re: Best Dating Apps?

Depends on why she got fat.

Also....it’s your spouse and it ultimately affects their health. If you can’t sit them down and have an honest discussion about their weight gain and show your concern and willingness to support them getting healthier (help to cook healthy items, go to the gym with them, etc)...that’s not good.


It could very well be this woman is just a lazy horrible person who just gave up and assumed she didn’t have to do the work involved to stay healthy and attractive. I’m just playing devil’s advocate.

The best is Hinge distantly followed by Bumble.

You can get a lot of action on Tinder but it's seriously trashy. Tatted up, 1st date, single mom central.

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You should talk to a lawyer. Might want to file first.

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I'm going home Christmas eve. I will be in touch with one as soon as I can.

I own up to my short comings. It takes two to tango. But the absolute worst thing I did was keep my damn mouth shut and encourage her to turn in to a lazy shite. I have regrets especially being naive and thinking that I was supposed to just sit around while I was constantly being run down. I have never cheated on her yet we haven’t had sex in almost 3 years. But I am accused of cheating. There is a lot that I have to be guilty for.


Just wanted to add also I have respect for you nurse. I have read your threads in the past and really appreciate all that I you have been through with your family.

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soon to be ex-wife

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What the hell is she doing on Tinder when she’s not even divorced? Even more so if y’all have kids. Why is she not focusing on improving herself and being a mom instead of jumping online to find some guy to use?

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This divorce will punish me and my kids

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I am really sorry you and your kids have to deal with her selfishness and stupidity. I admire you for being a good father to your kids and wish you and them the best.

I used a dating app once. I met one woman a few days later, married her a year later, and have been with her since.

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Breakdown as far as I’ve experienced:
Tinder: largest number of profiles, but many are fake or inactive. Has the lowest response rates even when you match.
Bumble: slightly smaller pool than Tinder, but less likely to be fake. If you match, slightly more likely to get a response. It puts the most attractive profiles first in the que, so it feels like the girls are hotter, which isn’t really true overall.
OkCupid: fairly small dating pool of nearly exclusively fatties. Significant number of fake profiles that are easy to see. Non-fake matches tend to have a solid response rate.
Hinge: way too small of a dating pool to be useful. It might work in a large market, but it’s useless in a small city.

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This is accurate. The main problem with Hinge is you only get ten right swipes a day. Also, Tinder has some stupid auto ban feature where if you are male and more than 3 women report you for anything, you’re toast. Not only that, there is no appeals process.

Bumble is probably the best by default, but they really need to up their initial response time from 24 hours to at least 72 hours. Ideally it would be a week, but even 72 hours would help. I’ve lost at least half my matches on there because these girls don’t initiate within 24 hours. At least throw them back in your swipe pool or something.

OKCupid is in that PoF/Badoo level of drek. It’s basically the penny stocks of women.

FarmersOnly is a damn joke. I don’t know how they have such an advertising budget because they have frick all in terms of traffic and at least half of it is fake profiles. I have my radius set all the way up to 200 (maybe 250) miles and even then I may find 2-3 chics a month that I genuinely want to swipe right on.

No one has mentioned Hily, but it’s definitely in that OKC/Badoo/PoF territory.

If I had to rank them it would go:

1. Bumble
2. Tinder
3. Hinge
4. FarmersOnly
5. The Rest

Huge drop off after 3 and then another sizable drop off after 4.

Nope

No dating app for me

I'm already too judgey and self-conscious

No way I'm putting myself out for the kind of judgement