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re: Did You Sign A Prenup?

Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:05 am to
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
58988 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:05 am to
im not married but I definitely will
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32982 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:05 am to
nope, all we had when we got married was debt, and she is more than welcome to half of that if we split.
Posted by kilo1234
Member since May 2014
1431 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:06 am to
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Did You Sign A Prenup?


Nope. And she's rich as hell.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98753 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:06 am to
I didn't have significant assets when I got married so no need for one
This post was edited on 2/18/16 at 8:07 am
Posted by DaTroof
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2015
992 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:12 am to
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I didn't have significant assets when I got married so no need for one


Ok, but asssuming you're the breadwinner, because if I'm not mistaken you've mentioned that if you lose your job your wifes $50k/yr job wouldn't do you much good - Now that you've worked your arse off to provide most of the income/assets/property don't you feel a little vulnerable knowing that she could go get the BBC and then take half of the assets, half your retirement, and possibly get alimony for the rest of her life in some cases. Wouldn't you feel a little better knowing that in the event that y'all split, especially in the case of adultery, that you would be at least somewhat protected?
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:13 am to
Nope. Divorce wasn't something we talked about. 15 years later, still haven't.
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
44888 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:13 am to
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Nope we both did... 2nd marriage for both so we each had protected assets
Ok gotcha. I would say prenups are way more common in 2nd marriages than first marriages.
Posted by DaTroof
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2015
992 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:17 am to
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Nope we both did... 2nd marriage for both so we each had protected assets


Do you wish you had signed a prenup for your first marriage? What was it about the first split that made you realize you needed one for your second marriage?
Posted by Tiger Hoods
Dixon Correctional Facility
Member since Jan 2016
432 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:19 am to
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Do you wish you had signed a prenup for your first marriage? What was it about the first split that made you realize you needed one for your second marriage?


I wish I had hired a hit man for my 1st.. I had nothing but good credit which she decided to run up bills without my knowledge
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98753 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:22 am to


I don't know what attorney you talked to but a prenup isn't going to protect assets you earn while married. They are designed for older people that go into the marriage with high net worth.
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19467 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:27 am to
Pre-nups can cover anything, not just separation of assets.

They are a good idea for every marriage no matter the incoming financial situation of the parties.

You can outline terms of a separation, etc. Require no lawyers/court, agree on children, etc.

A lot of important things can be settled with that document to prevent divorce attorney's from taking everything by dragging out a separation.
Posted by DaTroof
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2015
992 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:28 am to
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I don't know what attorney you talked to but a prenup isn't going to protect assets you earn while married. They are designed for older people that go into the marriage with high net worth.


Yea that's a cool myth but here in the real world a prenup can protect assets regardless of age or net worth. Without a contract in place prior to marriage, you both tacitly agree to split assets according to the law governing the state you reside in.....and generally speaking it doesn't fare well for the higher wage earner.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98753 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:29 am to
you can write whatever you want in them but in reality they are just a starting point for negotiations
Posted by Jimmy2shoes
The South
Member since Mar 2014
11004 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:33 am to
I didn't want to bring it up because I was afraid she wouldn't take half of my debt
Posted by Barf
EBR
Member since Feb 2015
3727 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:34 am to
My wife and I have/had one. I was working at the time and it was easier to just sign the damn thing and move on rather than try and deal with the board. We sold the business so it's a moot point, she gets half my shite now anyway.
Posted by SPEEDY
2005 Tiger Smack Poster of the Year
Member since Dec 2003
87054 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:35 am to
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Everybody needs a prenuptial agreement. People think you gotta be rich to get a prenup. Oh no! You got 20 million and your wife want 10, big deal! You ain’t starvin’. But if you make 30,000… and your wife want 15, you might have to kill her.
Posted by tigersfirst
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2013
1064 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:35 am to
What does your prenup state?
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
107523 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:36 am to
Neither of us had any pre worth getting a Nup for.
Posted by LSUweights
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2014
3584 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:36 am to
Yes.
Signed a basic one that states in the event of a divorce, she gets nothing from me, and I get nothing from her (house is mine because I bought it before we got together)
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85379 posts
Posted on 2/18/16 at 8:37 am to
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You can outline terms of a separation, etc. Require no lawyers/court, agree on children, etc.


you cannot outline terms regarding children from the marriage in a pre nup
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