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re: Dating someone who has opposite political/societal beliefs

Posted on 7/27/20 at 9:57 am to
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
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Posted on 7/27/20 at 9:57 am to
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Now marrying someone and trying to raise children with different political/societal beliefs/morals doesn't seem like such a great idea.

It just seems to me like you'd be asking for issues down the road.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
78349 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:00 am to
Morals for sure, but political beliefs

I know several people who have opposite beliefs from a parent, sometimes from both parents and they seem to get along just fine and raise their children and grandchildren to be good people.

Unfortunately, everything seems to be polarizing these days.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83032 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:02 am to
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Anyone who just all-out thinks their party is 100-percent correct to the extreme on every issue is nothing more than a sheep.



Exactly. Even on this website, if you say anything that stereotypically aligns with the other side, you are called a liberal.

It perplexes me that people don't take each issue on a case by case basis and form an opinion that way.
Posted by DiamondDog
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2019
13242 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:08 am to
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Exactly. Even on this website, if you say anything that stereotypically aligns with the other side, you are called a liberal.

It perplexes me that people don't take each issue on a case by case basis and form an opinion that way.


Women like a strong man. They also tend to follow their man if they respect him and his judgement. This why married women politics shift over time from single to married.

All bets are off if their husband is a dweeb and not respected.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83032 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:13 am to
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The issue with the current left is that it is structurally impossible to find any common ground.



To be fair, this exists on both sides. You can't express an opinion that is not in the "checklist" for your party. Even on this website, any comment on the way Trump conducts himself publicly/on Twitter is downvoted to oblivion in disagreement.

It is possible to vote republican and lean conservative while not agreeing with every single conservative opinion.

Both sides do it. I just had someone start hurling disrespectful insults at me on Instagram for pointing out that children in abusive/neglectful homes need to be in school for their own safety.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:14 am to
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It perplexes me that people don't take each issue on a case by case basis and form an opinion that way.



Because people are dumb and usually go to the most extreme caricature of who they think you are.
Posted by YumYum Sauce
Arkansas
Member since Nov 2010
9581 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:15 am to
my grandparents were married for 58 years. gdad wore a GOP hat daily, gmother voted democrat. that's how things used to be, people with differences in opinion could be married for 50+ years.


Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
86192 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:18 am to
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To be fair, this exists on both sides.


you can't say this to hardline people

they lose their minds
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83032 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:23 am to
Yep. The thread is whacked now, but I was trying to say this to Lunchbox the other day. I lurk Reddit a good bit, which is basically just as extreme as this website but on the other side. And the similarities between the people here and the people there, just with opposite points of view, are wild.

He said basically the equivalent of "they did it first!" like a kid would do if you caught two kids coloring on the walls or something. Does it matter who started it? If one side would collectively decide to top acting insane, it would be a great look for their side and they'd probably have a lot of success.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53534 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:23 am to
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Morals for sure, but political beliefs ?

I know several people who have opposite beliefs from a parent, sometimes from both parents and they seem to get along just fine and raise their children and grandchildren to be good people.

I could see where two moderates with some political differences could make it work.

I don't see how a right winger and a Bernie voter could make it. Maybe that's just me though.
Posted by Woodreaux
OC California
Member since Jan 2008
2790 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:25 am to
It's time for a our monthly "I might be interested in a doomed relationship" thread.

Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86192 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:26 am to
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I don't see how a right winger and a Bernie voter could make it. Maybe that's just me though.



again it just depends on if they are able to see each other perspectives and respect each other

if you are a hardline conservative and think only a retard could support Bernie, then yeah, it probably wouldn't work
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53534 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:29 am to
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if you are a hardline conservative and think only a retard could support Bernie, then yeah, it probably wouldn't work

I mean, if you are an avid deer hunter and she's a Peta member y'all might have some issues
Posted by NorthTiger
Upper 40
Member since Jan 2004
3966 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:29 am to
Maybe you need to learn how to have a discussion (which includes listening) instead of blurting out your stance.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:30 am to
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Yep. The thread is whacked now, but I was trying to say this to Lunchbox the other day. I lurk Reddit a good bit, which is basically just as extreme as this website but on the other side. And the similarities between the people here and the people there, just with opposite points of view, are wild.



There is one thing this site does better than Reddit and their subforums: it won't ban you for an unpopular views.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86192 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:31 am to
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it won't ban you for an unpopular views.


ehhhh...

Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
216467 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:31 am to
Would not happen in any relationship I ever have.. I make it pretty clear from the start.... “I love sex, rock& roll, and sports.... I don’t do politics”.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:35 am to
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ehhhh...



If you're trolling gets out of control, then sure, but you'll be back posting 2 months later if you're remotely worth a shite.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86192 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:38 am to
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If you're trolling gets out of control, then sure


well thats the thing, you are allowed to troll certain people all you want, but others are not allowed to be trolled

inconsistent moderating annoys the frick out of me

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but you'll be back posting 2 months later if you're remotely worth a shite.



this is true



Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83032 posts
Posted on 7/27/20 at 10:38 am to
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There is one thing this site does better than Reddit and their subforums: it won't ban you for an unpopular views.



True. And one thing I will give this site is that you're usually able to get a good discussion going when you're calm and respectful. There are plenty extremists here, but they're not the majority. On Reddit, its the majority.

I've never seen people boycott so many businesses in my life. I don't know how they survive
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