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Posted on 7/6/14 at 3:52 pm to bird35
Infidelity would not cause a divorce for me.
It would however, cause my funeral. The 9mm is always there. In her purse. In the glove box. Behind the flour.
I would not even have time to run. No give me three steps.
It would however, cause my funeral. The 9mm is always there. In her purse. In the glove box. Behind the flour.
I would not even have time to run. No give me three steps.
This post was edited on 7/6/14 at 3:53 pm
Posted on 7/6/14 at 4:01 pm to BabyrayS2k
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That's just not reality with the modern American woman. It just isn't.
This and third legs post regarding women's modern opportunities sum it up best IMO. Women have an entirely different perspective than they did 40-50 years ago. Add to that the fact that they can achieve financial independence without their husband and the result is what we see today.
Posted on 7/6/14 at 4:05 pm to CorkSoaker
See you in September
Posted on 7/6/14 at 4:08 pm to Bullfrog
You're assuming that you're the only one who would be cheating, here.
Posted on 7/6/14 at 4:20 pm to CrazyTigerFan
yepPosted on 7/6/14 at 4:30 pm to RedRifle
Women becoming lesbian. That's the new "in" thing.
Posted on 7/6/14 at 4:34 pm to tigerinthebueche
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IMO. Women have an entirely different perspective than they did 40-50 years ago.
In other words. .... These hoes ain't loyal.
Posted on 7/6/14 at 4:56 pm to BabyrayS2k
No. In other words bitches have more options today and don't have to settle
Posted on 7/6/14 at 5:11 pm to CorkSoaker
They have more options until their late 30s. Then men have the options. Men age like wine. Women age like milk. Then they wish they had "settled".
Posted on 7/6/14 at 5:21 pm to RedRifle
Most divorces are due to stupidity--the stupidity of thinking you could live with that (ho or cockroach, depending on gender) for a lifetime.
Posted on 7/6/14 at 5:37 pm to jonboy
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A marriage is long over by the time infidelity happens.
this.
Posted on 7/6/14 at 6:28 pm to RedRifle
If it were only that simple. Infidelity is frequently a sign of or reaction to a much more complicated issue. It is usually just a surface thing.
Posted on 7/6/14 at 6:30 pm to biglego
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I thought money was the main cause
Posted on 7/6/14 at 6:31 pm to Geauxtiga
"The perception is that people stay together for the kid. It's really not the case. What happens is, with kids in the house, THEY become "your life" and you grow apart.
When you realize something, the kids are gone...and so is your relationship since it missed nuturing from being consumed with trying to be a good parent. The parents mean well and think they're doing what's best- and really, they are- just over-looking THEIR relationship."
Sadly, this happens all too frequently. If the male feels isolated, he goes hunting elsewhere. If the female feels ignored, she does likewise. At that point it is just a matter of time before all comes tumbling down.
When you realize something, the kids are gone...and so is your relationship since it missed nuturing from being consumed with trying to be a good parent. The parents mean well and think they're doing what's best- and really, they are- just over-looking THEIR relationship."
Sadly, this happens all too frequently. If the male feels isolated, he goes hunting elsewhere. If the female feels ignored, she does likewise. At that point it is just a matter of time before all comes tumbling down.
Posted on 7/6/14 at 7:06 pm to damnedoldtigah
I'm going to warn you: I'm being cynical.
If there is one thing I have learned in my 7 years of marriage, it requires work. Both people have to show up. One person cannot carry the burden of a relationship alone.
In 2014, what incentive do most women have to work at a relationship? Money is a very common problem. Women typically have 0 to worry about in a divorce, and barring anything crazy, they'll get a check from their husband which will really help that whole issue.
I've had two friends who's wives just up and decided they "didn't want to be married" anymore. And barring anything just crazy, they had zero chance of not being taken to the cleaners should their exes ask for it.
If there is one thing I have learned in my 7 years of marriage, it requires work. Both people have to show up. One person cannot carry the burden of a relationship alone.
In 2014, what incentive do most women have to work at a relationship? Money is a very common problem. Women typically have 0 to worry about in a divorce, and barring anything crazy, they'll get a check from their husband which will really help that whole issue.
I've had two friends who's wives just up and decided they "didn't want to be married" anymore. And barring anything just crazy, they had zero chance of not being taken to the cleaners should their exes ask for it.
This post was edited on 7/6/14 at 7:39 pm
Posted on 7/6/14 at 7:55 pm to elprez00
Money. Also, I don't think women are submissive as they once were. As for men, I don't think they're devoted as a provider as they once were. The amount of wealth we have in this country gives people options, and they don't have to rely on their spouse as much. I also think young adults are staying too connected to their parents, which causes issues.
Posted on 7/6/14 at 8:07 pm to RedRifle
Finances. Infidelity isn't always found out but finances are up in everybody's face.
Posted on 7/6/14 at 8:22 pm to BabyrayS2k
People get divorced because they have a false idea that marriage is about their own personal happiness.
Posted on 7/6/14 at 8:46 pm to Tiger Ryno
As I get older, I am getting more and more disillusioned with the idea of marriage. This of course could be that I haven't met "the one" yet, but at the same time, it seems like even "happily married" couples seem to just go through the motions after a while. I like the idea of being able to move at my own pace but understand that life could get lonely after a while.
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