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Anyone here have experience with their kids and ADHD?

Posted on 2/2/19 at 12:28 am
Posted by Prominentwon
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Posted on 2/2/19 at 12:28 am
I’m not talking about Bobbi Jo in the trailer park telling the street doctor her son won’t settle down while she’s trying to watch her stories just to get an Adderall script.

I’m talking legit ADHD to the point where it effects their behavior which in turn puts pressure on you as a parent to find the right path to go down to handle it correctly without letting it get too far, while at the same time, not damaging his/her psyche.
This post was edited on 2/2/19 at 12:30 am
Posted by biglego
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Posted on 2/2/19 at 12:29 am to
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I’m not talking about Bobbi Jo in the trailer park telling the street doctor her son won’t settle down


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I’m talking legit ADHD to the point where it effects their behavior


You’re talking about the same thing.
Posted by SEClint
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Posted on 2/2/19 at 12:29 am to
Pics of Bobbi Jo?
Posted by Prominentwon
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Posted on 2/2/19 at 12:32 am to
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Pics of Bobbi Jo?


‘Murica


Posted by SEClint
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Posted on 2/2/19 at 12:34 am to
Bet she gives great head though.
Posted by lsu1919
Member since May 2017
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Posted on 2/2/19 at 12:35 am to
Need some info about the kid. If it’s an 8-16 year old boy, he doesn’t have shite. He’s just a boy. Do some activities that teach patience and focus and teach him there’s a time and a place to sit down and be still.

Teachers are some of the worst about “prescribing” ADHD because little johhny won’t sit for 8 hours a day in a desk and not move. No shite he won’t.

End rant. Good luck with your child bro.
Posted by Sao
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Posted on 2/2/19 at 12:37 am to

What are you seeing in terms of sleep habits?
Posted by Prominentwon
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Posted on 2/2/19 at 12:40 am to
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Need some info about the kid. If it’s an 8-16 year old boy, he doesn’t have shite. He’s just a boy. Do some activities that teach patience and focus and teach him there’s a time and a place to sit down and be still.


I used to think this way, but what if there’s no response to any of this? When it’s just forgotten about within ten minutes? Every punishment has a silver lining. No responses to much of anything else.

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Teachers are some of the worst about “prescribing” ADHD because little johhny won’t sit for 8 hours a day in a desk and not move. No shite he won’t.


Where has it been said the teacher prescribed the ADHD?


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End rant. Good luck with your child bro.



You have kids?
Posted by SuwMwf
Member since Jul 2012
1055 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 12:43 am to
Unfortunately, we have had to walk this path. Focus and impulsivity were the biggest problems for my child. Right now she is on a stimulant on school days only. She’s 10 and we had her diagnosed at the schools urging at age 9. Supposedly the medications only work on average 9-11 months then you need to change. I don’t know if she will take a stimulant for her entire academic life, but right now it is working well. Model student with good to decent grades in a tough school. Genetically we are all well achieving and very ADD as a family including the grandparents. I believe that in a professional setting she will be fine. It’s just hard in a classroom setting.
Posted by Prominentwon
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Posted on 2/2/19 at 12:43 am to
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What are you seeing in terms of sleep habits?


Sleeps all night. No problems. Wakes up way easier than my 9 year old.


We haven’t seen a doctor or anything yet but we’re considering it. Nothing seems to be helping and I’m out of options and patience.

We’ve pretty much narrowed it down to this because he checks off each and every one of these bullet points.

LINK
Posted by Prominentwon
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Member since Jan 2005
95090 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 12:46 am to
quote:

Unfortunately, we have had to walk this path. Focus and impulsivity were the biggest problems for my child.


The link I posted was a link about impulsivity. We haven’t gotten that far as far as being diagnosed. But was meds the only option? I really don’t want a zombie for a kid.

He’s in a very highly successful school and his teacher has flat out said that he’s “one of my best kids, if not the best kid” in the class. But we’re struggling with tiny issues every single day. Problem is that they add up.
Posted by Kimist
Member since Nov 2011
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Posted on 2/2/19 at 12:55 am to
Document what you observe. Have teachers do the same. Don't listen to people who don't think it exists, which will be 75% of those on this board. See a doctor.

It may be determined that your child doesn't have it. Mine was always getting in trouble before being prescribed medication. That stopped within the first week of taking it. School improved dramatically. If they don't have ADHD, medication could make it worse, since it is a stimulant, not a depressant.

Not every active kid has it, but some definitely do. Seeing them take a stimulant and immediately calm down and be able to concentrate should convince anybody.



Posted by Bullfrog
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Member since Jul 2010
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Posted on 2/2/19 at 1:01 am to
Good luck with the kid.

I’ve heard that TV and video game playing can lead to more adhd behaviors. With screen refresh rates and constantly changing stimuli of the action on the screen, the brain is trained to act before thinking.

Personally, I’ve seen this in nieces and nephews where the TV was the babysitter and we made damn sure this was not the case for our kids.
Posted by SuwMwf
Member since Jul 2012
1055 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 1:04 am to
She is not a zombie. This was my biggest concern. She’s social, happy and mostly more organized than her classmates. Pays attention to detail for the most part. (Medication is not 100 percent) Yes, medication is totally needed. Counseling is a big help, because self esteem issues can go hand in hand with attention disorders. We had her dna tested to see what medications she tolerated and basically how her genetic makeup made her susceptible to other mental illnesses and interactions with medications. It was a test by a company called genomind. The test also showed how she processed essential acids normally found in the brain. How she would process stimulants and non stimulants was also included. It’s not unusual for add kids to not process folate well, which is an essential brain health amino acid. She needs additional l-methylfolate. You can order this vitamin off of amazon or get an Rx for deplin. It really helps in addition to the stimulant and SOME kids benefit from only the l-mthylfolate.

The problems do add up. Each school year there will be more. It does not sound like you are saying he has a behavior problem. At this point we feel confident that she is working to her potential and is happy with her performance (self esteem is big in kids Dx with ADD and ADHD). Find a great psychiatry group. Do ALL the expensive testing. We did IQ, Wisc? Wyat?. Sorry I don’t have the name of the tests in front of me. Do the genetic testing, then go from there.
Posted by Prominentwon
LSU, McNeese St. Fan
Member since Jan 2005
95090 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 1:19 am to
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self esteem is big in kids Dx with ADD and ADHD


He’s already said himself that “he’s a bad kid” and “he’s not smart.”

And none of that can be farther from the truth.
Posted by LoneStarRanger
Texas/Europe
Member since Aug 2018
2404 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 1:47 am to
That is the worst thing you can do to a child. I was on medications for bs like this, and it fricked me up for a good amount of time. There’s a reason why all mass shooters are on a psychotropic drug. It’s all fricking bs.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20260 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 1:49 am to
I was diagnosed as having it, but I feel like most kids have it quite honestly. Think about kids that age, they’re wired to be outside running around all day playing, learning to fight, clean, cook and actively be doing things.

Your kid just needs to be outside more and more physically active. Try karate, some type of outdoor learning activities.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20260 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 2:01 am to
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If they don't have ADHD, medication could make it worse, since it is a stimulant, not a depressant.


This is false. Stimulants help most people focus better. Why do you think everybody drinks so much coffee?
Posted by SuwMwf
Member since Jul 2012
1055 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 2:15 am to
Tell the school that. Surely they will let little baw be outside more than his classmates because he needs it. I agree the kids do need to be moving and engaged all day long, but that is simply not feaseable unless you put them in an alternative school. Personally my daughter needs the socialization of her classrooms of 22-24. An 8-12 peer classroom would be horrible for her.
Posted by Prominentwon
LSU, McNeese St. Fan
Member since Jan 2005
95090 posts
Posted on 2/2/19 at 2:25 am to
My kid is outside a lot as well. Plays basketball. We’re doing baseball lessons. He’s reading books. Outside running with the dogs. Etc etc.

Admittedly, he has a tablet but like any other kids, he watches YouTube. And that’s about it.

I was expecting these on-the-surface type responses but I’m learning as we go that it’s a bit deeper than “send him outside and play.”
This post was edited on 2/2/19 at 2:31 am
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