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Do You Agree(Lie) to Avoid Raining on Someone's Parade?

Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:35 pm
Posted by Funky Tide 8
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Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:35 pm
I was pondering this last night. I am a pretty agreeable person. If someone shows or tells me something that they are excited about, I usually give them affirmation regardless of if I actually think that it is interesting, exciting, or "good."

I am a bit of a music nerd across many genres. My girlfriend put on a band that she really likes last night, and I didn't think that it was bad or anything, just not my thing, and I wasn't that impressed in a music sense. She kept going on and on as we were listening about how and why she thought that they were so good. Instead of telling her how exactly how I really feel, I just kind of agreed with her that I also thought that they were really good.

Its no skin off my back to just agree with her, and I don't want to be a dick and break down why I disagree with something that she really enjoys. Its just music. But I was thinking about it last night, and I actually do this a good bit with friends, family, co-workers. Nothing of any real consequence. Its all pretty subjective. If I do feel strongly enough about something, or if its a question of ethics or morality, I will certainly speak up.

I don't really see the harm in it, but I am indeed lying. I am doing it as to not make that person feel bad, or question what they like. I try to not be a Debbie Downer.

Does that make me a liar?
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83638 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:37 pm to
are you asking that when my wife comes out in a dress that looks like a potato sack if I lie and tell her she looks great?

yes, yes I do

ETA:

please stop with this shite women

This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 2:43 pm
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55872 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:37 pm to
shitting on music (assuming it's actual music) someone likes is pretty lame
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 2:55 pm
Posted by SidetrackSilvera
Member since Nov 2012
1956 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:38 pm to
Yes, but I'm only saying that because it feels like you want me to call you a liar.
Posted by tlsu15
Capital of Texas
Member since Aug 2011
10051 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:38 pm to
Don’t yuck someone’s yum is a pretty easy rule to follow
Posted by Auburn80
Backwater, TN
Member since Nov 2017
7585 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:39 pm to
No. It’s just an opinion and there is no reason to squash someone else’s joy.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
66400 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:40 pm to
guess it's better than being a dick about it.

hey i like this band

wtf they suck donkey dick!

Posted by Dire Wolf
bawcomville
Member since Sep 2008
36728 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:40 pm to
i pretend to not know what the Supreme Court is to avoid listening to someone rant about politics.

"huh? Gaza? is that one those pyramids,"
Posted by jcaz
Laffy
Member since Aug 2014
15734 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:42 pm to
quote:

shitting on music (assuming it's actual music) someone like is pretty lame

Taylor Swift is the only exception purely because of the cult following
Posted by RealDawg
Dawgville
Member since Nov 2012
9501 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:44 pm to
Don’t kick sand castles
Posted by North Dallas Tiger
United States of America
Member since Mar 2024
2773 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:44 pm to
Hell Naw

For example, I didn't read your TLDR post and immediately downvoted you plus I think your thread subject is kinda beta...

See how that works? I feel great and dgaf how my comments affect you because I may or may not be an anti-social sociopath.

Have a great day!

Posted by JetsetNuggs
Member since Jun 2014
13989 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:45 pm to
I usually give some fence sitting answer like "they're really talented, just not the usual genre I listen to. Might have to throw it in the playlist though."
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 2:47 pm
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Tittleman's Crest
Member since Feb 2009
52814 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:52 pm to
quote:


Hell Naw

For example, I didn't read your TLDR post and immediately downvoted you plus I think your thread subject is kinda beta...

See how that works? I feel great and dgaf how my comments affect you because I may or may not be an anti-social sociopath.

Have a great day!


I sort of think that you are lying here.
Posted by North Dallas Tiger
United States of America
Member since Mar 2024
2773 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:53 pm to
quote:

I sort of think that you are lying here.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
11470 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:55 pm to
My friends and I argue constantly about anything and everything. Random people or folks at work? I just nod and say cool then go about my day. Some folks don't react to disagreement well. I don't want to argue all morning with a coworker about if the tracks they saw are from bigfoot or a lineman.
Posted by Lsutigerturner
Member since Dec 2016
5838 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:56 pm to
Yes keep my friends and family happy u til they say some some sly slick shite then hit em with the truth in a flippant manner
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
16250 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:57 pm to
Yep do it all the time.
Posted by Supermoto Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2010
9948 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 3:10 pm to
quote:

Does that make me a liar?

Not at all. It just makes you a decent human. I generally do the same thing.
Posted by sqerty
AP
Member since May 2022
5136 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 3:32 pm to
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My girlfriend put on a band that she really likes last night,


She knew you wouldn't like it and is making a list. This is a slippery slope.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
28640 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 3:35 pm to
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Do You Agree(Lie) to Avoid Raining on Someone's Parade?

All the time.
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