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re: Do the majority of women have trouble letting things go?

Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:55 pm to
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
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Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:55 pm to
oh shite i missed that one
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
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481186 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:57 pm to
i'm just now getting to experience this with the first real gf

i have to text friends to ask them if it's normal. it's just all insane to me
Posted by bgtiger
SOLA
Member since Dec 2004
12239 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 7:52 pm to
Yes. fricking yes.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 11/18/18 at 8:03 pm to
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i think this is 100% a modern insecurity



You think women holding grudges is a modern thing???
Posted by reverendotis
the jawbone of an arse
Member since Nov 2007
4988 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 8:12 pm to
Your problem isn't that she is mad at you.

Your problem is that you give a shite one way or the other if she is mad at you.
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 8:13 pm to
How’s that single life going for you?
Posted by HollyWoodCole
CA
Member since Nov 2017
1255 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 8:24 pm to
Probably, maybe.

All they need is a serious rodgering to forget everything.

So sex is the answer.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
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Posted on 11/18/18 at 8:27 pm to
In the female mind, holding a grudge is a sense of power.

Depending on the other person, that can very much be a false sense of power.
This post was edited on 11/18/18 at 8:30 pm
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 8:32 pm to
That’s not where out sense of power comes from.
Posted by reverendotis
the jawbone of an arse
Member since Nov 2007
4988 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 8:35 pm to
Been married 23 years.

We don't agonize over the things most couples agonize over. When someone is mad over something stupid, they always know it deep down inside.

It is a supreme act of narcissism to expect another person to expend their emotional capital on something you know in your heart is foolish and petty.

Wanting someone else to be mad about something or fight over something that you know doesn't make any real difference is recklessly selfish.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
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138834 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 8:35 pm to
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That’s not where out sense of power comes from
I am also watching Red Sparrow on TV right now

Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 8:39 pm to
Being able to let go is prized in Zen lore. All suffer from holding on to this life.
Rest assured, your misogyny is misplaced.

You are attached to the idea of you, ego-dude.

You think you are not One with the divine and All.

I fart in your silly sexist direction.


Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 8:40 pm to
Well I have to agree with that and congrats and the 23 years. What’s kept you married for so long is that you do in fact care about what upsets your wife.
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 8:47 pm to
quote:


It is a supreme act of narcissism to expect another person to expend their emotional capital on something you know in your heart is foolish and petty. 

Wanting someone else to be mad about something or fight over something that you know doesn't make any real difference is recklessly selfish.



Gracias and Aloha
Posted by Dalosaqy
I can't quite re
Member since Dec 2007
13570 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 8:52 pm to
I just thank god I'm an open, fully actualized man.
Posted by HollyWoodCole
CA
Member since Nov 2017
1255 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 8:53 pm to
Intelligent men and women overthink.

Taking a trip downtown to pound town will correct that.
Posted by LSUwag
Florida man
Member since Jan 2007
18141 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 9:41 pm to
You’re describing every woman ever In the history of humanity.
Posted by TOSOV
Member since Jan 2016
8922 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 10:19 pm to
And they bring it up at the worse times too. Like texting you right before you fall asleep, and your the bad person for "not wanting to talk about it". Freaking nutz
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11637 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 10:26 pm to
quote:

no, but I think differently than most women


Every woman thinks she’s different from most women. None of us are.
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 11/18/18 at 10:28 pm to





Exactly
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