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Accepting a counter offer?

Posted on 8/26/21 at 9:38 am
Posted by texasmason
Dallas
Member since Apr 2019
1300 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 9:38 am
I got a job offer for a new company and my current employer is trying to counter their offer to get me to stay.

Pretty sure if I accept the counter and if anything goes wrong I would be the first to be let go since they know I have already looked elsewhere.

Both offers are better than my current salary and incentive package.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
25455 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 9:39 am to
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Pretty sure if I accept the counter and if anything goes wrong I would be the first to be let go since they know I have already looked elsewhere


If your company and/or boss takes business personal you want to take the new job anyway.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 9:41 am to
I'm of the opinion that you never take a counter offer. There's a reason you sought out another position, and if your current company didn't see your worth until you were ready to leave, they likely never will.
Posted by PoppaD
Texas
Member since Feb 2008
4921 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 9:41 am to
You have to man up and make your own decision instead of advice from message board people.

Why were you looking in the first place or did a recruiter contact you about the new opportunity?

Which option gives the best chance of advancement to meet your future goals?
Posted by Saskwatch
Member since Feb 2016
16571 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 9:42 am to
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Pretty sure if I accept the counter and if anything goes wrong I would be the first to be let go since they know I have already looked elsewhere.


Sounds like there are other companies that would likely give you a good shot on coming on board if you got let go from current position

quote:

Both offers are better than my current salary and incentive package.


Why would you not take this if you are uneasy about current employment?
Posted by TigerHuck
Member since Oct 2007
481 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 9:43 am to
What spleen said. I also guarantee you that your bosses boss will always have the fact that you almost left in the back of their mind come promotion, lay offs etc.
Posted by rebel cat
Member since Mar 2020
1565 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 9:46 am to
Ask for a singing bonus.
Posted by KamaCausey_LSU
Member since Apr 2013
14538 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 9:48 am to
If you expect something to "go wrong" in the near future with your current company, you should probably jump ship.

If you're happy with your current position and the issue was just pay/benefits, you should stay.
Posted by tennesseetiger21
Member since Feb 2021
30 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 9:50 am to
I accepted a counter once and regretted it. I was recently again in the same scenario and chose to leave.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
25455 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 9:51 am to
quote:

I'm of the opinion that you never take a counter offer. There's a reason you sought out another position, and if your current company didn't see your worth until you were ready to leave, they likely never will.


I get at least 3 LinkedIn messages a week. I haven't been looking to leave but I have interviewed and gotten 2 other offers. Neither were good enough to leave, but I didn't seek either of those.
Posted by DWaginHTown
Houston, TX
Member since Jan 2006
9860 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 9:55 am to
quote:

Ask for a singing bonus.


He might not be a good singer.
Posted by southside
SW of Monroe
Member since Aug 2018
585 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 10:04 am to
LEAVE. If you work at a place where you felt under payed but felt so uncomfortable with management that you couldn't conversate about it then its time go anyway.
Posted by TexasTiger90
Rocky Mountain High
Member since Jul 2014
3576 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 10:09 am to
Think about why you wanted to leave in the first place. If it wasn't strictly about the money, you're better off taking the outside offer, because the original problem will still be there.
Posted by OLDBEACHCOMBER
Member since Jan 2004
7193 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 10:13 am to
If you accept the counter offer, they won't give you a raise the next 2 years.
Posted by KTShoe
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2020
478 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 10:29 am to
I was once told when contemplating a counter offer, “the money will be different but the atmosphere will be the same if not worse”.
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
20481 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 10:40 am to
quote:

Pretty sure if I accept the counter and if anything goes wrong I would be the first to be let go since they know I have already looked elsewhere.


If this is in play then why is this whole thing a question? Leave.

But to be fair sometimes it takes that extra motivation for management to get their shite together to find the money for you. I don't think a blanket statement works in this situation, no one understands your company or situation more than you.

But yes if you want to be working on upward mobility then you need to be working at a place that values it and values someone always looking to work hard and move up. If they are going to be frustrated and treat you poorly then its not somewhere to be.
Posted by siliconvalleytiger
Bay Area, CA
Member since Apr 2004
31158 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 10:43 am to
quote:

I'm of the opinion that you never take a counter offer. There's a reason you sought out another position, and if your current company didn't see your worth until you were ready to leave, they likely never will.


Spot on. Plus most people who take counters leave within a year anyway. Because mentally you’ve decided to leave.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 10:48 am to
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Spot on. Plus most people who take counters leave within a year anyway. Because mentally you’ve decided to leave.




Yep. Counter offers are usually short term thinking to prevent the loss of productivity while a replacement is found.
Posted by TaderSalad
mudbug territory
Member since Jul 2014
24656 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 10:50 am to
quote:

I'm of the opinion that you never take a counter offer. There's a reason you sought out another position, and if your current company didn't see your worth until you were ready to leave, they likely never will.



Damn, spleen, I didnt know you were this smart
Posted by coonarse
Kingwood TX
Member since Nov 2007
374 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 11:11 am to
I have done this twice in the 18 years I have been with my current company. Both times the job offers were unsolicited, never was I looking for a new job. Both times- went to my manager and told them I had an offer, that my preference would be to stay with my current employer, but would not be able to justify passing up the increased income the new offer would provide. Showed the offer letters to my manager both times. Was given counter offers that matched or surpassed the competing offer both times. just my experience, I am sure others have had a different experience.
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