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re: Bachelor party on the wife's bday

Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:28 pm to
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112623 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:28 pm to
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So, maybe I'm just hoping any future SO will be understanding that he isn't invited to my birthday party.
Understanding? I'd be elated if my wife told me I wasn't invited to hang out with her and 6 other girls.
Posted by Slip Screen
Magnolia, Texas
Member since Jan 2005
2175 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:28 pm to
Unless you wife is 14, I doubt she cares very much about necessarily doing something on her actual birthday. In my experience, as you get older, birthdays are fun to celebrate but less significant events. I would celebrate it the weekend before or after the BP. Just ask her. You;re married so that seems like a logical adult discussion. Anniversaries can be a more touchy subject.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112623 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:28 pm to
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you are a chicken like Tbird is black

I have my doubts on both of you



This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 12:30 pm
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42913 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:30 pm to
Rofl I've lived with a woman for almost 6 years (Not anymore). It was shite.

I haven't been married legally per say, but I played house for sure.

I've been dating ever since. I like have no desire to do that again lol.
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18861 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:30 pm to
Take her out the night before and pay for her and maybe a friend to have a spa day.

She's an adult and shouldn't need to have a big party on her actual bday.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112623 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:30 pm to
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Rofl I've lived with a woman for almost 6 years (Not anymore). It was shite
So I was right?

Be pickier!!!
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42913 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:32 pm to
The dating pool isnt any better Shel LOL
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138154 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:33 pm to
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The dating pool
much deeper these days

Or much more shallow....depending on your perspective
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112623 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:36 pm to
quote:

The dating pool isnt any better Shel LOL

Then don't get married!!!
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42913 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:38 pm to
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Then don't get married!!!


I turn 31 in 12 days. I am happily saying that it does not bother me in any way to not be/get married LOL.

I've been reading too many Goldennugget/Pecker threads...
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
120039 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:40 pm to
Do you have to celebrate it on THAT day? I am sure she will understand. You are in the wedding so its your responsibility to go to the bachelor party. With that said, what are yall doing for the bachelor party?
Posted by iknowmorethanyou
Paydirt
Member since Jul 2007
6614 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:41 pm to
You have a lifetime of disappointing her ahead of you. Might as well start now.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112623 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:43 pm to
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I've been reading too many Goldennugget/Pecker threads...

Whatever you do, do not take Nugget's advice.

In actuality, a lot of what he says in about 1000 words is stuff 99.9% of us know and can repeat in 20 words, meaning, it's mostly useless.
Posted by DuckManiak
Member since Nov 2011
3843 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:43 pm to
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There will be many more birthdays, but only one bachelor party.

50% chance the friend has another bachelor party.

50% chance OP has a new wife's birthday for it.
Posted by oldcharlie8
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2012
7809 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 12:55 pm to
there will only be one bachelor party. she'll have many birthdays.

c'mon. this is not a big decision.

Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:13 pm to
If you're that worried about it, sounds like you married a bitch. If she doesn't understand and isn't ok with doing her birthday stuff on another day, then you have a long difficult road ahead.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:43 pm to
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A friend of mine is having his bachelor party the weekend of my wife's bday.


The weekend or the day? If her birthday is Friday or Sunday and the party is Saturday, you might be okay. If you're going to be at a bachelor party on her actual birthday night, you might be screwed.

ETA:
quote:

Its the saturday during the bachelor party.


RIP OP
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 1:46 pm
Posted by redneck
Los Suenos, Costa Rica
Member since Dec 2003
54158 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 1:48 pm to
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What say you OT?


don't be a bitch. My own bachelor party was during my wifes birthday. In fact, the night of her exact birthday was the night we had private strippers come do a show

luckily, I have a laid back wife who isn't crazy
Posted by Prairie Tiger
Member since Oct 2016
272 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:02 pm to
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My own bachelor party was during my wifes birthday.


That makes no sense. And if you trying to say what i think you are trying to say then i would be going regardless since she wouldnt be my wife and just the gf.
Posted by PrincessKitty1026
Gainesville, FL
Member since Apr 2017
65 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:20 pm to
I understand the yearn to go to your friend's bachelor party, especially that you've received the privilege and honor to become one of his groomsmen. But I think your wife would really appreciate if you made the extra effort to prioritize her and be there with her for her special day. And if the guy is a true friend, he'll understand.
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