the kids.
Posted by Thracken13
Aft Cargo Hold of Serenity
Member since Feb 2010
18534 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:10 am to
yes - Communication is the fundamental base of a relationship - you don't have that, you have nothing
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
51921 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:14 am to
How old are y’all?
I’ve noticed my parents don’t communicate like we do & friends say the same about their parents
Posted by bamacoullion
Fayette, Alabama
Member since Oct 2008
2603 posts
Posted on 12/10/25 at 8:14 am to
Yes
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