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re: Christmas sucks without Kids; Appreciate the blessing
Posted on 12/25/20 at 7:42 am to LSU Coyote
Posted on 12/25/20 at 7:42 am to LSU Coyote
Post a pic of your girls arse but in yoga pants x
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Posted on 12/25/20 at 7:43 am to LSU Coyote
I will pray for the fertility issues my dude. My sister and her husband have gone through the same. It’s been hard on them.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 7:44 am to LSU Coyote
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We had 11yrs of miscarriages and infertility issues.
Maybe the universe is speaking to you and you refuse to listen.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 7:53 am to LSU Coyote
I have a few neices and nephews. I get to do the fun parts of Christmas with them and then go hunting when they get cranky/hungry.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:00 am to LSU Coyote
Good god you are fricking weird.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:03 am to LSU Coyote
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we will be going with "science" to help.
We did that. Got a precious little daughter. Totally worth it
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:03 am to tigerinthebueche
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We had 11yrs of miscarriages and infertility issues.
Maybe the universe is speaking to you and you refuse to listen.
That’s a messed up thing to say
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:04 am to LSU Coyote
I've seen multiple friends/relatives including a cousin who tried for 20+ years to conceive and had given up. Only for it to happen once they had simply given up. I genuinely hope it happens for you. And you could always go with the keep hitting anything you can get a hold of who's capable of giving you one technique.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:05 am to LSU Coyote
First Christmas morning in 30 years I haven’t had a child opening presents at my house on Christmas morning. I’m anxiously waiting for wife (separated) to drop my son off this morning. Been drinking coffee and staring at his pile of gifts for hours now.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:10 am to LSU Coyote
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We had 11yrs of miscarriages and infertility issues.
It is not that easy. If we do make it back together, we will be going with "science" to help.
Almost 8 years with us. Miscarriages, failed IVFs, etc. Anything that could go wrong, did. It drains the hell out of me but that’s a fraction of what my wife has to go through. Wouldn’t wish this process on anyone but it needs to be talk about more.
I used to get really depressed on Christmas but I’ve gotten numb to it. Would do anything to spend the waking hours of the night putting together some bullshite toy for my kids to have. Now it’s just another Christmas where I’ll probably be drunk by noon while wondering if we will ever get to do that.
This post was edited on 12/25/20 at 8:13 am
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:10 am to Cannon
And sometimes you try and try and try.....and it just doesn’t work.
And it becomes a big factor in the strain on your marriage and you end up with no baby, broke and in debt from trying to have said baby, and no marriage.
People always want to say the success stories and the unexpected happy endings where a baby is at the end.
But sometimes, that just isn’t how life works for a person and sometimes you don’t get what you really want. And there never is a baby. So you have to find a way to live your life and enjoy what you have been given.
And it becomes a big factor in the strain on your marriage and you end up with no baby, broke and in debt from trying to have said baby, and no marriage.
People always want to say the success stories and the unexpected happy endings where a baby is at the end.
But sometimes, that just isn’t how life works for a person and sometimes you don’t get what you really want. And there never is a baby. So you have to find a way to live your life and enjoy what you have been given.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:10 am to LSU Coyote
Yes, Christmas is for kids.
You're young enough that you still have time to have some.
You're young enough that you still have time to have some.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:11 am to lsunurse
Merry Christmas, Nurse.
You’re going to get what you want eventually. Rough road now, and it’s easy for me to say it’ll get better and it’ll turn out for the best, but it will.
You’re going to get what you want eventually. Rough road now, and it’s easy for me to say it’ll get better and it’ll turn out for the best, but it will.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:13 am to lsunurse
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And it becomes a big factor in the strain on your marriage and you end up with no baby, broke and in debt from trying to have said baby, and no marriage.
Huge, broke our relationship apart.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:15 am to lsunurse
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This post was edited on 12/18/21 at 11:37 am
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:22 am to DiamondDog
I’m 42 and about to be divorced.
Realistically...
Becoming pregnant is a door that has been shut to me now.
At this point I have to accept that my only shot of a semblance of motherhood...will be if I meet someone with kids and marry them and I get to be a stepmom to them.
Good luck on your journey. Take care of your relationship and nurture it and don’t let the stress of what you want so bad slowly erode it to where it cracks wide open later on.
Realistically...
Becoming pregnant is a door that has been shut to me now.
At this point I have to accept that my only shot of a semblance of motherhood...will be if I meet someone with kids and marry them and I get to be a stepmom to them.
Good luck on your journey. Take care of your relationship and nurture it and don’t let the stress of what you want so bad slowly erode it to where it cracks wide open later on.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:24 am to DiamondDog
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but we have purposed to adopt
Great to hear
So many kids out there that need the love of good people!
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:25 am to LSU Coyote
quote:Sorry to hear this LC. Tragic. Praying you find comfort in the midst of this.
Huge, broke our relationship apart.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:27 am to tigerinthebueche
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Maybe the universe is speaking to you and you refuse to listen.
You exist for your DNA, your DNA doesn’t exist for you
Posted on 12/25/20 at 8:27 am to lsunurse
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That’s a messed up thing to say
Odd comment considering you posted all this shite:
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And sometimes you try and try and try.....and it just doesn’t work.
And it becomes a big factor in the strain on your marriage and you end up with no baby, broke and in debt from trying to have said baby, and no marriage.
quote:
People always want to say the success stories and the unexpected happy endings where a baby is at the end.
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But sometimes, that just isn’t how life works for a person and sometimes you don’t get what you really want. And there never is a baby. So you have to find a way to live your life and enjoy what you have been given.
I’m not criticizing him. Merely pointing out that maybe it’s not meant to be and he needs to try
To find contentment in his current situation.
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