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Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:28 pm to Masterag
no, but I think differently than most women
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:32 pm to Tester1216
Yes. I think we as women also try to try rationalize things and figure out why someone did what they did and try to solve and answer things.
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:34 pm to genuineLSUtiger
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Why don't you try to question that conditioning and break the cycle? You have freewill. Use it. People are lazy and just think they are on autopilot.
Exactly. If we have to make a lifelong sacrifice to ignore our urge to bang as much strange as possible. The least women could do is recognize this behavior and change it.
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:35 pm to genuineLSUtiger
Eh. It’s a pretty big line. I’m talking major stuff. Once that has been crossed it’s not somebody I need in my life anymore.
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:37 pm to Masterag
i can deal with grudges
what i can't stand is the irrational "don't' try to solve my problems" stuff, aka, "just let me pointlessly bitch and waste everyone's time"
what i can't stand is the irrational "don't' try to solve my problems" stuff, aka, "just let me pointlessly bitch and waste everyone's time"
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:37 pm to liz18lsu
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o, but I think differently than most women
age, location, relationship status please.
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:37 pm to Masterag
40
Florida
fake married to her LTbf
Florida
fake married to her LTbf
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:39 pm to genuineLSUtiger
So let me ask you this, someone does something to you and burns you multiple times so you just rationalize it and forgive them? Or do you avoid that person, not giving them the opportunity to hurt you again?
And if your answer is no, then that my friend is a considered a grudge.
And if your answer is no, then that my friend is a considered a grudge.
This post was edited on 11/18/18 at 5:40 pm
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:41 pm to Masterag
I call bs on that but good luck.
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:45 pm to Tester1216
I don’t think that is holding a grudge. I think it’s more moving on and recognizing you’re better off without that drama. To me holding a grudge is saying you’re over it and every fight or argument you bring it up.
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:47 pm to Tester1216
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So let me ask you this, someone does something to you and burns you multiple times so you just rationalize it and forgive them?
a. i try to limit that "multiple times" number
b. i pretty much always forgive people b/c i don't have high expectations of them and try to avoid letting their acts affect my emotions
and i've had people do some fricked up shite to me, like create a fake date with me in high school (back when i was emotionally unstable) only to give someone the opportunity to deface my mom's relatively new car (given that we grew up poor that was unfathomable to me)
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:47 pm to duggieblue
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Yes... just like the majority of men.
LOL, no.
The petty crap I've seen women hold grudges about in the office is unbelievable. And it's mostly personal - women feeling dissed by other women.
They have a real hard time forgiving mistakes by other women and really take it personally.
Drama llamas.
My standard response when some of my employees come to me with this petty bullshite is "Not my circus, not my monkeys."
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:50 pm to here4thepopcorn
That makes sense.
I guess that case in point would be like I said earlier. I’ll forgive you but won’t forget and if you ever ask why I’ll dredge that up with the quickness. Not excluding pie charts and graphs.
I guess that case in point would be like I said earlier. I’ll forgive you but won’t forget and if you ever ask why I’ll dredge that up with the quickness. Not excluding pie charts and graphs.
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:51 pm to SlowFlowPro
Damn Slow.
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:51 pm to here4thepopcorn
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Yes. I think we as women also try to try rationalize things and figure out why someone did what they did
This post was edited on 11/18/18 at 5:52 pm
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:53 pm to LongueCarabine
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The petty crap I've seen women hold grudges about in the office is unbelievable. And it's mostly personal - women feeling dissed by other women. They have a real hard time forgiving mistakes by other women and really take it personally. Drama llamas.
I work with 98% women, and the fights and drama they create are both innumerable and epic.
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:54 pm to LongueCarabine
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The petty crap I've seen women hold grudges about in the office is unbelievable. And it's mostly personal - women feeling dissed by other women.
This crap is the worst. I completely shut it down. It does not add anything to my day and makes my work life miserable. I much prefer to work with men. Way less drama.
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:55 pm to Tester1216
the immediate reaction is rough but when you get more rational and find something close to clarity, you realize that their lives/soul must be truly pathetic to do something like that
Posted on 11/18/18 at 5:55 pm to SlowFlowPro
Like they say, Misery loves company.
Sorry that happened to you, buddy.
Sorry that happened to you, buddy.
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