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re: Could you forgive "emotional cheating"?

Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:19 am to
Posted by rickyh
Positiger Nation
Member since Dec 2003
12459 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:19 am to
I don't know the whole story and I doubt you do either. But if she is emotionally involved with someone else, it is time to step back and find out what made this happen. Always look in the mirror first. Good luck. Are kids involved? Sad situation.
Posted by SelaTiger
Member since Aug 2016
17958 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:20 am to
Oh, so sucking another man’s dick and taking it up the arse is what she calls emotional cheating? If she says it’s emotional or you just believe it to be, it’s for damn sure more.
This post was edited on 12/26/22 at 11:24 am
Posted by St Augustine
The Pauper of the Surf
Member since Mar 2006
64184 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:22 am to
quote:

having emotional conversations with someone else,


I feel like this can be a massive range of things some cheating, others not. Let’s be real a lot of men and women at work spend more time together than they do with their spouses on a daily basis. I think friends/coworkers could get into this territory quite easily at times without any real inclination to cheat on their actual partner.

I think it becomes a much bigger issue when that person kinda supersedes your spouse in certain scenarios like breaking news in something, advice, etc. Also a no go if you’re spending a lot of time continuing to communicate with that person outside of work.
This post was edited on 12/26/22 at 11:28 am
Posted by chrome_daddy
LA (Lower Ashvegas)
Member since May 2004
2054 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:24 am to
quote:

Congratulations on your upcoming divorce
FIFY

Now Get Some!
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128970 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:25 am to
Nope

I survived my divorce….I can survive any breakup now. And I won’t stand for any sort of cheating ever again.

Too many other great people out there and life is too damn short to stick around with a loser of a human.
Posted by Ten Bears
Florida
Member since Oct 2018
3278 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:26 am to
quote:

90% of the time it just means the logistics haven’t worked out in her favor yet and she’s not yet at the stage where she’s being creative enough to get dangerous with it. Like parked in cars or hotel bars


Exactly…
This post was edited on 10/23/23 at 12:17 pm
Posted by boxcarbarney
Above all things, be a man
Member since Jul 2007
22729 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:27 am to
If she's doing that shite, she's testing the waters for a full blown affair.

End that shite now or leave.
Posted by TValley
Member since Dec 2022
306 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:27 am to
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lsunurse
quote:

my divorce
Pics and phone number?
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:28 am to
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Pics and phone number?




sumpin' sumpin' into crazy...
Posted by TValley
Member since Dec 2022
306 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:31 am to
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start catching feels/having emotional conversations with someone
The only reason she has not been railed by this guy, is the logistics haven't worked out.

The minute you go on a 3 day fishing trip she is off to the hotel, IF she doesn't frick the guy in your bed.

Honestly, you have caught her. She has probably already did the dirty deed, and is lying to minimize the damage in divorce court.

Keep the evidence and strike first. You want the kids, the house, and child support.
Posted by davyjones
NELA
Member since Feb 2019
30099 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:38 am to
If by “forgive” you mean maybe be so generous as to bring a little extra piece of food every now and then to the offending spouse in her new permanent home in a secret soundproof bunker underneath one’s house with all the latest in surveillance equipment and double corridor reinforced doors with retinal eye scan entry and exit…….naw no extra rations, ever. And definitely no forgivings.
This post was edited on 12/26/22 at 11:41 am
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
422393 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:39 am to
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Emotional cheating is forgivable to me, but I am also of the mind that the only way that could possibly happen is if I emotionally abandon my wife. So it would definitely fall into mutual fault area.

This is likely the most common scenario.

I don't know if "fault" is the right word, either.
Posted by brgfather129
Los Angeles, CA
Member since Jul 2009
17099 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:42 am to
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Taking the time to build an emotional connection is much worse than a one night stand, in my opinion.



100%
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260293 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:42 am to
No one can answer that until they've been there.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17476 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:46 am to
Cheating is cheating. And no.
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
8171 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:51 am to
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The only reason she has not been railed by this guy, is the logistics haven't worked out.


100% correct.


quote:

Keep the evidence and strike first. You want the kids, the house, and child support.


100% incorrect. Cheating has no impact on settlements.
Posted by Mariner
Mandeville, LA
Member since Jul 2009
1935 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:52 am to
My personal trainer tells me that all of his women clients literally dump their dirty laundry on them and ask for feedback and advice at every session. This is the 2nd trainer to tell me this.

Like my first trainer told me..."I am more than a physical trainer, I am a doctor, a lawyer, a shrink, a marriage and family therapist, and a mechanic." That is how much shite gets dumped on them.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:53 am to
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."I am more than a physical trainer, I am a doctor, a lawyer, a shrink, a marriage and family therapist, and a mechani


old baw has quite the opinion of hissef, doesn't he?
Posted by Mariner
Mandeville, LA
Member since Jul 2009
1935 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 11:58 am to
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old baw has quite the opinion of hissef, doesn't he?


It is not that. What he was saying is that the women come to him for answers/advice on all those subjects and cause an emotional affair.
Posted by GatorPA84
PNW
Member since Sep 2016
4828 posts
Posted on 12/26/22 at 12:41 pm to
I met a guy on a red eye, he spotted my guitar and said what do you do. I sing for a living, country music mixed with a little rock and a little blues
This post was edited on 12/26/22 at 12:42 pm
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