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re: Dating a woman with multiple divorces

Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:46 pm to
Posted by JerryTheKingBawler
South of Memphis
Member since Jan 2023
5051 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:46 pm to
That is the textbook definition of hit it and quit it.
Posted by tylerlsu2008
Monaco
Member since Jul 2015
1477 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:46 pm to
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In this hypothetical situation is that you have a job which requires at least 60 hours per week of work.


My comment still stands
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
62941 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:47 pm to
Don't invest long term. Either she's the terrible one or she picks the terrible ones and maybe one of the terrible picks doesn't like you messing around with his ex.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
34373 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:47 pm to
No.
Way.


1 divorce, fine.
2nd divorce, with kids @ home, I'd pass.

If you're gonna hit it and ghost, at least be man enough to be honest about your intentions. Women enjoy sex, too.

Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
84096 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:48 pm to
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and only about a 3-4 on the crazy scale


I don’t believe this. That’s almost a unicorn. If she doesn’t have a third eye proceed immediately.

The divorce scenario you proposed is a maybe.
The single mom is a hard no.
The 3/4 on crazy scale is a hard yes.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
42817 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:53 pm to
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and only about a 3-4 on the crazy scale


I don’t believe this. That’s almost a unicorn.


That was in college before the 2 failed marriages.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
60780 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:54 pm to
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Let's discuss a hypothetical situation. You are single male in your mid-30s with a good job and stable lifestyle (aka nonalcoholic or drug addict). You see someone on a dating app who you went to college with. She is hot for an early 30 year old south Louisiana woman. She has a good job. You recall her being cool in college and only about a 3-4 on the crazy scale. Here is the catch she is younger than 35 and been divorced twice. The first marriage was to her high school sweetheart before she even finished college, and shockingly it did not make two years. The second marriage which resulted in 2 kids was to a guy in the military. She blames the divorces on the military lifestyle being too much. There is no baby-momma and baby-daddy because he pays child support and is currently deployed overseas. Lets assume that she has a great pair of mom tits and a nice. Do you message her to begin the dating game, or do you just say "aww hell nah" and avoid the dating game all together? If you begin the game are going to do your best to stay in the game just long enough to PIIHB, or do you stay in the game after you PIIHB and actually start officially dating her? If you do not start officially dating her, why not? Did you cull her because of the giant red flag of multiple divorces? Did you cull her because there is a high likelihood that the military marriage ended due to Jody, etc?


After reading this, she should be worried about how crazy sounding and insecure you are. WTH dude?
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11530 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:55 pm to
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She blames the divorces on the military lifestyle being too much.


This sounds like a prettier way of saying she cheated.
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
22215 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:56 pm to
I would be open to dating her, but that's it. We're not talking kids or marriage. She's not moving in. We're keeping two separate places to stay, I'll get to know her kids but I have no intent to raise them.
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
8467 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:57 pm to
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Dating a woman with multiple divorces


Don’t.
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
8426 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:58 pm to
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stable lifestyle (aka nonalcoholic or drug addict).


Posted by WaterSplashesBack
Member since Sep 2024
809 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:58 pm to
Multiple divorces shows a probable doubling on said crazy scale
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
102337 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:58 pm to
A single woman over 35 is either divorced with baggage or never married with even more baggage. The ones without any baggage, if they even exist, were taken long ago. You can either resolve to deal with the baggage or resolve to stay single. That's your choice, baw. It's up to you.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
42817 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:59 pm to
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After reading this, she should be worried about how crazy sounding and insecure you are. WTH dude?


It's a hypothetical situation. I already know what I would do in the situation. I would say nope and move on. I am culling her because she is likely a cheater and once a cheater, always a cheater, and cheating ho's can't be trusted.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 4:01 pm to
What are circumstances of the divorces?

It’s not always the woman’s fault.


Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
14381 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 4:01 pm to
I’m married, but if single and valued relationships…I’d never date a woman who had been divorced.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
84096 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 4:02 pm to
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That was in college before the 2 failed marriages.


Oh yeah, she’s probably on 2 antidepressants, has a team of therapists and hates men. At most she’s just a girl on your roster, an occasional hookup.

Everyone has different tolerances. My tolerance is currently extremely low for women with issues. When I was younger it was higher. The specific divorce scenario would not necessarily be a deal killer because you don’t know how much of that was the guys issues. Sometimes it’s just a matter of meeting the right person, right?
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
14475 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 4:03 pm to
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Shop lift and get out.


If you give her a stabbing, its one and done. Erase her number.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
51608 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 4:04 pm to
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I’d never date a woman who had been divorced.

Multiple would be red flag. I could get past her having one. Some people get married young, spouse turns into an alcoholic, cheats on you etc.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
14475 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 4:05 pm to
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Can we see the stats of women that get married for the 3rd time and never get divorced?


Believe it or not, 3rd time marriage has a 25% less chance of ending in divorce than the 5th marriage.
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