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re: Do people have destination weddings on purpose to inconvenience family?
Posted on 7/13/25 at 7:52 am to TigersHuskers
Posted on 7/13/25 at 7:52 am to TigersHuskers
Worrying about missing a football game over your brothers wedding in a beautiful destination location is peak white culture
Posted on 7/13/25 at 7:53 am to TigersHuskers
Yes. It sounds like you have many excuses not to go. Just pick one.
Posted on 7/13/25 at 7:53 am to TigersHuskers
If you’re poor just say you’re poor
Posted on 7/13/25 at 7:54 am to TigersHuskers
Yes they do.
My cousin got married in Ireland for just that reason: unwanted trashy family
The brides family being the trash
My cousin got married in Ireland for just that reason: unwanted trashy family
The brides family being the trash
This post was edited on 7/13/25 at 7:55 am
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:19 am to TigersHuskers
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Trying to find an excuse not to go.
Tell them you got stuck on the interstate behind someone towing 3 shitty cars and missed your flight.
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:25 am to TigersHuskers
quote:would hate to miss pulling off an upset of the Golden Gophers and moving only one win under .500
on a Husker gameday
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:26 am to TigersHuskers
We did it to escape everyone wanting an invite to some sort of event except the most immediate friends and family. Plus it was easily drivable.
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:26 am to imjustafatkid
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I did this. I didn't want people to show and even told them that, but of course we weren't going to tell them they absolutely couldn't. For some reason, quite a few showed up anyway.
Then why even invite them? For a teapot on your Amazon wedding registry?
Ridiculous.
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:29 am to Martini
It’s definitely cracking me up that posters are calling people poor for not wanting to go while also saying they did it because they didn’t want people to show
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:35 am to imjustafatkid
I’m okay with it but pick an affordable place. My sister in law got married and picked the most expensive place possible it seemed. Wanted to puke when they handed me my hotel bill and it was a decent but into 5 figures (of course I wasn’t overly shocked but still made me nauseous). Flights were expensive as shite too
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:40 am to Sun God
If they don’t want them to show instead of having “Wedding Invitations “ printed they should have “Wedding Announcements Postcards” printed and mail them to family and friends from the destination. That would be a lot more appropriate.
“Just wanted to let everyone know, me,
Cardi B and her stankin arse are getting married today on our Carnival Cruise. Thanks for all the love and support and Lysol.”
I’d send them a fricking diaper genie, and an anus bleaching coupon just for being considerate enough not to invite me.
“Just wanted to let everyone know, me,
Cardi B and her stankin arse are getting married today on our Carnival Cruise. Thanks for all the love and support and Lysol.”
I’d send them a fricking diaper genie, and an anus bleaching coupon just for being considerate enough not to invite me.
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:41 am to TigersHuskers
They don’t want you to go. They likely want to enjoy their time together and have their wedding actually be about them without family ruining everything with their bullshite. A destination wedding is a great way to say you invited someone while also having a chance of them not showing up
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:42 am to imjustafatkid
quote:thats retarded. Don’t invite someone if you don’t want them to show up.
I didn't want people to show
When you do a destination wedding and invite guest it’s an understanding you would welcome/appreciate if they joined you but you don’t expect them to.
As opposed to relegating to having your wedding in your shite hole podunk hometown, 15min up the road from your brother and stepmom. It’s an understanding that you expect them to attend. Your autistic queer brother can watch the couple lowlights later of the bottom feeding Husker game.
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:48 am to Martini
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Then why even invite them? For a teapot on your Amazon wedding registry?
Ridiculous.
We didn't. We told them what we were doing. Didn't send out invites.
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:49 am to SuperSaint
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thats retarded. Don’t invite someone if you don’t want them to show up.
I didn't say I invited people, but it's not like it was a secret I was getting married.
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:51 am to TigersHuskers
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destination
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Trashy.
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:51 am to TigersHuskers
Any girl that wants a destination wedding is trouble. High maintenance and drama.
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:54 am to TitleistProV1X
quote:my niece got married in a castle in Denmark last year.
My sister in law got married and picked the most expensive place possible it seemed.
Got the wedding invite.
Sent a wedding gift and nice card.
Not sure it was ever even brought up in conversation on not attending.It’s not all that complex.
Unless you’re a woman and you can’t function without complicating things.
Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:55 am to SlidellCajun
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Any girl that wants a destination wedding is trouble. High maintenance and drama.

Posted on 7/13/25 at 8:55 am to SlidellCajun
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Any girl and her mother that wants a destination wedding is trouble.
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