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Posted on 6/3/15 at 9:20 am to H.M. Murdock
You sound like a terrible person.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 9:28 am to Lithium
There is a reason she is divorced...do not date these people
Posted on 6/3/15 at 9:32 am to bulldog95
Posted on 6/3/15 at 9:33 am to Chaplain
Why? Because he doesn't want some guy's sloppy seconds?
Posted on 6/3/15 at 9:50 am to GreatLakesTiger24
So a guy can be a single dad and it's okay but a woman is a single mom and now it's sloppy seconds.
Some times 2 people grow apart and it's better they divorce for everyone's sanity, doesn't make either one of the damaged as far as dating and remarrying.
In my option tread lightly with single men and women in their 30's-40's that have never been married or can't sub stain a relationship. Mommy and daddy issues perhaps or maybe something else.
Don't give me the BS I just wanted to get my career established and have everything I wanted before marriage. Well then guess what you'll probably end up with someone who already has kids and divorced.
Some times 2 people grow apart and it's better they divorce for everyone's sanity, doesn't make either one of the damaged as far as dating and remarrying.
In my option tread lightly with single men and women in their 30's-40's that have never been married or can't sub stain a relationship. Mommy and daddy issues perhaps or maybe something else.
Don't give me the BS I just wanted to get my career established and have everything I wanted before marriage. Well then guess what you'll probably end up with someone who already has kids and divorced.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 10:26 am to SDVTiger
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I have for 5yrs and got married
Shes super hot, a squirter, gives crazy helmet and loves anal
And we both dont want anymore kids. Her kid is an Angel so its worked out great
Damn baw, you found The Great White Buffalo!
Posted on 6/3/15 at 10:28 am to rebeloke
I'm in the over-40 bracket. I can tell you that, in my experience, the only thing scarier than single moms are single gals around this age who have never been married and are without kids. We are talking age 36 to 42... that's the range I've experienced.
I think there are still good candidates to be had in the 30-35 range who have never been married and are without kids, but something happens to them on the other side of 35. They just go plum batty.
Generally, I find that women who fit the unmarried and kidless 36 to 42 range to be desperate to marry and overly obsessed with themselves. It's like they've been alone waaaaay too long, so they're just used to doing their own thing, and they are REALLY into their own thing. It's amazing how much easier it is to plan something with a single mom compared to them, for instance. "Hey, want to do something Friday night?" Single Mom: "Sure, I'll get a sitter." Unmarried, no kids: "I can't. We have our regular Baton Rouge Squirrel Society meeting Friday night. Saturday morning I'm running a half-marathon. Then I have to be home in time to take care of my rescue dogs. Sunday? I have to fill in at work for one of the weekend crew. I'm working all week, so I'm exhausted and I have tennis three nights this week. Next weekend I'm going to Caitlyn's wedding. How about two Fridays from now? Oh wait... squirrel society again!"
You would think it's just one of them that's like this... but they are ALL like that. Give me a single mom any day. They have nothing going on, and they are desperate for an escape from home. The only trouble I find with them is that they are difficult to take on weekend trips, etc. They can't be away from the kids too long.
Sure, they can be crazy, too. But these are women we're talking about here. It's the DEGREE of craziness. There is no absence of it.
I think there are still good candidates to be had in the 30-35 range who have never been married and are without kids, but something happens to them on the other side of 35. They just go plum batty.
Generally, I find that women who fit the unmarried and kidless 36 to 42 range to be desperate to marry and overly obsessed with themselves. It's like they've been alone waaaaay too long, so they're just used to doing their own thing, and they are REALLY into their own thing. It's amazing how much easier it is to plan something with a single mom compared to them, for instance. "Hey, want to do something Friday night?" Single Mom: "Sure, I'll get a sitter." Unmarried, no kids: "I can't. We have our regular Baton Rouge Squirrel Society meeting Friday night. Saturday morning I'm running a half-marathon. Then I have to be home in time to take care of my rescue dogs. Sunday? I have to fill in at work for one of the weekend crew. I'm working all week, so I'm exhausted and I have tennis three nights this week. Next weekend I'm going to Caitlyn's wedding. How about two Fridays from now? Oh wait... squirrel society again!"
You would think it's just one of them that's like this... but they are ALL like that. Give me a single mom any day. They have nothing going on, and they are desperate for an escape from home. The only trouble I find with them is that they are difficult to take on weekend trips, etc. They can't be away from the kids too long.
Sure, they can be crazy, too. But these are women we're talking about here. It's the DEGREE of craziness. There is no absence of it.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 10:55 am to TopHog1
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Never dated but I smashed quite a few.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:15 am to NASA_ISS_Tiger
Here's a shitty one I just got out of. Single mom of one, kids dad was an illegal and hadn't seen him since 6 months old.(kid is about to be 4) She was addicted to adderall and a sex addict. Biggest shite show of my life. Had to run.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:28 am to kilo1234
50 down votes? I guess sarcasm is lost on some people.
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Never dated any, but I've created a few.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:29 am to rebeloke
It can be complicated, but so can every relationship. Most men in their 20s are too immature and selfish to handle a relationship with a single mom. That seems to include a large cross section of this site. You have to be okay with not always being priority number one all the time.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:33 am to SDVTiger
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I have for 5yrs and got married Shes super hot, a squirter, gives crazy helmet and loves anal And we both dont want anymore kids. Her kid is an Angel so its worked out great
I'm in this same boat, except not yet married.
and she won't let me PIIHB
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:34 am to SpqrTiger
That is a SOLID post.
We have 2-3 longtime female family friends who we have witnessed go through those exact stages. However all of our friends did get married for several years, got divorced, but never had kids.
Sadly some of them do go plum batty as they near 40 and desperately want to become mothers, and have no decent potential male suitor anywhere on the horizon.
One was nearly crying to me one time about how she was saving money to have her eggs harvested and frozen for future baby-making in case the right man came along.
But yea, batty. We invite them to get togethers or nights out to see a live band, but good luck getting a return phone call in a timely manner. And when they do see you, they are overjoyed to be with you, glossing over the efforts to reach out to them.
It's like their lives are empty, and they pretend it's not, and they are tired of the charade. Or maybe it isn't empty at all. I don't know.
We don't pass judgement. We just continue to reach out, and it's their choice to reach back.
We have 2-3 longtime female family friends who we have witnessed go through those exact stages. However all of our friends did get married for several years, got divorced, but never had kids.
Sadly some of them do go plum batty as they near 40 and desperately want to become mothers, and have no decent potential male suitor anywhere on the horizon.
One was nearly crying to me one time about how she was saving money to have her eggs harvested and frozen for future baby-making in case the right man came along.
But yea, batty. We invite them to get togethers or nights out to see a live band, but good luck getting a return phone call in a timely manner. And when they do see you, they are overjoyed to be with you, glossing over the efforts to reach out to them.
It's like their lives are empty, and they pretend it's not, and they are tired of the charade. Or maybe it isn't empty at all. I don't know.
We don't pass judgement. We just continue to reach out, and it's their choice to reach back.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:36 am to rebeloke
quote:Yes they were good.
Have any of you dated
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:47 am to H.M. Murdock
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Hit and quit single moms, period. Why deal with another man's children? Why deal with a woman who may have made bad life choices? Why bail out a single mom who is likely looking for financial security from you? Men can still find good looking single women in our 30's and even 40's. In fact, we are likely in our prime around 30-40.
Why frick one then, middle aged stud boy?
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:56 am to rebeloke
I married one, and since have adopted her son as my own. I'm the only dad he knows.
This post was edited on 6/3/15 at 11:59 am
Posted on 6/3/15 at 12:02 pm to rebeloke
I married a single mom... But my situation is a bit different. I knew her kid before her and already built a relationship with him... Then when I met her she was absolutely drop dead gorgeous, and single, and when she pursued me I did not hesitate.
2 years later we are married and her son and I have a great relationship, he is 4.
2 years later we are married and her son and I have a great relationship, he is 4.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 12:02 pm to trilltiger
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She was addicted to adderall and a sex addict.
So she likes to party and have sex all the time? I do not see a problem here.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 12:31 pm to G Vice
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One was nearly crying to me one time about how she was saving money to have her eggs harvested and frozen for future baby-making in case the right man came along.
But yea, batty. We invite them to get togethers or nights out to see a live band, but good luck getting a return phone call in a timely manner. And when they do see you, they are overjoyed to be with you, glossing over the efforts to reach out to them.
I find that one of the key mistakes women in this category make is that they are trying to "fit in" a man in between work and all their pottery classes and triathlon training. And it doesn't work that way. You don't fit a significant other into your life. You build a life with a significant other.
At least some of the single moms are looking for a partner to help them in life. The older single gals... a lot of them are just confused and rudderless.
I managed to hit the jackpot with a single mom. Beautiful, smart, successful. Great kids. Her ex was just doing some things he shouldn't have been doing. My whole life is better now for accepting what she had to offer.
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