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re: dating in 2021

Posted on 1/29/21 at 4:42 pm to
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Member since Feb 2018
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Posted on 1/29/21 at 4:42 pm to
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It's just for hookups. Chances of meeting a partner there are slim.

I did a bit of it when I was divorced but I found a hell of a lot of dishonestly on those sites.

I have a few divorced buddies that use them and they've been on them for years and this is kind of the impression that I get. A few people here have mentioned services you pay for like Match which could be different I suppose.

I've just found that a number of women that I ended up having long term relationships with probably wouldn't have fit neatly inside of my ideal profile but we ended up really hitting it off in person.
This post was edited on 1/29/21 at 4:43 pm
Posted by NPComb
Member since Jan 2019
27894 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 4:43 pm to
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Just put frick Trump in your profile


When they show up just say, "my nickname is Trump." Thanks for coming.
Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
85229 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 4:43 pm to
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shite, college was easy. Some nights you just had to say hi to a girl and she'd come back to your house. Or maybe it was just my irresistible charm and gorgeous looks.


I personally thought it was easier too. I do better in person. I can't always keep a convo going on an app.

But I've met and talked to so many different types of women that I would have never met in college just based on where I hung out and the classes I was in. Or the fact I might not have ever approached this person.

Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
105854 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 4:45 pm to
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This might be different for men and women. Back when I did online dating (until 2017), there was a tremendous overlap of women who were on Match.com also being on OKCupid, making Match.com a more expensive way of messaging women.

And, FWIW, I met my wife on OKCupid.


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That more accurately describes Plenty of Fish, tbh.


It may also be a regional thing. Plenty of Fish wasn’t very big here a few years ago so those folks were on OKCupid instead.

I blame the methheads from Southern Indiana being included in my “proximity”.
Posted by RexKramer
Chicago
Member since Nov 2020
411 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 4:46 pm to
Pics? Lol
Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
85229 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 4:47 pm to
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Don't do a dating app if you are above the age of 24


Lol, where am I going to meet a woman that's 35 that works 40 hrs a week? There is no target near me.
Posted by LSUGolfman
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2019
182 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 5:04 pm to
a real life bilbo baggins
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
63842 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 5:07 pm to
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I've just found that a number of women that I ended up having long term relationships with probably wouldn't have fit neatly inside of my ideal profile but we ended up really hitting it off in person.


This is the problem with online dating. It removes a significant amount of real life factors and only incorporates the most vain factors.

Nevermind that most people have heavily edited/airbrushed pictures.

Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
68742 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 5:09 pm to
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looking to meet someone in my 30s


quote:

back in my day, it could take months before sex was even on the menu


Sorry if this has been covered, but lol Wut.
Posted by BobABooey
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2004
15850 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 5:14 pm to
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The last two women I fricked were grandmas

Replies like this are why I stop by the free boards on occasion. I laughed.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
293073 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 5:15 pm to
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A few people here have mentioned services you pay for like Match which could be different I suppose.


Probably. Again it does back to what someone is looking for.

There's many wonderful ladies out there, you gotta be open to experiences. They're probably more honest on pay sites than free sites.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 5:17 pm to
quote:

A few people here have mentioned services you pay for like Match which could be different I suppose.



I was online dating in 2007. Only used paid sites then as well. I met my ex on Match.


When I’m ready....I would do paid sites again cause I’ll be looking for a real relationship and not a hookup. You get what you pay for usually applies to most things in life....I’m sure it also applies to online dating as well.

Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 5:39 pm to
This is why people like you and me shouldlve met a woman in college and gotten our mister degree. Sorority. Pre med or dental
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 6:04 pm to
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back in my day, it could take months before sex was even on the menu.


are you 80?? Sex is on the menu pretty quick and has been since the 60s.
Posted by millerf43
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2019
458 posts
Posted on 1/29/21 at 6:23 pm to
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Whenever I am ready to actually date again will be scary after being with the same person for the past 14 years.



When you start dating again, keep that to yourself

I remember seeing a pic lsunurse in a post awhile back. Don't let the PugLife t-shirt on her avatar fool you guys; she's a cutie.

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I was told dating now is like just like riding a bike....though hell....on a flat tire


Same as it's always been.
Posted by PetroBabich
Donetsk Oblast
Member since Apr 2017
5021 posts
Posted on 1/30/21 at 9:25 pm to
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I don't like the idea of the whole dating app thing.


quote:

a number of women that I ended up having long term relationships with probably wouldn't have fit neatly inside of my ideal profile but we ended up really hitting it off in person.


quote:

I'm 43 and have been with my wife for 17 years.


I don't like dating apps. I have never used one. I am basing this opinion off memories from over 17 years ago.

Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
175385 posts
Posted on 1/30/21 at 9:34 pm to
69 upvotes



Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
27099 posts
Posted on 1/30/21 at 9:41 pm to
Only used paid sites

You get what you pay for

I met my ex on Match



You could easily do this for free
Posted by lsut2005
Northshore
Member since Jul 2009
2679 posts
Posted on 1/30/21 at 10:11 pm to
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back in my day, it could take months before sex was even on the menu. what is the timeline or "expectancy" these days?


No offense but that just sounds like a you problem.. things were the same back in the day as they are now, just more hush hush.
Posted by Jh22586
Member since Oct 2019
674 posts
Posted on 1/30/21 at 11:08 pm to
Hit up POF dot com, chicks all got kids most are like a 4-6 out of 10 but you can snag a few pretty simple to get your wick wet lol
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