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re: Dating as a single father

Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:08 am to
Posted by BabyrayS2k
Member since Nov 2012
778 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:08 am to
Church women are just as bad as the rest of them. Don't kid yourself.
Posted by Honest Tune
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2011
19285 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:10 am to
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Don't kid yourself


I seent that.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13970 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:11 am to
You are complaining about a woman whose selection criteria is that you are hot.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:11 am to
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You gotta start dating single mothers.


Yea you are a naive man if you think you can have kids and date a kidless gal(unless she's 40+ and couldn't have kids).
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
64545 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:16 am to
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Church women are just as bad as the rest of them. Don't kid yourself.


I would offer that in many ways they are worse since the church is providing cover and justification for their past actions.
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
94675 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:19 am to
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Y'all probably bonded over irrational hate over shite most people enjoy like amazon and puppies.


haters gonna hate.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:19 am to
Is there drama with you and your ex? Did you mention any of this drama to the girl you were briefly seeing?



When I was single I usually had a "no kids" rule when it came to dating. I broke that rule one time for this one guy. Guy was super nice and really good looking(didn't realize how hot he was). First date was going good. He shows me pictures of his two young sons(adorable kids). I'm thinking "maybe this won't be so bad", picturing quiet evenings at his house hanging out with him and his kids watching a movie once we have been seeing each other a long time and I'm trusted to meet them.


Then he starts telling me about his ex-wife. How they have joint custody and she is now a stripper. How he suspects she is living with some guy that is a meth dealer and he suspects she is doing drugs as well. Now my little fantasy of spending quiet time on the couch watching a movie with him and his children is now added with some crazy bitch banging on the door all strung out on meth.




There was not a second date, and I went back to my "no kids" rule.
Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
91588 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:20 am to
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's hard to find one that wants more kids, and I want more kids.


Dude. Young girls might not want to basically be a mother before y'all are even married. Older women might not want to do it again, especially if y'all both already had your own.

Just be happy, go slay some pussy. Don't worry about the other shite.
Posted by BabyrayS2k
Member since Nov 2012
778 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:21 am to
And the preacher only holds men in the church accountable. Never tells women how to be better women and wives to their husbands.
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
25914 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:23 am to
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Her: Hey, you're hot. Do you want to go out?


This guy might be delusional

quote:

Her: We're in two different stages in our lives. Your kids need you. Blah, blah, blah



ABSOLUTELY can only mean

quote:

she realizes she's catching feelings


This is the only option. It cant mean that she doesnt like you and let you down easy. It must mean that she is scared she likes you TOO much.




Yeah this guy is delusional.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
64545 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:24 am to
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And the preacher only holds men in the church accountable. Never tells women how to be better women and wives to their husbands.


Truth.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
64545 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:25 am to
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Then he starts telling me about his ex-wife. How they have joint custody and she is now a stripper. How he suspects she is living with some guy that is a meth dealer and he suspects she is doing drugs as well. Now my little fantasy of spending quiet time on the couch watching a movie with him and his children is now added with some crazy bitch banging on the door all strung out on meth.




There was not a second date, and I went back to my "no kids" rule.



Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
25914 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:25 am to
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I have two boys. I always wanted a daughter. I know there's no guarantee, but I'd like to try for one.



This might be the 2nd worst reason people have kids right behind trying to fix their broken relationships.
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
291645 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:26 am to
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I have two boys. I always wanted a daughter. I know there's no guarantee, but I'd like to try for one.




is this a freaking game to you, mane?
Posted by NashBamaFan
Nashville
Member since Mar 2011
3136 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:29 am to
It gets better as the child/children get older.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:29 am to
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I have two boys. I always wanted a daughter. I know there's no guarantee, but I'd like to try for one.


Yeah I just recently cared for natural triplets(meaning mom didn't do fertility treatments) in the NICU last week.


Parents had 3 boys...wanted to try for a girl. Now they have 5 boys and 1 girl(triplets were 2 boys and a girl).


Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:31 am to
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This post was edited on 6/6/16 at 10:32 am
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:32 am to
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And the preacher only holds men in the church accountable. Never tells women how to be better women and wives to their husbands.


Actually...these are the type of things women talk about in women's only bible studies.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112944 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:45 am to
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Her: Hey, you're hot. Do you want to go out? Me: Sure. But I have to tell you, I have two kids.
Jumping the gun a little. I mean, you don't have to let her know THAT soon.
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
94675 posts
Posted on 6/6/16 at 10:50 am to
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Her: Hey, you're hot. Do you want to go out?

this is where the lying in the OP started
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