re: Affair advice-UPDATE page 19

I hope this blows up in his face.

Did anyone not ever tell you:

Don’t shite where you sleep.
Don’t swim in the company pool.
Don’t dip your pen in the company ink.

And frick you. Your FOUR kids are likely under the age of 8. You and that hag seem like real prizes.

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Find a good divorce lawyer, you're gonna need him.

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Nah, he's fricked with this thread detailing everything.

The ghost of Cochran couldn't save him at this point.

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Because you don't ruin the lives of your children and destroy their sense of love and worth without absolutely hating them.

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Absolutely! We have millions of these children dealing with betrayal by a parent. It really is heartbreaking the damage it does to these kids.

A curse on this douchebag's head.

That girl was pretty damn hot. Dunno how that dumb arse thought he'd get away with that though

I hope her husband finds you and beats you to a bloody pulp then your wife leaves you for him and you’re forced to live off pork & beans because virtually all your paycheck goes to child support.

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What great advice does the OT have?

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Please Doooooo Ittttt!
I need some solidarity in making the biggest mistake ever!

When the truth comes out, it almost always will. You better take a hard look in the mirror and ask if it was worth it. Your wife and kids deserve better, man.

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With her family life and especially mine there seems to be no solution to this situation.

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Oh, there's a solution, my friend. Put an end to it, find a new job, find a new city, get 100% away from the situation. That ain't gonna guarantee that your wife doesn't find out and wind up dumping your arse on the curb, and she'd be right to do so. Then you also now have the issue of a jilted lover who may go full Fatal Attraction on you.

Do wedding vows mean nothing to you? What the f***, man?

From another similar thread:



Juice ain’t worth the squeeze, trust me


But...I understand the thrill. It’s taboo. It’s cloak and dagger, sneaking around. It’s a high, a rush.

But it leaves a trail of broken people in its wake. And it’s broken you too, whether you realize it yet or not.

Only hard step is the first one. After that it’s a mad sprint into the bosom of iniquity. You’ll throw everything that really matters away chasing that high.

You’re tainted now. An oathbreaker. Somewhere deep in you you’ll feel a poison fester and eat at you. You might try to confess in a futile attempt to alleviate your guilt.

Don’t. You’ll just break more hearts.

You did the deed. Just take it to your grave.

Once you peek behind the curtain you can’t unsee the wizard

Starts out just opportunity arse...but the thrill and the high are what keeps you doing it.


It's the rush. The taboo nature of it. It starts out small...there are the little things, the flirting, the "oh no, we shouldn't"...

Next thing you know you're in each other's arms and kissing and the chemistry is exploding. It's an incredible high. A damn drug.

Then the sneaking around, what a rush.

And sure it's Stupid

But it's exhilarating. And every time you swear it's the "last time"

That "we can't do this anymore".

But everything stemming from the dying relationship at home simply serves to reinforce the bad behaviour. To drive you to your lover's arms in a stolen embrace, in a secret place.
And my God is it hot.

Because it isn't real. It's a fantasy. And it only ends in tragedy but while you are on it the ride is incredible.



The only hard step is the first one.

After that it's as easy as can be. The excuses flow like wine.

And people in the throes of a torrid affair will do damn near anything to protect and continue it.

Even when they're caught. Even when they've been damn near busted in the act, they'll try and weasel their way out of it.

Behaviour not unlike a junkie.

They are in a fog. They either refuse to see or just don't care about who they hurt because it feels so damn good. And there's no cure. Relapse is high.

The best advice is not to start. Because you'll fall in that hole no matter how "careful" you try to be