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re: Complicated marriage/legal question involving finances
Posted on 6/11/24 at 4:28 pm to 850SaintsGator
Posted on 6/11/24 at 4:28 pm to 850SaintsGator
1)Don't get married
2) Lawyer up
2) Lawyer up
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Posted on 6/11/24 at 5:17 pm to MyRockstarComplex
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Who are you to question the Lord when he speaks to your wife?
I just noticed the down votes. Sorry I forgot to capitalize the “He”.
Posted on 6/11/24 at 6:35 pm to Ben Hur
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Bump to see if OP was ever reunited with his child.
Yeah, i was reunited with my son on Memorial Day.
I quit responding because this place got thick with helpful suggestions but it was intensely overwhelming.
Things really havent improved but I’ve figured out some answers
I’ll update when there is resolution to it.
I have hope though but it’s good hearing all the kid noises lol
Posted on 6/11/24 at 6:37 pm to 850SaintsGator
Were you the problem or her?
Posted on 6/11/24 at 6:39 pm to 850SaintsGator
She is probably shacking up with another dude and pocketing all that money.
Posted on 6/11/24 at 6:42 pm to Finch
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Were you the problem or her?
I mean, we still need to do therapy but right now, she is still resisting- i don’t see any path forward without it though
She knows we have issues but i think she is afraid of learning why
Right now, she went awol to rest/recuperate again..: it’s been a really rough month for her
Posted on 6/11/24 at 6:43 pm to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
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She is probably shacking up with another dude and pocketing all that money.
It’s been something I’ve wondered for sure but i don’t see any evidence and I’ve done crazy searches lol
Posted on 6/11/24 at 6:47 pm to 850SaintsGator
That’s not a proper update
Posted on 6/11/24 at 6:49 pm to 850SaintsGator
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I mean, we still need to do therapy but right now, she is still resisting- i don’t see any path forward without it though She knows we have issues but i think she is afraid of learning why Right now, she went awol to rest/recuperate again..: it’s been a really rough month for her
Time to hold her accountable and let her know problems aren’t solved by running away and sticking your head in the sand
Honest question: Did you do something so horrible that you can’t be forceful out of fear she will bring it up and leave?
This post was edited on 6/11/24 at 6:50 pm
Posted on 6/11/24 at 6:50 pm to Mr Clean
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That’s not a proper update
It’s still very fluid - we haven’t started therapy so there really isn’t much to update.
The children are safe
Posted on 6/11/24 at 6:54 pm to Finch
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Honest question: Did you do something so horrible that you can’t be forceful out of fear she will bring it up and leave?
No, i just don’t want to do something that may make her snap …we will be having accountable conversations but it’s too raw right now.
Edited:
She was home for a few days and left again/ this time she was alone so i haven’t been stressing because the kids are with me.
Conversation is very limited but she will eventually come home and we will be getting counseling
This post was edited on 6/11/24 at 6:57 pm
Posted on 6/11/24 at 6:57 pm to 850SaintsGator
Good luck man. You need to do some real introspective work.
From the outside it seems like you are in just as much denial as she is.
You need a best friend to slap the shite out of you
From the outside it seems like you are in just as much denial as she is.
You need a best friend to slap the shite out of you
Posted on 6/11/24 at 7:01 pm to 850SaintsGator
Watch a few episodes of Dateline or 20/20. Don't make the same mistakes those guys did and got caught. 
Posted on 6/11/24 at 7:02 pm to Rising
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1)Don't get married to the absolute hottest girl you can convince to say 'yes'
FTFY, and that's 100% what happened here.
Posted on 6/11/24 at 7:05 pm to Finch
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Good luck man. You need to do some real introspective work. From the outside it seems like you are in just as much denial as she is. You need a best friend to slap the shite out of you
I have friends who are walking with me through this - i really only came on here to ask about moving money and ill get in legal trouble
I’ve done some intense introspection on me for sure -
Posted on 6/11/24 at 7:06 pm to 850SaintsGator
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No, i just don’t want to do something that may make her snap …we will be having accountable conversations but it’s too raw right now.
Edited:
She was home for a few days and left again/ this time she was alone so i haven’t been stressing because the kids are with me.
Conversation is very limited but she will eventually come home and we will be getting counseling
Just so we all understand... You are with a woman who repeatedly leaves your kids and you are waiting for counseling?
She abandoned her kids and that makes you want to stay married?
Posted on 6/11/24 at 7:09 pm to 850SaintsGator
What was she doing with the money?
Posted on 6/11/24 at 7:12 pm to Jake88
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What was she doing with the money?
She's secretly building him a custom Volkswagen Beetle with a WRX motor for his birthday.
Posted on 6/11/24 at 7:19 pm to 850SaintsGator
805 everything from your posts indicates that she is moving on and you are not in the future picture as a husband. Most posts in here are spot on she blames you for her current situation and is moving forward and setting herself up financially and getting ready to try and fuk you over. Listen I have been there brother time for you to man up for yourself and your kids. Talk to a lawyer trust me she already has. Treat this as a business now LOVE is out the window. Good luck and remember you don't have to be married to be a great dad still.
Posted on 6/13/24 at 10:06 am to FLBooGoTigs1
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805
Thanks for the update. Glad the kids are safe. I got sucked into this thread on Tuesday only to find out it was from mid-may. I have been checking for updates...glad there was one.
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