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re: Dating Advice: Are my dating views radical?

Posted on 3/20/19 at 9:59 pm to
Posted by djangochained
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Posted on 3/20/19 at 9:59 pm to
Sorry, but you felt ackward because you are trashy
Posted by TLOTT
Member since Mar 2019
82 posts
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:00 pm to
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frick that bitch...they want equality?! Well pay for your own GD meal you fricking leech. Glad I’m cranky an old and don’t play these stupid count games anymore.


That's what I'm talking about. Why should the man take all the risk in the first few dates?

Think about how great women have it with dating. They can go on a few dates with a man, if it doesn't work out they can be like "oh well, I'm sad it didn't work out, but at least I had a few nights on the town for free." On the opposite side a man is like "well great, the relationship didn't work out and now I'm out a few hundred bucks that could've been spent on other things". It s*cks on multiple fronts for a man.
Posted by blzr
MB
Member since Mar 2011
30107 posts
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:00 pm to
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women want equality so bad. They want to have the same income level as a man, with that income comes responsibility. Don't you agree? I am giving women what they want, true equality.


Jesus, you’re an idiot. Stop reading tigerdroppings and red pill
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
68435 posts
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:00 pm to
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What this wrong to say as well?
Are you out on a date catching a little anticipation wood? No? Then yes, it was wrong to say.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:01 pm to
Trashy is not being able to spell awkward properly.
Posted by nugget
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Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:01 pm to
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well great, the relationship didn't work out and now I'm out a few hundred bucks that could've been spent on other things


Maybe you should get to the point where $200 isn't make or break for you before you start dating.
Posted by dbeck
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Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:02 pm to
That's a lot of effort for a shitty troll.
Posted by tiger turney
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Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:02 pm to
Agreed
Posted by BeachDude022
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Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:02 pm to
Holy shite you’re a damn moron.
Posted by jimbeam
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Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:02 pm to
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On the opposite side a man is like "well great, the relationship didn't work out and now I'm out a few hundred
This is why you have cheap/free dates at the beginning.
Posted by TLOTT
Member since Mar 2019
82 posts
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:02 pm to
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Not all women are feminists. Also, nobody wants a fricking contract laid in front of them before they meet with someone. You sound like a serial killer


You really think I sound crazy to women when I bring up my viewpoints on dating? I truly thought I was just being honest and open with them.

Sadly it's not going to get any easier for me either. I'll be sterile in a month.
Posted by RedMustang
Member since Oct 2011
6851 posts
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:02 pm to
Everyone is talking about the money thing which I agree the OP is dead wrong about. No one has mentioned the no kid and vasectomy thing which is very weird to bring up before you even meet someone.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
40196 posts
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:03 pm to
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Text message from me to her: Before we get to talking on the phone I do want to be up front about a few things. One is I have no interested in having children and plan to have a vasectomy in late April. Two is that if we do head out on a date I want you to know that I believe in brutal equality. I believe in chivalry but on the first few dates I go dutch. I do this because I have been hurt by women in the past, being used just as a glorified ATM. These women weren't really interested in me but just wanted a free night on the town. I believe in chivalry but I believe it must be earned. I think it's important for both sides to show financial commitment in a relationship. I understand this might come off as a radical view and I hope none of these two things scare you off.



That is how you scare people off.

Why in the frick would you think that was a good idea?
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
109158 posts
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:03 pm to
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I went into the history of men paying for the date and how it came out of necessity rather than chivalry.


Coffee you dumb frick. Yeah, I went on a bad date too after a big break up, and to counter that first date from there I will only do coffee or a brief bar meet up if I hadn’t really talked to them much before. If I previously met them and liked them or have talked with them thoroughly enough on the phone to think there might connection, then sure, I’ll meet them for a meal. You’re a fricking cheap skate.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176200 posts
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:03 pm to
women want a hard cock and a soft heart


stop being a pussy and a dick at the same time
Posted by TheWalrus
Member since Dec 2012
40767 posts
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:04 pm to
Usually I can sniff out a troll, I don’t think this is one. So if it is, congrats OP on doing it so well.
Posted by TLOTT
Member since Mar 2019
82 posts
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:04 pm to
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Maybe you should get to the point where $200 isn't make or break for you before you start dating.


So you're saying working class people shouldn't be able to date? Luckily most of the world doesn't use your standard or the world's population would be plummeting.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129045 posts
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:04 pm to
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No one has mentioned the no kid and vasectomy thing which is very weird to bring up before you even meet someone.



Agreed.


Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48831 posts
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:04 pm to
Exactly. I'd expect her to offer to pay for lunch or drinks or whatever after awhile, otherwise at some point I'd feel a bit used.

I consider it the gentlemanly thing to do to pay for our first few dates. They don't have to be $200 meals.

I also haven't been on a date that wasn't with my wife since about 2005 so maybe my opinion is irrelevant
Posted by burdman
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2007
20689 posts
Posted on 3/20/19 at 10:04 pm to
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No one has mentioned the no kid and vasectomy thing which is very weird to bring up before you even meet someone




So true
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