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re: Did you want to know who your SO slept with in the past?

Posted on 10/19/14 at 2:22 pm to
Posted by Displaced
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Posted on 10/19/14 at 2:22 pm to
my fiancé recently stood in the wedding of the guy who took her virginity. I thought that was kinda strange.

if your partner's number is relatively low, I would want to know who they are.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 10/19/14 at 2:25 pm to
welcome to the cuckhold frat
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 10/19/14 at 2:28 pm to
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my fiancé recently stood in the wedding of the guy who took her virginity. I thought that was kinda strange. if your partner's number is relatively low, I would want to know who they are.

So he came for her and then she came for him.
Not sure I would have posted such high-jinx if it were true for me.
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
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Posted on 10/19/14 at 3:26 pm to
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Build trust in the relationship? I know how many she's been with and vice versa, and it's not a big deal to either of us.

Same. Some people think keeping certain things from your SO is a must. Then they're the same ones that say getting married is stupid.

"I've only gained 40 pounds and never spend weekends with my SO because football is on! WHY WON'T SHE BLOW ME EVERY DAY?!?!?"
This post was edited on 10/19/14 at 3:27 pm
Posted by Need4Speed
Member since Aug 2014
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Posted on 10/19/14 at 3:30 pm to
It would be weird, it kills me that the love of my life is being railed by some other guy
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 10/19/14 at 3:36 pm to
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It would be weird, it kills me that the love of my life is being railed by some other guy


I think that's the way most of these "I don't care, doesn't matter" goobs really are, I'm the biggest hypocrite about that in the world, because I have done things that porn movies/Penthouse Forum, hire people to write up, but I don't like to think of my wife's sexcapades, even though we were married when she was 35
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
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Posted on 10/19/14 at 3:44 pm to
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my fiancé recently stood in the wedding of the guy who took her virginity. I thought that was kinda strange.

I know what you mean; I have bedded several of the women some old friends went on to marry, it really isn't a big deal.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 10/19/14 at 3:46 pm to
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I have bedded several of the women some old friends went on to marry, it really isn't a big deal.

same here, but it wasn't a big deal because the dudes didn't know
Posted by TxTiger82
Member since Sep 2004
33940 posts
Posted on 10/19/14 at 3:46 pm to
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But did you ask WHO those people were


Nope. A lot comes out from stories told here and there, but you don't want to know this stuff, especially if the girl has been hanging in your friend circles for quite some time.
Posted by noonan
Nassau Bay, TX
Member since Aug 2005
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Posted on 10/19/14 at 3:49 pm to
Have no interest in her number. What's the point?
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 10/19/14 at 3:49 pm to
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Nope. A lot comes out from stories told here and there, but you don't want to know this stuff, especially if the girl has been hanging in your friend circles for quite some time.


I'm too much of a detective for that, so easy, and conversely, I have to either tell some stories or not
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 10/19/14 at 3:50 pm to
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What's the point?

he knocked up a 21-22 yr. old freak
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
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Posted on 10/19/14 at 3:51 pm to
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Build trust in the relationship? I know how many she's been with and vice versa, and it's not a big deal to either of us.



There's a big difference in both people being mature enough to handle it and knowing. Jones and I know a good bit of that stuff.. from being friends or just being really sexually open people.

But let's face it.. generally the "Who have you slept with?!" question comes from a deeply jealous and insecure type of person.. the type of person who can't handle the truth.

Someone valuing their privacy doesn't mean they're a bad person or unworthy of a relationship. If you don't keep anything at all to yourself in your life, suit yourself. But you're perfectly allowed to.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 10/19/14 at 3:53 pm to
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just being really sexually open people.

Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81217 posts
Posted on 10/19/14 at 3:54 pm to
It's true
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110980 posts
Posted on 10/19/14 at 3:58 pm to
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But did you ask WHO those people were
Why? There's no good that can come from that talk, only bad.

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Spinoff: Would you prefer your wife to be a virgin so you get to train her up, or would you rather her be really good at "this" and extraordinary at "that" - knowing it's because she had a lot of practice doing "this" and "that" with other guys.
experienced. Granted, if the other option is eager and all that good stuff, it can go either way. I really don't care though.
Posted by Winkface
Member since Jul 2010
34377 posts
Posted on 10/19/14 at 4:00 pm to
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Build trust in the relationship? I know how many she's been with and vice versa, and it's not a big deal to either of us.

agreed

It honestly blows my mind that so many couples don't discuss this.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81217 posts
Posted on 10/19/14 at 4:01 pm to
Just depends on the type of person you're with.

I can think of quite a few of Jones' friends whose wives would divorce them if they had that conversation and they knew the truth.

Sucks that there are people out there like that, but sadly they exist.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10053 posts
Posted on 10/19/14 at 4:02 pm to
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It honestly blows my mind that so many couples don't discuss this.

I'm not saying I disagree with discussing it, but why would it matter, unless disease has entered the equation?
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110980 posts
Posted on 10/19/14 at 4:03 pm to
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It honestly blows my mind that so many couples don't discuss this. 

Why, I don't get how it matters at all?
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