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re: Anxiety is crippling my cousins daughters

Posted on 3/29/26 at 1:59 pm to
Posted by Harlan County USA
Member since Sep 2021
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Posted on 3/29/26 at 1:59 pm to
The flight. A combination of motion sickness and nerves.
Posted by Harlan County USA
Member since Sep 2021
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Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:02 pm to
The younger one for sure has.
Posted by slinger1
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2017
424 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:04 pm to
That’s what happens when you’re taught to be dependent and not independent
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
24233 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:06 pm to
The height of the covid insanity was a little more than 5 years ago so one would have been finishing up high school while the other was starting high school. So many people sounded the alarm that forcing people to have less interactions with other humans was a bad idea for people. Especially kids that are learning how to socialize in school.

It isnt the entire reason for the downturn in young people's mental health, but it definitely contributed.
This post was edited on 3/29/26 at 2:10 pm
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
6476 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:10 pm to
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That’s what happens when you’re taught to be dependent and not independent


People won't like this, but you're right. Not teaching independence is a form of neglect. That's why so many people are high strung nowadays. They have the resilience of a wet tissue paper.
Posted by Harlan County USA
Member since Sep 2021
786 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:11 pm to
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About half our young adults are on anxiety, depression, ADD/ADHD meds


Forgot to mention they've had the 19yr old on Zoloft. She stopped using it and apparently her anxiety came back. I told them to find other types of help, exercise, activities, something besides popping pills.
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
6476 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:14 pm to
For people saying that joining the military is good for them - I disagree. The military will take someone that fragile and turn them into a gibbering mess. People need a strong base to build upon. Confidence doesn't spring forth from weakness. A person needs to have developed confidence from failing and succeeding over years of trials and tribulations.
Posted by Zgeo
Baja Oklahoma
Member since Jul 2021
3646 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:16 pm to
Do they still have “ Outward Bound”?
Posted by TulsaSooner78
Member since Aug 2025
2743 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:33 pm to
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Pretending like the fear mongering, guilt tripping, zoom classing, isolation didn't frick up a subset of kids is crazy.


It is overblown. It was an inconvenience. People have suffered much worse in their lives. What about people who were kids in Europe during WWI or WWII? They saw multiple family members die and had their homes destroyed, but somehow, they went on to have normal lives.
Posted by Harlan County USA
Member since Sep 2021
786 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:34 pm to
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If the dad had the sense, and the balls, to do that he wouldn’t be in this situation.


He has neither.

I think it comes from his dad dying when he was 8yr old.
Posted by slinger1
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2017
424 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:38 pm to
Agreed 100%, they don’t have to agree, just look around, kids live with their parents into and beyond their 30s, on the dole,rent free insurance paid, not the way it works
Posted by TulsaSooner78
Member since Aug 2025
2743 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:41 pm to
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industries pop up to address the needs.


^^ this right here ^^

People smell blood and they convince you that they can fix you for a small fee, of course. Then it drags on and on. They keep finding reasons for you to come back and pay them more money. It becomes an addiction, just like a drug.
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
11139 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:46 pm to
Not knowing the situation, it may be time for tough love. Throw them in the deep end and let them swim.

But… If it’s real anxiety, it’s a terrifying condition. They need a psychiatrist. They know exactly what they’re going through and can prescribe meds if necessary.
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
33450 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:46 pm to
Tell them to stop vaping
Posted by TulsaSooner78
Member since Aug 2025
2743 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:49 pm to
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if a child struggling in a strange place hours away then this isn’t your typical “tough shite” situation.


A 24-year-old who is in pharmacy school?

That person is an adult, not a child.

It takes 3 hours to fly from Dallas to Los Angeles. Suck it up and get on the plane instead of calling Mommy and Daddy.
Posted by dalefla
Central FL
Member since Jul 2024
4109 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 2:56 pm to
But the VA will give them a check for life over the service induced PTSD after only one enlistment.

Posted by TexasTiger89
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2005
26769 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 3:01 pm to
They need psychiatric help with meds.
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
9795 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 3:41 pm to
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You’re such a fricktwat.


Why is this your opinion?
Posted by zippyputt
Member since Jul 2005
7067 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 3:42 pm to
That situation needs professional help like counseling. Get them help asap. Clinical Social worker or Clinical Psychologist is probably the best choice. Good luck.
Posted by bdavids09
Member since Jun 2017
1495 posts
Posted on 3/29/26 at 3:53 pm to
Yeah coddling them may seem to help short term but it’s actually hurting their growth.
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