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re: Do I Have To Tell My Fiancé If A Former GF Wants To Meet Up With Me?

Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:16 pm to
Posted by Breauxsif
Member since May 2012
22291 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:16 pm to
quote:

Just dump the girl. You're not even married and talking behind her back to your ex and planning dinners.


Well said, blunt, and to the point
Posted by PsychTiger
Member since Jul 2004
104270 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:16 pm to
Subtle “I’m gonna bang my ex” brag thread.
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
Gods country
Member since Sep 2016
17165 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:17 pm to
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I say smash if for old times sake and never speak to her again.

Probably wouldn’t tell the fiancé though
yep this is the move
Posted by DeafJam73
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
19122 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:18 pm to
She’s marrying you. If she can’t trust you to not frick an ex, then you need to rethink things.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171891 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:18 pm to
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There’s no point in just assuming the worst without having an actual conversation first


He most likely knows how this would play out if he says something. Hence why he's hiding it.
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
Gods country
Member since Sep 2016
17165 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:19 pm to
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OMLandshark
you have the wildest imagination you just weaved am entire screenplay of a romcom from a post on a message board about some dude potentially having dinner with an ex
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
84398 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:19 pm to
I don't think you understand women very well
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85489 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:20 pm to
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complete open candor is the best way
always. Why wouldn’t it be with someone you’re planning to share your whole life with?
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
68905 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:20 pm to
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LuckyTiger


1. How would you react if your fiancé told you she’d been keeping in touch with an old boyfriend.

2. How would you react if she told you this old boyfriend she’d secretly been keeping in touch with will be in town and wants to meet her for dinner while your out of town?

The answer to those two questions should clue you in on what to do.
This post was edited on 3/26/19 at 7:26 pm
Posted by LuckyTiger
Someone's Alter
Member since Dec 2008
49497 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:21 pm to
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VermilionTiger

Well said. You are clearly an expert.

I will tell fiancé. Deal with that. I know she will ask why she wants to meet me. I’ll just say idk, you tell me. Answering questions only leads to more questions.

Then tell ex. Just say not a good idea and that’s it.
Posted by LuckyTiger
Someone's Alter
Member since Dec 2008
49497 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:22 pm to
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BellaTigre18

Quiet.

Men are talking.
Posted by DCtiger1
Member since Jul 2009
10158 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:22 pm to
There’s no room for lies in a healthy relationship. Would you want her lying about having dinner with her ex while you were out of town?
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
58311 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:23 pm to
Nobody can be this stupid
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:23 pm to
quote:

Quiet. Men are talking.


You’re no man.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
117998 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:23 pm to
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you have the wildest imagination you just weaved am entire screenplay of a romcom from a post on a message board about some dude potentially having dinner with an ex


I’d never consider doing that with any of my exes while I dated another woman. The only excuse I could see the SO being fine with is if they were divorced with kids and wanted to talk about being good parents together but separate. But you have to say that right out of the gate. Otherwise the only reason he’d consider it ruining his future marriage is if he was actually in love with the ex and not in love with his fiancé. I think my analysis of him is largely correct if he isn’t trolling.
Posted by LuckyTiger
Someone's Alter
Member since Dec 2008
49497 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:23 pm to
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TH03

You are such a queer.
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
84398 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:23 pm to
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frick it. I’ll tell her it’s not a good idea.

Then I’ll have to listen to her questions asking me why and accusations that fiancé is insecure, why wouldn’t she trust me, blah blah blah.

I’ll just tell her it’s my decision and that’s the end of it. Then she will accuse me of still wanting her, Of not being able to trust myself around her, etc.

Which is nothing to do with reality. That’s why a part of me wants to meet her. To show her that there is nothing to it.

Jesus Christ. Get ahold of yourself. You're way too emotional about this. There are still feelings there, no matter what you're telling people here
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34377 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:24 pm to
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will tell fiancé. Deal with that. I know she will ask why she wants to meet me. I’ll just say idk, you tell me. Answering questions only leads to more questions.

Your fiancé will end up staying, invite her to join.
Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43470 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:24 pm to
You should not have that dinner without your fiance present. In other words.. don't do it.
This post was edited on 3/26/19 at 7:25 pm
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
36204 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 7:24 pm to
Don't say shite. Beat them cheeks
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