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Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:46 pm to WeeWee
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In this hypothetical situation is that you have a job which requires at least 60 hours per week of work.
My comment still stands
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:47 pm to WeeWee
Don't invest long term. Either she's the terrible one or she picks the terrible ones and maybe one of the terrible picks doesn't like you messing around with his ex.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:47 pm to WeeWee
No.
Way.
1 divorce, fine.
2nd divorce, with kids @ home, I'd pass.
If you're gonna hit it and ghost, at least be man enough to be honest about your intentions. Women enjoy sex, too.
Way.
1 divorce, fine.
2nd divorce, with kids @ home, I'd pass.
If you're gonna hit it and ghost, at least be man enough to be honest about your intentions. Women enjoy sex, too.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:48 pm to WeeWee
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and only about a 3-4 on the crazy scale
I don’t believe this. That’s almost a unicorn. If she doesn’t have a third eye proceed immediately.
The divorce scenario you proposed is a maybe.
The single mom is a hard no.
The 3/4 on crazy scale is a hard yes.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:53 pm to Lsupimp
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and only about a 3-4 on the crazy scale
I don’t believe this. That’s almost a unicorn.
That was in college before the 2 failed marriages.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:54 pm to WeeWee
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Let's discuss a hypothetical situation. You are single male in your mid-30s with a good job and stable lifestyle (aka nonalcoholic or drug addict). You see someone on a dating app who you went to college with. She is hot for an early 30 year old south Louisiana woman. She has a good job. You recall her being cool in college and only about a 3-4 on the crazy scale. Here is the catch she is younger than 35 and been divorced twice. The first marriage was to her high school sweetheart before she even finished college, and shockingly it did not make two years. The second marriage which resulted in 2 kids was to a guy in the military. She blames the divorces on the military lifestyle being too much. There is no baby-momma and baby-daddy because he pays child support and is currently deployed overseas. Lets assume that she has a great pair of mom tits and a nice. Do you message her to begin the dating game, or do you just say "aww hell nah" and avoid the dating game all together? If you begin the game are going to do your best to stay in the game just long enough to PIIHB, or do you stay in the game after you PIIHB and actually start officially dating her? If you do not start officially dating her, why not? Did you cull her because of the giant red flag of multiple divorces? Did you cull her because there is a high likelihood that the military marriage ended due to Jody, etc?
After reading this, she should be worried about how crazy sounding and insecure you are. WTH dude?

Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:55 pm to WeeWee
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She blames the divorces on the military lifestyle being too much.
This sounds like a prettier way of saying she cheated.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:56 pm to WeeWee
I would be open to dating her, but that's it. We're not talking kids or marriage. She's not moving in. We're keeping two separate places to stay, I'll get to know her kids but I have no intent to raise them.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:57 pm to WeeWee
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Dating a woman with multiple divorces
Don’t.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:58 pm to WeeWee
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stable lifestyle (aka nonalcoholic or drug addict).

Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:58 pm to WeeWee
Multiple divorces shows a probable doubling on said crazy scale
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:58 pm to WeeWee
A single woman over 35 is either divorced with baggage or never married with even more baggage. The ones without any baggage, if they even exist, were taken long ago. You can either resolve to deal with the baggage or resolve to stay single. That's your choice, baw. It's up to you.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:59 pm to Cdawg
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After reading this, she should be worried about how crazy sounding and insecure you are. WTH dude?
It's a hypothetical situation. I already know what I would do in the situation. I would say nope and move on. I am culling her because she is likely a cheater and once a cheater, always a cheater, and cheating ho's can't be trusted.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 4:01 pm to WeeWee
What are circumstances of the divorces?
It’s not always the woman’s fault.
It’s not always the woman’s fault.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 4:01 pm to WeeWee
I’m married, but if single and valued relationships…I’d never date a woman who had been divorced.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 4:02 pm to WeeWee
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That was in college before the 2 failed marriages.
Oh yeah, she’s probably on 2 antidepressants, has a team of therapists and hates men. At most she’s just a girl on your roster, an occasional hookup.
Everyone has different tolerances. My tolerance is currently extremely low for women with issues. When I was younger it was higher. The specific divorce scenario would not necessarily be a deal killer because you don’t know how much of that was the guys issues. Sometimes it’s just a matter of meeting the right person, right?
Posted on 10/18/24 at 4:03 pm to LSUDAN1
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Shop lift and get out.
If you give her a stabbing, its one and done. Erase her number.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 4:04 pm to BabyTac
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I’d never date a woman who had been divorced.
Multiple would be red flag. I could get past her having one. Some people get married young, spouse turns into an alcoholic, cheats on you etc.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 4:05 pm to dallastiger55
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Can we see the stats of women that get married for the 3rd time and never get divorced?
Believe it or not, 3rd time marriage has a 25% less chance of ending in divorce than the 5th marriage.
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