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re: BR teacher adopts student - then starts GoFundMe

Posted on 2/9/18 at 11:55 am to
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138216 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 11:55 am to
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How was she able to adopt if she couldn’t prove she was financially able to do so?


My thought as well. She's now a single mom of 2 making $40k/year without supplemental child support
my guys in Vegas tell me that the smart money is on "the kids were never legally adopted"

The first clue was that she would not have the coin to even afford the adoption process for one American kid, much less two.
This post was edited on 2/9/18 at 11:57 am
Posted by randybobandy
NOLA
Member since Mar 2015
2066 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 11:56 am to
quote:

she can’t pay for their education


As a EBR public school teacher she should know that education is free. I'll send her a couple of #2 pencils for her " crew" LOL
Posted by Brosef Stalin
Member since Dec 2011
41681 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 11:57 am to
She better get used to being single because no man is gonna want her now
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
33107 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 11:58 am to

I actually knew her fairly well before she started collecting black kids.
This post was edited on 2/9/18 at 12:08 pm
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34910 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 11:58 am to
Y’all relax, I got this

Just sent her a salt lamp
Posted by Will Cover
Davidson, NC
Member since Mar 2007
39938 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:00 pm to
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24 year old single female elementary school teacher adopts not one but two boys and then realizes she can’t pay for their education. Well no shite. Young teachers can barely support themselves.


Young and naive, but her heart is in the right place.

So before anyone starts bitching about this guided, but not well-thought out plan of hers, remember this:



and ask yourself, of all the GoFundMe accounts, which one didn't deserve any money and which one actually does?
This post was edited on 2/9/18 at 12:01 pm
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
31349 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:00 pm to
Living with her I’m sure is a much better place than where those two came from so good for her for taking this on. I think people want to criticize her just because, but adoption is a great thing and good for her for pursuing.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138216 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:01 pm to
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DavidTheGnome
could you please adopt a better online personna?
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
33107 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:02 pm to
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my guys in Vegas tell me that the smart money is on "the kids were never legally adopted" The first clue was that she would not have the coin to even afford the adoption process for one American kid, much less two.

The first kid was a student she taught at a low income school. The mom didn't want her kid so she just signed him over to her from what I understand.
This post was edited on 2/9/18 at 3:10 pm
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:02 pm to
So she's thinking...maybe he won't turn me in if he lives with me?

Still, that's a lotta work for the next few years for some BBC.
Posted by LaBR4
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
53497 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:03 pm to
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She better get used to being single because no man is gonna want her now


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This post was edited on 2/9/18 at 12:07 pm
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
31349 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:06 pm to
quote:

could you please adopt a better online personna?



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Posted by nicholastiger
Member since Jan 2004
54202 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:07 pm to
As strict as adoption rules are I'm surprised this went through without knowing of her financial situation.
Posted by Kentucker
Rabbit Hash, KY
Member since Apr 2013
20055 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:08 pm to
So cat ladies are switching to hoarding under-privileged kids now?
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91385 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:09 pm to
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GoFundMe is so overused it's not even funny.


It's essentially a place to collect payments for whatever reason you'd like. It's never been explicitly for disasters and stuff.
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:14 pm to
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I actually knew her fairly well before she started collecting black kids.

Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91385 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:15 pm to
quote:

my guys in Vegas tell me that the smart money is on "the kids were never legally adopted" The first clue was that she would not have the coin to even afford the adoption process for one American kid, much less two.


It's possible she could have done a private adoption through something like CASA which would keep her costs down significantly.
This post was edited on 2/9/18 at 12:16 pm
Posted by LaBR4
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
53497 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:16 pm to
Will not donate, kid has already converted to Hawks and a Falcons fan

This post was edited on 2/9/18 at 12:20 pm
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
45186 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:17 pm to
First, adopting older children, especially those that are more “challenging”, and keeping siblings together is an amazing thing for anyone to do. Those children are better off in her home than in the system even if she needs assistance to raise them. She could have fostered them and received a monthly allowance from the state to help cover some costs but that wouldn’t provide the stability and emotional support those kids might need.

Second, she’s asking private citizens to donate funds for their education. She not asking for tax dollars which they probably qualify for anyway if she can show they are developmentally or educationally behind. I support and private citizen requesting and receiving private donations to meet children’s needs. I always prefer private donations over tax dollars.

Third, by taking these kids in and providing a stable home environment that values education, she is doing society a very real service. Her investment in those kids will likely be the difference between them receiving subsidies over their lifetime or being self-reliant contributors to society.
Posted by LaBR4
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
53497 posts
Posted on 2/9/18 at 12:22 pm to
it's too bad she couldn't adopt more than 2 and give more students a better quality of life
This post was edited on 2/9/18 at 12:34 pm
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