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re: Are parents that put their 15 year old daughter on birth control condoning sex or not?

Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:20 am to
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:20 am to
Kids bang at 15; time to get on bc
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
44932 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:22 am to
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you think solid parenting is going to fly in the face of pure hormonal driven primal instincts?
Yea, frick it. Don't even try to parent. Give them birth control, weed, alcohol, pills, etc since they'll do it anyway. Don't try to teach them and give them confidence and self-respect. Just tell them frick anything in sight but make sure you take your pill.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:22 am to
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It condones sex IMO. The last thing I need is to be a grandparent (basically a parent).


The very last thing a teen would wonder if presented an opportunity for sex will be what you as a parent will think.

Pills aren't condoning. Your kid is going to have sex before they are 18.
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:22 am to
I think once these kids' hormones kick in they're capable of sex at anytime they find a willing party. They're naive enough to think they'll never get pregnant or impregnate the partner. It's the parent's responsibility to not be caught up in naivety and actually protect their kids from themselves.
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 11:24 am
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:23 am to
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Yea, frick it. Don't even try to parent. Give them birth control, weed, alcohol, pills, etc since they'll do it anyway. Don't try to teach them and give them confidence and self-respect. Just tell them frick anything in sight but make sure you take your pill.


that's not even close to what i was saying.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:24 am to
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I'm glad I have two boys


So you are ok with them having baby mamas?
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
44932 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:25 am to
What were you saying?
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:25 am to
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Yea, frick it. Don't even try to parent. Give them birth control, weed, alcohol, pills, etc since they'll do it anyway. Don't try to teach them and give them confidence and self-respect. Just tell them frick anything in sight but make sure you take your pill.



Holy over-reaction batman.

Girls with confidence and self-respect aren't hornballs?

I hope you're trolling with this bullshite.


ETA:

I refuse to argue the other point of lumping in birth control with pills and illegal drugs. That's just an embarrassing argument.
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 11:27 am
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:25 am to
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They're naive enough to think they'll never get pregnant or impregnate the partner. It's the parent's responsibility to not be caught up in naivety and actually protect their kids from themselves.





I mean, you're a young dude and a teen girl does this to you and the last thing you're thinking about is responsibility.













































Posted by JohnnyKilroy
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Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:26 am to
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The Mick


You are a really shitty troll. You need to be more subtle.
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
44932 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:28 am to
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You are a really shitty troll.

How am I trolling?
Posted by Chad504boy
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Member since Feb 2005
176333 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:30 am to
bc you're posting quite ignorant fricking garbage.
Posted by Duggars23
Member since Mar 2017
228 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:30 am to
What were you doing at 14?
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:30 am to
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She's not "going to do it anyway" at 15 if she was raised with some class and dignity.


We all know girls who came from great families who liked to slut it up. It happens. Or some guy she really likes tells her he loves her and in a moment of weakness decides to have sex. It happens.

I know that I'd never want to raise a 15 year olds baby.
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
44932 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:33 am to
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Girls with confidence and self-respect aren't hornballs?
Some are for sure. Listen, moms in our community KNOW who does what, all the girls talk and secrets are rarely kept. All I can tell you is that in my experience as a parent of both boys and girls, a small % of kids are banging at 15.



(My comment about illegal drugs was probably stupid but I was more replying to the notion of parenting having no effect. Forget that part please my bad).
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:33 am to
I think the people in here that wouldn't give their kids some type of protection should buddy up with a pediatric doctor or nurse and see how common it is for a 15 year old to get pregnant these days.
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:34 am to
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All I can tell you is that in my experience as a parent of both boys and girls, a small % of kids are banging at 15.


Maybe a troll, maybe not. Definitely naive!
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
298305 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:36 am to
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We all know girls who came from great families who liked to slut it up. It happens. Or some guy she really likes tells her he loves her and in a moment of weakness decides to have sex. It happens.


When we were 16, a H.S. girlfriends parents put her in the pill for various reasons (or so they told her). They were pillars of their community, he was a deacon in a southern Baptist church. It never changed any sexual dynamic between us. She was a good girl, raised "right" and her values didn't change for being in the pill.
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
50500 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:36 am to
Putting a 15 year old birth control is just smart. I don't know a single person that was still a virgin at 16. I got my daughter the implant at 15.

A 16 year old having sex is not the worst thing that can happen. A 16 year old having a baby is close to the top of the list of worst things that can happen.
Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 11:36 am to
If I had a son I would hope like hell this is his HS girlfriend.
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