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re: Bachelor party on the wife's bday
Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:23 pm to PrincessKitty1026
Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:23 pm to PrincessKitty1026
So i noticed we had a new female posting on the board. I looked at your first few posts and thought "hey, this chick seems alright. She's given clear, thought out, rational opinions that i agree with"
then you posted this:
They may have just gotten married, but that doesnt mean birthdays are any more unique than they would be if they were engaged and in love with each other or dating and in love with each other.
Celebrate wife's birthday before you go.
Make a big deal out of it
then go be with your buddy on his bachelor party
break the bachelor party rules about calling wives to wish her happy birthday and talk to her for a bit
then bury your face in a stripper
then you posted this:
quote:
I understand the yearn to go to your friend's bachelor party, especially that you've received the privilege and honor to become one of his groomsmen. But I think your wife would really appreciate if you made the extra effort to prioritize her and be there with her for her special day. And if the guy is a true friend, he'll understand.
They may have just gotten married, but that doesnt mean birthdays are any more unique than they would be if they were engaged and in love with each other or dating and in love with each other.
Celebrate wife's birthday before you go.
Make a big deal out of it
then go be with your buddy on his bachelor party
break the bachelor party rules about calling wives to wish her happy birthday and talk to her for a bit
then bury your face in a stripper
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 3:24 pm
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:37 pm to Ash Williams
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break the bachelor party rules about calling wives to wish her happy birthday and talk to her for a bit
lol nah. if he goes and does this, he might as well stay home
Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:39 pm to Rouge
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you are a chicken like Tbird is black
I have my doubts on both of you
Admittedly I'm an old chick and with my vast age has come experience. I'd rather celebrate my birthday my usual way with my friends and then have a private celebration with my SO 
Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:40 pm to Ash Williams
Thank you for thinking well of my beliefs. In response to your response, I must respond by stating that I have not said anything regarding her birthdays becoming more or less special than when they were engaged/dating each other. I do not believe in that at all. I also did not understand there was an alternative option to be able to do both, I thought the original question being addressed was inquiring which one to do over the other. But if he's able to fit in both within his schedule, why not? Best of both worlds. Good luck!
Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:47 pm to PrincessKitty1026
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I must respond by stating that I have not said anything regarding her birthdays becoming more or less special than when they were engaged/dating each other
this was more a response tot he OP's question on if married birthdays or more important
quote:
I also did not understand there was an alternative option to be able to do both, I thought the original question being addressed was inquiring which one to do over the other
gotcha, it was discussed at length in the thread about doing both, i thought you were saying that instead of doing both he should spend time with his new wife
quote:
But if he's able to fit in both within his schedule, why not? Best of both worlds
Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:49 pm to Ash Williams
Ah I see, I apologize for the misunderstanding, thank you for the reply back though! Always nice to listen to new perspectives!
Posted on 4/12/17 at 9:46 pm to Prairie Tiger
Well?? What's the upshot? Party or hanging with the wife?
Posted on 4/13/17 at 12:44 pm to Costanza
Happy wife happy life.
It's a bachelor party she and you knows nothing good happens at those. She will use that to weight the situation. Do the right thing and take your wife out. She will gladly reward you on that decision.
It's a bachelor party she and you knows nothing good happens at those. She will use that to weight the situation. Do the right thing and take your wife out. She will gladly reward you on that decision.
Posted on 4/14/17 at 11:52 am to bayouvette
Reading through this thread I see why more than 50% of marriages end in divorce. You gave up the right to act single the day you said "I do." On that day it being all about me ended and it became about we. If you want to continue to go to bachelor parties and party with your friends without her then you should not have gotten married.
Just my thoughts from 17 years of marriage...
Just my thoughts from 17 years of marriage...
Posted on 4/14/17 at 11:55 am to Prairie Tiger
Yeah I think you need to spend that time with your wife unless y'all are separated or what not
Posted on 4/14/17 at 12:02 pm to Prairie Tiger
Easy call. Skip the birthday they come every year. Just make it up for her when you get back
Posted on 4/14/17 at 12:04 pm to TigerTale22
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Reading through this thread I see why more than 50% of marriages end in divorce. You gave up the right to act single the day you said "I do." On that day it being all about me ended and it became about we. If you want to continue to go to bachelor parties and party with your friends without her then you should not have gotten married.
Damn that sounds miserable
Just my thoughts from 10 years of marriage
Posted on 4/14/17 at 12:04 pm to Pelican fan99
quote:and you will have loaded a weapon into her arsenal that will be used for years
Skip the birthday they come every year. Just make it up for her when you get back
Posted on 4/14/17 at 12:08 pm to Ash Williams
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then bury your face in a stripper
Gotta love this board. It's okay to do this, but not allow wife to dance with a man (different thread.)
My wife would encourage me to go to the bachelor party since this happens once in my friend's life (hopefully) and celebrate her bday another day. Guess I'm lucky to have said wife.
Posted on 4/14/17 at 12:08 pm to 777Tiger
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and you will have loaded a weapon into her arsenal that will be used for years
I'm not even married but I know this shite....
Posted on 4/14/17 at 12:09 pm to Prairie Tiger
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What say you OT?
Your first issue is you got married.
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